MAIN difference between nerdy white guys and nerdy black men? One lacks common sense

[absorhaps]

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Honestly fuck what that broad was talking I skimmed through it and it was bullshit...

But it made me think...are there really many stereotypical "nerds" around now. With technology being as present as it is a lot of things nerds used to have associated with them is gone and pop culture is making things such as comic books and politics more mainstream.

When I talk about hacking/rooting a phone people know what is even if they can't do it themselves. Shit, we are all posting on a message board, something that only "nerds" would have done.

I don't really see dudes walking around with pocket protectors and taped glasses.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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The difference between Black and White nerds is that I don't give a fuck about either one.

Basically

I think by nerd she means not good looking.

the white/black aspect is stupid. all men want to fuck good looking women.

BTW Bill Gates is just smart. he married a smart woman but he probably has had dime concubines. matter of fact I heard a rumor like that about him over a decade ago.

She has to mean not good looking. Because good looking "nerds" are just called smart men.

u must not spend too much time on this board or maybe your memory is selectively short

shall i bump some threads?

You're ASSuming that the men that make those statements on this board are nerds.

Your reduced to arguing semantics at this point

And try to keep up: I NEVER said that you said all men on this site are nerds. Not once. Never even insinuated it.

However, this article is about Black nerds, so that's what we are talking about. You claim to know "guys" in real life that agree with folks on this board, but you didn't specify whether these "guys" are Black nerds.

Your inability to comprehend what's being said in this simple convo leads any logical thinking person to believe you haven't conversed with many nerds, Black or otherwise, in your life, so everything you're saying you are pulling out of your ass....much like this author.

Par for the course.

bs.

#1 nerdy white men are always bitching about not being able to get laid or get dates. i worked with a bunch of em.

#2 just because youre some clumsy nerd doesnt mean that you are on the path to success and riches. nigga you might just be a boring 2 leftfooted wack ass brotha or cac. ur at the bottom of the totem pole. it is what it is.

#3 i feel the author on the shit about nerdy chicks. i dig me a sexy intelligent slightly nerdish sista even if the rest of u dont. more for me.

i should colonize this whole thread but i was i been in reading mood.

Great summary. She MIGHT have some points but a) she doesn't know how to articulate them and b) they are drowning in a mire of stupidity.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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She wrote a Part 2. Ironic is that she chose a picture of Steve Urkel as the embodiment of the Black male nerd though he had 1 dimepiece throwing pussy at him for years and his dreamgirl he ended up with. (Though as I have noted in the past on BGOL, that whole show is a microcosm of BM/BF relations)

Hilarious pics include...

She says that Bill Gates wife is a higher caliber of woman than what he should get.

Has the AUDACITY to imply that Dr. Mae Jamison is an unattractive nerd and who nerdy Black men should aspire for. I happen to think Mae Jamison is cute and the fact that she's been in fucking outer space makes her attractive.

 

[DeSiRe]

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Your reduced to arguing semantics at this point

And try to keep up: I NEVER said that you said all men on this site are nerds. Not once. Never even insinuated it.

However, this article is about Black nerds, so that's what we are talking about. You claim to know "guys" in real life that agree with folks on this board, but you didn't specify whether these "guys" are Black nerds.

Your inability to comprehend what's being said in this simple convo leads any logical thinking person to believe you haven't conversed with many nerds, Black or otherwise, in your life, so everything you're saying you are pulling out of your ass....much like this author.

lol....dude

going back and forth with you is like trying to convince racist billy bob from idaho that intelligent black people exist although hes never met one...his racist ass is going to stay stedfast to his personal experience just like you

just like billy bob you cannot fathom the posiblilty that your personal experince hasnt properly prepared you to see the world as it really is

i can count on one hand how many of my homegirls have childern....but yall swear up and down on here that every woman yall meet have 3 children by 3 different men....that doesnt match my expereince...but do i rationalize it by saying everyone who says otherwise is pulling shit out of their ass? NO!

sharing expereincines opinions is the whole point of a fourm...so get some fat on your head and expand your horizons

the only person who has spoken in absolutes is YOU...the very first post i made said

that article was a little throwed off...but has some dead on truths (without overgeneralizing of course):

then u come around the corner with nevers...always...and all

clearly i need to break this down for cause you arent understanding my argument has been unwavering:

1. several black nerds (or the ones who proclaim to be online) have made statements regarding how women only want thugs

2. i have met black nerds in real life who have shared this same sentiment

regardless of whoever you met....and whatever they said....there are people who dont share that same experience

SHIT!! how hard is that to understand

 

[LordSinister]

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Back when I was in school, short light skinned ninjas were all the rage.

