Married Men Live Longer Than Single Dudes, Studies Suggest (not cp friendly)

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http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4412252...may-die-younger-new-study-finds/#.T_OEnZGDmSo

Although many studies point to the fact that singles just don’t fare as well in terms of health and longevity compared to the married, this new research shows “just how poorly the singles do,” explains lead author David Roelfs, assistant professor of sociology at the University of Louisville, Ky.

The researchers analyzed the data from some 90 previous studies, which included about 500 million people, and compared the risk of mortality for singles from those studies — defined as those who never married — to that of a married group, excluding those who are divorced or widowed.

The researchers found the risk of death was 32 percent higher across a lifetime for single men compared to married men. Single women face a 23 percent higher mortality risk, compared to married women.

In real numbers, “under the worse-case scenario,” single men could die about eight to 17 years earlier than their married male friends, says Roelfs, citing that nearly all of the data was gleaned from studies conducted in the last 60 years. Women don't fare much better. They could die seven to 15 years earlier than their married female counterparts.

The researchers speculate their longevity findings could be tied to poorer health benefits, meager public assistance and less income for singles. And some singles may not have the same social support that married couples have “by default,” explains Roelfs.

“If you’re a couple, a spouse may be after you to eat better and go the doctor,” he says. “Sometimes it’s just easier to be healthier and less of a risk taker when you’re married.” Though single people can get some of that same support from parents, siblings and friends, he says.

There is some good news for the spouseless: Singles who survive their younger years actually fare well over a lifespan. The relative risk of death for singles aged 30 to 39-years-old was 128 percent greater than among married people of the same age, but decreased to about 16 percent for single 70-year-olds when compared to 70-year olds in wedded bliss, according to the study.

link: http://health.yahoo.net/articles/mens-health/photos/7-top-health-risks-men-over-40#1

Numerous surveys have shown that married men, especially men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s, are healthier and have lower death rates than those who never married or who are divorced or widowed. Never-married men are three times more likely to die of cardiovascular disease, for example. After 50, divorced men's health deteriorates rapidly compared to married men's, found a RAND Center for the Study of Aging report.

What's the magic in the ring? The social connectedness of marriage may lower stress levels and depression, which lead to chronic illness. (Women tend to have more social ties outside of marriage.)

Oops: Unmarried men generally have poorer health habits, too -- they drink more, eat worse, get less medical care, and engage in more risky behaviors (think drugs and promiscuous sex). Exception: It's better to be single than in a strained relationship, probably because of the stress toll, say researchers in Student BMJ.

Silver lining: It's never too late. Men who marry after 25 tend to live longer than those who wed young. And the longer a fellow stays married, the greater the boost to his well-being.
 
and compared the risk of mortality for singles from those studies — defined as those who never married — to that of a married group, excluding those who are divorced or widowed.

This is key. If your happily married then great. I would like to see how the number of happily married people stack up to the people who have gotten married period, including divorcees, then compare those to singles who never married.
 
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uh.....when was this posted on bgol?

go ahead and research the question then get back 2 the class. we'll wait :cool:

check upgrade dave's posts in the marriage threads. he does not understand the self-selection bias, the generational shifts in marriage laws, etc
 
Of course they do. Your wife nags you go to to the hospital so that she won't have to take out the garbage, clean the gutters, and kill the spiders. A single man eats fucked up most times, does get the nagging to go to the hospital, and pretty much doesn't get a lot of help when he's sick. The benefits of a partner are great. I must say, my wife is straight awesomeness. But I wish I was single again.
 
think u misunderstand the pic. the 'only doing one thing' pic meant that checking out that thread was gonna be the one thing i was gonna do today

my fault

Of course they do. Your wife nags you go to to the hospital so that she won't have to take out the garbage, clean the gutters, and kill the spiders. A single man eats fucked up most times, does get the nagging to go to the hospital, and pretty much doesn't get a lot of help when he's sick.
the useful but disposable male
 
It depends on the type of woman a man marries.... Many women send good men to an early grave.


Marriage is mostly a game of luck.
 
fuck that study.

niggas need to stay on their toes.

boycott that shit till this family court scam shit bitches
are exploiting is altered.....way to much say and power
to give a woman.......evident results from all this shit.

wicked
 
It depends on the type of woman a man marries.... Many women send good men to an early grave.


Marriage is mostly a game of luck.

Two points

Both sexes can make this claim

If he lets a woman drive him to an early grave, he wasn't that good of a man. He was clearly mentally weak.
 
I just will say, there was NOTHING disposable about my husband. He was irreplaceable. He was married for 20 years. It's odd to see the bitterness of these guys Dave. It really is. You don't get to see this type of thing irl. He believed a single man is reckless. And he believed that having a family was a good thing. I remember the doctor saying it was a miracle he was alive for as long as he was. He survived so many accidents and was healed up each and every time by his loving and devoted wife. It's hard for you guys to understand it. But there are women who love their husbands. And do not want to be without their husbands. And that's a sad thing. You guys need to make better decisions in who you choose. Pick someone who fulfills your life. Who when you're with them you FEEL like your life is better with them in it. And maybe you wouldn't be so bitter and angry.
 
Studies like these are highly flawed. They're not controlled studies, but surveys. It's the same bullshit as those well-done meat causes cancer claims. Hell, the article even states that they excluded divorced and widowed spouses. This shit has already failed like a deck of cards.

Maybe some of us have ethics and are honest with ourselves in knowing we won't be good spouses. So why fake being unselfish and put some other human being through unnecessary heartache and pain.

