"Men dont want a ready-made family"
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25 min of this chick's car ride opinions? I'm good.
My all time favorite is "real men will step up". That one is the go to by both men and women.Whenever men tell women the same thing all the women scream "UGH UGH! Men want me just fine, I have 5 kids (By 6 different guys) and men still want to be with me!!"...
4 billion women in the world, why would a stable, financially secure cat want a ready made family or want to play "house" with a single mother?
4 billion women in the world, why would a stable, financially secure cat want a ready made family or want to play "house" with a single mother?
the irony is some cats actually do want that, just not with a chicken head looking for a come up.
As a single man who is divorced, if i settle down again, i want a woman who has a kid or 2 and not looking for anymore.
my son will be 17 this year, i'm not looking to start over.
i've always heard dudes talking about not taking care of another man's kid/s and laughed, i am the man i am today because someone stepped up and married my mom who had kids. lately i've been hearing a lot of single women say they don't want a man with kids for the same reason dudes say it:
my son will be 17 this year, i'm not looking to start over.
i've always heard dudes talking about not taking care of another man's kid/s and laughed, i am the man i am today because someone stepped up and married my mom who had kids. lately i've been hearing a lot of single women say they don't want a man with kids for the same reason dudes say it:
- you don't have time for me
- i'm not your priority
- i want to experienced all the first things of having a kid together, it's not fun if you experienced them already
- etc
I know I aint about to “step-up” into no shit. That’s figuratively and literally! I got my own problems and I am single with no kids. I ain’t about to “step-up” into nobody’s mess! Shit you made the mess now clean it up. After going through what I went through by myself I aint about to play captain! I aint nobody’s “clean up man”. Keep-it!
ready made fams are legit, u can come in, do you and if it goes south be out and u ain't lose nothin but time. no child support, no custody battles, no dead beat label. Meanwhile she has incentive
2 keep u around. It's a new day, bitches getting preggo at 18 and 19 everywhere.
lemonade that shit bruv
2 keep u around. It's a new day, bitches getting preggo at 18 and 19 everywhere.
lemonade that shit bruv
Just told my homeboy the same thing recently. Women learn the hard way thinking I'm leave James because he done got boring etc. All he do it work and wanna go out every now and then. They be thinking they'll find another man who is financial stable/employed and will want them. Nope that shit ain't happening. I know 1 guy from college who married a girl with 4 fucking kids. When he met her the youngest was like 2-4 years old and she was already single. Now 5 years later they married and he works a second job at Lowe's to support them. He always was kind of slow.
I found out when I was younger, a lot of cats have no exposure to different types and access to women, and some love misery. Lame and non progressive cats are happy with 1 car, 1 or 2 sources of income, 1 house, and 1 woman with kids.
The fucking sucker life aka the American Dream is popular.
If a judge feels that you entered into the role of father figure, you WILL have to pay child support, even if it's known that that child isn't yours.
Please explain it to him again.
I admittedly almost fell into the trap a few years ago. The sex was off the meat-rack, and she was cool as fuck.
I came back down to reality when she talked about her kids coming over to my spot.
Nope
There are PLENTY of females out there in their 20s who didn't make the mistake of having a kid.
I came back down to reality when she talked about her kids coming over to my spot.
Nope
There are PLENTY of females out there in their 20s who didn't make the mistake of having a kid.
There can be a little bit of a double standard when it comes to dating a man with a kid or two versus a woman with the same. I have a girlfriend who married two different men who had a child from a previous relationship and she stepped into the role of step-mom humbly. Mind you, the case may not have been the same if it were the other way around. If you care for the person enough, it may not even come up as a huge factor - or you may not even date her, in the first place, because of your aversion to dating a person with kids. To each his own...
I'm getting older and if I want kids, the options are younger women or step daddy. And while smashing young chicks is cool, I aint met one I could wife.