I have to see a picture of this broad, cause she's talking a bunch of shit about telling brothers to stay in their place.

 

[Brigade4Radiant]

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where is a link to the blog?

 

[Black_Hand]

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Thats because she's another Bitch who dreams about getting a book deal because she thinks she's a relationships expert (ie Montana.) so they think the more they write, the more intelligent they are.

Did this bitch watch this show? Point is ALL NERD MEN want the DIME. BUT the DOUCHE usually actually gets HER. RACE aint got shit to do with it.

C/S

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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Back when I was in school, short light skinned ninjas were all the rage.

I have to see a picture of this broad, cause she's talking a bunch of shit about telling brothers to stay in their place.

You notice they never do. Even with the Youtube vids, the one talking the most have a picture up over audio.

Yet the Black women that speak with sense have video (and tend to be QUITE attractive).

 

[Top_Bunk]

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that article was a little throwed off...but has some dead on truths (without overgeneralizing of course):

I see u quoted the part about why nerds aren't checking for their counterparts....do you really think black female nerds want to date another nerd?


That's like when guys said how come fat women wont date fate men?

 

[DeSiRe]

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I see u quoted the part about why nerds aren't checking for their counterparts....do you really think black female nerds want to date another nerd?

the majority of the women i know who were considered nerds married their counterpart

my homegirl engineers dated/married other engineers

same goes for my girlfriends who were in IT, the medical field, and other scholarly fields

so i would say yes

 

[BCAA2009]

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Someone stole Drayonis work again?

 

[Louis Koo]

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except urkel, i never seen a nerdy black man.

 

[SaKem]

Re: MAIN difference between nerdy white guys and nerdy black men? One lacks common se

Honestly fuck what that broad was talking I skimmed through it and it was bullshit...

But it made me think...are there really many stereotypical "nerds" around now. With technology being as present as it is a lot of things nerds used to have associated with them is gone and pop culture is making things such as comic books and politics more mainstream.

When I talk about hacking/rooting a phone people know what is even if they can't do it themselves. Shit, we are all posting on a message board, something that only "nerds" would have done.

I don't really see dudes walking around with pocket protectors and taped glasses.

Yes there are still obvious Nerds, plenty, but yea some can blend in better now, cuz everyone does classical nerd shit like you said

 

[Top_Bunk]

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Pretty superficial arguments...

I mean what is a "nerd"? I consider myself a nerd & I still take care of my appearance & altho on the shy side I can fake it with the best of them in a social gathering whenever I need to

...seems like she is describing an underachieving loser instead of a "nerd" lol and of course they aren't gonna get the woman of their dreams if they can't even maintain halfway success in any other realm of their lives (social settings, physical appearance, career etc.)

I think the ORIGINAL argument she wanted to dispute is why do many women look past GOOD men for BAD men

according to her second post of nerds she clarified your question specifically. it is the quote below:

Some people who had a lot to say about the first post questioned my use of the word, “nerd.” I’m sorry but I call them like I see them. I guarantee you those black men who found themselves offended by the first post saw a lot of truth in it about themselves. I know quite a few individuals who are funny, charming, warm to be around, and intelligent yet they are not what I would personally consider nerds. My definition of a nerd is the most socially awkward, anti-social (outside of their circle of likeminded lames), no charisma having, no sex appeal having, no dressing weird looking individuals walking the face of the earth. You can call them lame, wack, or whatever else, but there is no doubt about one thing…pussy/a relationship/love eludes them. My definition of a nerd may differ from your definition of a nerd, but you can just as easily use the words lame, wack, unattractive in the place of the word nerd and come to an understanding of which group of individuals I’m talking about. I think it’s important to note that I can appreciate an intelligent black man with charisma (ex. Barack Obama) as much as the next woman.