Besides, who in their right mind wants to live all those years as an old fogey? I know I don't. If I can't be physically young for the duration of my lifespan, what's the fucking point in living that long? Arthritis, senility and other diseases associated with old age is not what's popping. I wore pampers and used to drool. I have no aspirations in doing it again three to four decades from now.
 
Of course they do. Your wife nags you go to to the hospital so that she won't have to take out the garbage, clean the gutters, and kill the spiders. A single man eats fucked up most times, does get the nagging to go to the hospital, and pretty much doesn't get a lot of help when he's sick. The benefits of a partner are great. I must say, my wife is straight awesomeness. But I wish I was single again.

That is pretty much it in a nutshell. If someone is around when you get sick, especially if its someone who can tell when you are not looking or acting normally, can get you help faster than you may do on your own.
 
It depends on the type of woman a man marries.... Many women send good men to an early grave.


Marriage is mostly a game of luck.

Two points

Both sexes can make this claim

If he lets a woman drive him to an early grave, he wasn't that good of a man. He was clearly mentally weak.



Many marriages start perfectly and due to various reasons end badly.

People change, some for the better and some for the worse. Circumstances do occur along the way of a marriage that can suddenly make what was a great union between two people turn into a complete disaster.... Human nature is sometimes unpredicatable and no matter how strong a person is mentally sometimes sh*t suddenly happens along the way that immediately changes things and can cause an extremely stressful situation to develop.

I will agree with you that both sexes can make the same claim but when disaster suddenly strike no matter how strong a person is it can put a lot of strain & pressure on their life that will affect their well being.
 
Many marriages start perfectly and due to various reasons end badly.

People change, some for the better and some for the worse. Circumstances do occur along the way of a marriage that can suddenly make what was a great union between two people turn into a complete disaster.... Human nature is sometimes unpredicatable and no matter how strong a person is mentally sometimes sh*t suddenly happens along the way that immediately changes things and can cause an extremely stressful situation to develop.

I will agree with you that both sexes can make the same claim but when disaster suddenly strike no matter how strong a person is it can put a lot of strain & pressure on their life that will affect their well being.

No one is saying, or has ever said. Get married eveyrthing will be perfect. No one is telling you guys to get married. Granted statistics are ridiculous and stupid. But you've got to know where to look and why. Every adult man in my family is happily married because they chose the right women. And they've all lived pretty long lol so far.

Don't get married. I advise you not too. But trying to make it be like it's impossible to find happiness and live a long life HAPPY can't happen is PROVEN false.
 
I just will say, there was NOTHING disposable about my husband. He was irreplaceable. He was married for 20 years. It's odd to see the bitterness of these guys Dave. It really is. You don't get to see this type of thing irl. He believed a single man is reckless. And he believed that having a family was a good thing. I remember the doctor saying it was a miracle he was alive for as long as he was. He survived so many accidents and was healed up each and every time by his loving and devoted wife. It's hard for you guys to understand it. But there are women who love their husbands. And do not want to be without their husbands. And that's a sad thing. You guys need to make better decisions in who you choose. Pick someone who fulfills your life. Who when you're with them you FEEL like your life is better with them in it. And maybe you wouldn't be so bitter and angry.

:yes:

Studies like these are highly flawed. They're not controlled studies, but surveys. It's the same bullshit as those well-done meat causes cancer claims. Hell, the article even states that they excluded divorced and widowed spouses. This shit has already failed like a deck of cards.

Maybe some of us have ethics and are honest with ourselves in knowing we won't be good spouses. So why fake being unselfish and put some other human being through unnecessary heartache and pain.

Besides, who in their right mind wants to live all those years as an old fogey?

To the bolded, absolutely. You and I have chopped this up before and the one thing I know we agree on is that not everyone should get married.
I just have to vehemently disagree when someone, male or female, acts like it's the fault of someone else that they're not married. The rare birds that can say "I'm not built for that" should always be respected.
They do and have produced controlled studies and they show the same thing.

I want to live all those years. I enjoy my time with my wife and want it extended as long as possible in addition to being able to watch and see what kind of man my son grows into.

Many marriages start perfectly and due to various reasons end badly.

People change, some for the better and some for the worse. Circumstances do occur along the way of a marriage that can suddenly make what was a great union between two people turn into a complete disaster.... Human nature is sometimes unpredicatable and no matter how strong a person is mentally sometimes sh*t suddenly happens along the way that immediately changes things and can cause an extremely stressful situation to develop.

I will agree with you that both sexes can make the same claim but when disaster suddenly strike no matter how strong a person is it can put a lot of strain & pressure on their life that will affect their well being.

True but most of those people who have those spouses driving them insane aren't victims of a person changing but of that person continuing to evolve into the person they already were.

No one is saying, or has ever said. Get married eveyrthing will be perfect. No one is telling you guys to get married. Granted statistics are ridiculous and stupid. But you've got to know where to look and why. Every adult man in my family is happily married because they chose the right women. And they've all lived pretty long lol so far.

Don't get married. I advise you not too. But trying to make it be like it's impossible to find happiness and live a long life HAPPY can't happen is PROVEN false.

:yes:
It's also not easy and it's not supposed to be. Funny how people will work their ass off at a job making somebody else rich but think the most important, determinative relationship of their life is supposed to come easy.
 
This is straight ca-ca doo-doo :bullshit: That's all provided you do like marriage and are actually happier in your marriage. You can't tell me a long life with a nagging, supreme bitchified woman is somehow better than an untimely death. This correlation study is bullshit. How can you determine what causes what? How do they know that healthier men don't just decide to marry more than unhealthy men?

You can't apply this with so many marriages ending in divorce, any conclusions from studies of currently married people applied to all people who ever marry isn't a proper representation.
 
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