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bingo! But it should be easy enough to distance yourself enough if your not looking to do the father role.. If you get attached easily , what I said isn't the thing to do
If you don't adopt the little niggas they are not your responsibility. Also I wouldn't wife up a chick who kids dad wasn't taking responsibility of them. Says a lot about her judgement. Not saying she can make him be a daddy to his kids but she can at least put him on papers for legal responsibility. To me child support is for men/women who don't have shit to do with a kid .
to be put on child support you need to have his SS number or have a full name and valid address for him to be served and appear in court. some chicks don't have that info, dudes don't use their government names on the streets and some of these chicks only know them by their street names.
some dudes live one place and do dirt in other spots.
my point, it's not always easy for these women to track these dudes down.
some women just don't want to be bothered with the men and would rather have them out of their lives completely.
4 billion women in the world, why would a stable, financially secure cat want a ready made family or want to play "house" with a single mother?
Bravo! I could not have stated it any better!
I came back down to reality when she talked about her kids coming over to my spot.
Nope
There are PLENTY of females out there in their 20s who didn't make the mistake of having a kid.
I tried it once, shit lasted 2 weeks. I was in my early 20s, and I knew her from highschool. Saw her on Myspace and figured why not. still looked the same in pics. She came through the spot just to chill. Made out and some other shit. No mention of kids the entire time!!! Hit her up a few days later and was like I wanna see you, whats good??? Chick was like wanna meet me at the park, Ill bring my kids......... Saywhasayhungh??? This bitch in her early 20s had 2 muthafuckin kids!!! I went to the park, and quickly realized... I cant stand muthafuckin kids!!! Hate them muthafuckas. If I have kids Ill hate them little muthafuckas too, Ill just love them cause they mine. Anyway, ended up ghosting the bitch, and once I found out she had kid, I wasnt even tryin to fuck anymore. Naaaaa mayne, that extra fertile bitch wasnt gonna trip me up.
So she got a kid and no wedding ring, guess you can’t talk about it if you don’t live it.
Problem is women get confused, just because you can get a guy to fuck you. Don’t mean you can get a guy to be with you and wife you. So they come to this illusion I can pull any man. But real men already size you up, and your just a jump off from there.
Problem is women get confused, just because you can get a guy to fuck you. Don’t mean you can get a guy to be with you and wife you. So they come to this illusion I can pull any man. But real men already size you up, and your just a jump off from there.
No they don't, but men have been done it for years and continue to do it.
What she said early on his right: men don't want a ready-made family. If a man doesn't have kids, and you do don't be surprised if all you get is sex from him"
She's right. Those kids are her mistakes not mine. Yes, I said mistakes. IMO if you had a kid and never even been engaged, you are making a lifelong commitment to somebody who wasn't willing to make a commitment to you and as a man who doesn't have kids I don't want a chick who has kids. Why? Because you never get to spend time with the woman alone.
White women and conservatives love talking about anti-abortion... Publicly... But privately, as one white girl told me, "my mother told me that if I ever want to get married I'd better swallow or abort them because no man wants a ready-made family"
She told me she had had 3 abortions already, but the conversation we just came from publicly she shamed every woman who has had abortions.
White conservatives ain't nothing but hypocrites because you don't know what they do and they know you don't know what they do
She's right. Those kids are her mistakes not mine. Yes, I said mistakes. IMO if you had a kid and never even been engaged, you are making a lifelong commitment to somebody who wasn't willing to make a commitment to you and as a man who doesn't have kids I don't want a chick who has kids. Why? Because you never get to spend time with the woman alone.
White women and conservatives love talking about anti-abortion... Publicly... But privately, as one white girl told me, "my mother told me that if I ever want to get married I'd better swallow or abort them because no man wants a ready-made family"
She told me she had had 3 abortions already, but the conversation we just came from publicly she shamed every woman who has had abortions.
White conservatives ain't nothing but hypocrites because you don't know what they do and they know you don't know what they do
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