 

[PoppaSo]

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A Black dude making moves not really worried what dimes do.
Women have to catch him in motion cause he ain't tryin to slow down anyhow.

A black dude that is on the grind, not really focusing on women, his appearances or clothing, or all those things are being trumped by getting his game on...
probably doesn't consider himself a nerd

...even if it look like it.

If you bitching at a dime for doing her thang, it's probably because you ain't handling yours.

It's not a shortage of single sexy black women. Forgive the pun...there's probably a Dime a Dozen. A cat that really put his muscle down to get his hustle down don't want a women cause she is a dime. She gotta have more value than a looks... as the author stated...looks are a good starter.


I liked the article a lot.

 

[Cock Head Jones]

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except urkel, i never seen a nerdy black man.

Thats cuz compared to chinese guys all brothas are cool.

No offense home slice.

 

[Rawness]

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lol....dude

going back and forth with you is like trying to convince racist billy bob from idaho that intelligent black people exist although hes never met one...his racist ass is going to stay stedfast to his personal experience just like you

just like billy bob you cannot fathom the posiblilty that your personal experince hasnt properly prepared you to see the world as it really is

i can count on one hand how many of my homegirls have childern....but yall swear up and down on here that every woman yall meet have 3 children by 3 different men....that doesnt match my expereince...but do i rationalize it by saying everyone who says otherwise is pulling shit out of their ass? NO!

sharing expereincines opinions is the whole point of a fourm...so get some fat on your head and expand your horizons

the only person who has spoken in absolutes is YOU...the very first post i made said




then u come around the corner with nevers...always...and all

clearly i need to break this down for cause you arent understanding my argument has been unwavering:

1. several black nerds (or the ones who proclaim to be online) have made statements regarding how women only want thugs

2. i have met black nerds in real life who have shared this same sentiment

regardless of whoever you met....and whatever they said....there are people who dont share that same experience

SHIT!! how hard is that to understand

You big dummy.


Yes, I do use absolutes...in appropriate situations. Let's recap: I said I NEVER said what you tried to accuse me of saying. Scroll up and you will find that I, in fact, NEVER said that. I also said that I NEVER met any Black nerds that thought Black men were either nerds or thugs. This is also true.

What your dumb ass can't seem to understand is that I NEVER said there were no Black nerds that thought this way, just that I've met a lot of Black nerds and since NONE of them thought this way, I can't believe this line of thinking is common within the Black nerd community.

That would be like someone saying "Black people sure do love to sky dive." Since I know a great deal of Black people, but I don't know any that love to sky dive, I'd call on anyone making that statement to back it up. Note, that this is NOT the same as saying there are no Black people who love to sky dive.

You claim to have met quite a few Black nerds that think this way, however, I don't believe you because you've proven two things in this thread: 1) You're not to bright (you're still having trouble grasping what I'm saying in this simple ass convo) and 2) You suffer from Angry Black Woman Syndrome (Your ABWS manifested when you started talking about guys who claim every Black woman has 3 kids with 3 different men...I mean reall, where did that come from?) Thus, I don't believe you are intelligent enough to know/converse with any significant number of Black nerds AND I think you're too angry to be truthful in this convo and are pulling shit out of your ass.

Now I have claimed that I have met many Black nerds, and I have. I say this, because I hold an advanced degree from the BEST institution in the WORLD for my field. So between that campus, other campuses, internships, conferences, etc., I have come in contact with a great number of Black nerds, and allow me to reiterate: I have NEVER met a Black nerd who thought Black men were either nerds or thugs. Therefore, I don't believe that is a common belief amongst Black nerds.

Got it?

 

[Chiyo]

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Thats cuz compared to chinese guys all brothas are cool.

No offense home slice.

 

[kwazdog]

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[DeSiRe]

Re: MAIN difference between nerdy white guys and nerdy black men? One lacks common se

You big dummy.


