looking for advise from the ladys

[Rdixon]

Real talk I know that I don't post much but I have a question for the lady. I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years and me and my ex broke up for 3 months ago. I took a break and now I'm back in the hunt. My boy girlfriend put me on one of her friends and shortly is focused on her career and life (senior in college) but her social skill are lacking and she is not friendly or outgoing. Any way we went out twice and it feel like pulling teeth trying to conversant to her. I'm trying to get her to open up but she guarded about everything.She open up a little about her family but that's it. I been knowing her about two weeks I know it early but damn what's going on. How should I approach this, I don't want to drop her because she could be worth the long haul because her goal in life. But money is not a major issue because I'm a senior too in software engineer(different school) but I see someone that can bring something to the table too. A reason that she not opening up is because of trust issues.We had a weekend plan to do something but I bail cause I took my be nephew in over the weekend because my brother got lock up shit somebody got to a man in their life. (This was explain to her) I know I don't have the best game what can I do.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Real talk I know that I don't post much but I have a question for the lady. I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years and me and my ex broke up for 3 months ago. I took a break and now I'm back in the hunt. My boy girlfriend put me on one of her friends and shortly is focused on her career and life (senior in college) but her social skill are lacking and she is not friendly or outgoing. Any way we went out twice and it feel like pulling teeth trying to conversant to her. I'm trying to get her to open up but she guarded about everything.She open up a little about her family but that's it. I been knowing her about two weeks I know it early but damn what's going on. How should I approach this, I don't want to drop her because she could be worth the long haul because her goal in life. But money is not a major issue because I'm a senior too in software engineer(different school) but I see someone that can bring something to the table too. A reason that she not opening up is because of trust issues.We had a weekend plan to do something but I bail cause I took my be nephew in over the weekend because my brother got lock up shit somebody got to a man in their life. (This was explain to her) I know I don't have the best game what can I do.

If there are issues regarding trust then perhaps you should look elsewhere

 

[Jam_Jam]

You can't honestly expect her to open up to you about her life after knowing you for only two weeks. If you really like her then be patient with her. She was probably a little upset about you cancelling your weekend plans with her. Tell her you will make it up to her and then plan a nice outing for the two of you. Obviously she likes you or she wouldn't agree to keep going out with you. There are a lot of no-good men out there and she's probably encountered a few of them. Show her that you are a good guy and she will eventually warm up to you.

 

[destrehan]

Real talk I know that I don't post much but I have a question for the lady. I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years and me and my ex broke up for 3 months ago. I took a break and now I'm back in the hunt. My boy girlfriend put me on one of her friends and shortly is focused on her career and life (senior in college) but her social skill are lacking and she is not friendly or outgoing. Any way we went out twice and it feel like pulling teeth trying to conversant to her. I'm trying to get her to open up but she guarded about everything.She open up a little about her family but that's it. I been knowing her about two weeks I know it early but damn what's going on. How should I approach this, I don't want to drop her because she could be worth the long haul because her goal in life. But money is not a major issue because I'm a senior too in software engineer(different school) but I see someone that can bring something to the table too. A reason that she not opening up is because of trust issues.We had a weekend plan to do something but I bail cause I took my be nephew in over the weekend because my brother got lock up shit somebody got to a man in their life. (This was explain to her) I know I don't have the best game what can I do.

nigga she probably wants to talk to a man that's actually INTELLIGENT!

did you read what the fuck you typed mushmouf ass nigga?

i don't blame her.

 

[JETER]

You can't honestly expect her to open up to you about her life after knowing you for only two weeks. If you really like her then be patient with her. She was probably a little upset about you cancelling your weekend plans with her. Tell her you will make it up to her and then plan a nice outing for the two of you. Obviously she likes you or she wouldn't agree to keep going out with you. There are a lot of no-good men out there and she's probably encountered a few of them. Show her that you are a good guy and she will eventually warm up to you.

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