Yes, I do use absolutes...in appropriate situations. Let's recap: I said I NEVER said what you tried to accuse me of saying. Scroll up and you will find that I, in fact, NEVER said that. I also said that I NEVER met any Black nerds that thought Black men were either nerds or thugs. This is also true.

What your dumb ass can't seem to understand is that I NEVER said there were no Black nerds that thought this way, just that I've met a lot of Black nerds and since NONE of them thought this way, I can't believe this line of thinking is common within the Black nerd community.

That would be like someone saying "Black people sure do love to sky dive." Since I know a great deal of Black people, but I don't know any that love to sky dive, I'd call on anyone making that statement to back it up. Note, that this is NOT the same as saying there are no Black people who love to sky dive.

You claim to have met quite a few Black nerds that think this way, however, I don't believe you because you've proven two things in this thread: 1) You're not to bright (you're still having trouble grasping what I'm saying in this simple ass convo) and 2) You suffer from Angry Black Woman Syndrome (Your ABWS manifested when you started talking about guys who claim every Black woman has 3 kids with 3 different men...I mean reall, where did that come from?) Thus, I don't believe you are intelligent enough to know/converse with any significant number of Black nerds AND I think you're too angry to be truthful in this convo and are pulling shit out of your ass.

Now I have claimed that I have met many Black nerds, and I have. I say this, because I hold an advanced degree from the BEST institution in the WORLD for my field. So between that campus, other campuses, internships, conferences, etc., I have come in contact with a great number of Black nerds, and allow me to reiterate: I have NEVER met a Black nerd who thought Black men were either nerds or thugs. Therefore, I don't believe that is a common belief amongst Black nerds.

Got it?

lol...so now u are reduced to appeal to ridicule and strawman fallacies to to support your claim?

in the art of rhetoric and logic your argument automatically fails when you have to resort to the above classic fallacies to support your premises

u dont know me from the next chick on the street...i hold a degree from one of the top 10 institutions in my field...minimum 3.0gpa to even get in the school...and it was still highly competitive from there...academically ive done it all from internships to mentoring and tutoring...along with holding leadership positions giving me the opportunity to attend AND plan various conferences around the country


u are just as bad as billybob

 

[Rawness]

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lol...so now u are reduced to appeal to ridicule and strawman fallacies to to support your claim?

in the art of rhetoric and logic your argument automatically fails when you have to resort to the above classic fallacies to support your premises

u dont know me from the next chick on the street...i hold a degree from one of the top 10 institutions in my field...minimum 3.0gpa to even get in the school...and it was still highly competitive from there...academically ive done it all from internships to mentoring and tutoring...along with holding leadership positions giving me the opportunity to attend AND plan various conferences around the country


u are just as bad as billybob

Blah Blah Blah. You're still saying nothing. You haven't refuted a single claim I made. You're just now, understanding what I said in my very first response to you (Well at least I hope you are, I only assume you are cuz you're avoiding those points like the plague).

You claim to be from a top 10 school, so post your degree.

 

[DeSiRe]

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Blah Blah Blah. You're still saying nothing. You haven't refuted a single claim I made. You're just now, understanding what I said in my very first response to you (Well at least I hope you are, I only assume you are cuz you're avoiding those points like the plague).

You claim to be from a top 10 school, so post your degree.

u clearly dont know what a fallacy is in the discourse of argument ...please google it

and u keep doing it...i see u threw red herring top it all off

i thought men were the ones who used reason and logic instead of emotions to validate their claims

if anyone's education that should be called under question its yours

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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Lolz @ post ya degree.

 

[Black Limey]

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She is actually carrying a baby on her side too. It's plenty of women who have been knocked up by a brotha..... and now want you want me to pay for his seed????

 

[Rawness]

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u clearly dont know what a fallacy is in the discourse of argument ...please google it

and u keep doing it...i see u threw red herring top it all off

i thought men were the ones who used reason and logic instead of emotions to validate their claims

if anyone's education that should be called under question its yours

Of Course you did, because you suffer from ABWS and you're not very bright.

All you do is reply with your typical man hate bullshit. It took you 5 post to understand what I said in my first reply, and I repeat: You're still avoiding that point. So all your "red herring" talk is...well...a red herring.

You won't post your degree, cuz you know its from a top 10 cosmetology school.

 

[DeSiRe]

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Of Course you did, because you suffer from ABWS and you're not very bright.

All you do is reply with your typical man hate bullshit. It took you 5 post to understand what I said in my first reply, and I repeat: You're still avoiding that point. So all your "red herring" talk is...well...a red herring.

You won't post your degree, cuz you know its from a top 10 cosmetology school.

the only thing i have learned in your previous post is that you are remedial and lack the most basic necessary skill and understanding to use logic and reason to construct a coherent argument

this discussion is not even fair ...if this was a formal debate security would be ushering you off stage as we speak

there are niggas on this site that have seen me with my cap and gown...u shouldnt waste your time concerning yourself with me and my education...

instead you need to do some serious evaluation on the 'education' you received from your own 'institution' because you have demonstrated they have failed you miserably

a wise person once said...'you should never argue with fools because from a distance you can't tell who is who'

so with that....im done...enjoy your life of deficiency

 

[Soufboy]

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I feel that it is important to get a woman who is your counterpart though. I'm into computers and engineering and such so I am damn sholl looking for a woman who is also nerdy or intellectual like myself.

 

[Rawness]

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the only thing i have learned...

Is nothing.

You can keep trying to call me dumb, but you're the one who got lost several times throughout this convo. You're the one that didn't understand my use of absolutes (all of which were appropriate, care to address that? Of course not...) and how they related to the argument at hand. You're the one that set up a silly analogy about a racist that didn't apply, since, as usual, I never said any of the things you tried to say I said. It's clear that you're not very bright.

Like I said, we can compare degrees, cuz. You ain't on my level. You went to LaLa's Hair School, I went to the BEST technical school in the world.

You big dummy.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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1a. Princeton
1b. Harvard
3. Yale
4a. CIT
4b. MIT
4c. Stanford
4d. Upenn
8a. Columbia
8b. UChicago
10. Duke U

Desire, I'm impressed.

LOL @ you two having a degree pissing contest.

 

[attested]

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http://blackconsciousthought.blogspot.com/2010/03/never-satisfied-why-nerdy-black-men.html

 

[DeSiRe]

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1a. Princeton
1b. Harvard
3. Yale
4a. CIT
4b. MIT
4c. Stanford
4d. Upenn
8a. Columbia
8b. UChicago
10. Duke U

Desire, I'm impressed.

LOL @ you two having a degree pissing contest.

reread what i said about my school

 

[Rawness]

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LOL @ you two having a degree pissing contest.

It ain't even about that, I know she's lying. It's like if someone tried to tell you Black people agree with the Tea Party. You probably know a lot of Black people, but not many (or none) who feel this way, so you'd call bullshit.

And she went to a top 10 school "in her field"

LaLa's Hair Salon

 

[Naha-Nago]

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*two cents*

 

[Chiyo]

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I LOL'ed

 

[Mello Mello]

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For the most part I agree with her about the mentality that she describes nerds have. As far as that being a black nerd problem is just a generalization.

Some points were VERY true but most was bullshit ...

White guys who are socially shy/awkard or who haven't had much sexual success with women failed just as hard as any other. Their first problem is they put Dimes (or usually one particular dime who doesn't like them back) on a pedastal. Dimes get ran through too ... just not by those low on the status ladder.

Pretty superficial arguments...

I mean what is a "nerd"? I consider myself a nerd & I still take care of my appearance & altho on the shy side I can fake it with the best of them in a social gathering whenever I need to

...seems like she is describing an underachieving loser instead of a "nerd" lol and of course they aren't gonna get the woman of their dreams if they can't even maintain halfway success in any other realm of their lives (social settings, physical appearance, career etc.)

I think the ORIGINAL argument she wanted to dispute is why do many women look past GOOD men for BAD men

I think by nerd she means not good looking.

the white/black aspect is stupid. all men want to fuck good looking women.

BTW Bill Gates is just smart. he married a smart woman but he probably has had dime concubines. matter of fact I heard a rumor like that about him over a decade ago.

^^^Co-sign These