Light skin chicks better than dark skin chicks

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It all started in the days of slavery. Back in the slavery days, white men divided the blacks into two parts Light ****** and Dark ******. The light ****** was closer to white, the only thing acceptable for the white man, so they got to work inside. While the light skinned individual worked inside of the plantation, cooking for the master, cleaning the master's dirty clothes, and teaching the owner's wife how to cook cornbread; the darker skinned slave worked outside in the field, picking cotton, hanging laundry, and helped grow the crops. The darker person was treated like nothing while the lighter one (although still Negro) was treated better and worshiped secretly by the master as she became his secret mistress, his black buck. Many of the slaves were raped by the white man therefore some of their children came out light skinned while their younger children came out dark skinned.

Paper bag parties were 20th century African-American social events at which only individuals with complexions at least as light as the color of a paper bag were admitted. New Orleans invented the brown paper bag party— usually at a gathering in a home — where anyone darker than the bag attached to the door was denied entrance. When four million slaves were emancipated and granted citizenship in the South, new issues arose both for whites and for free people of color. When slavery ended, some light-skinned blacks, created social organizations that excluded darker blacks, as they assumed they had just been released from slavery. The free people of color were proud of their education and property rights.

From 1900 until about 1950 in the larger Black neighborhoods of major American cities, "paper bag parties" always have taken place. Some organizations used the “brown paper bag” principle as a test for entrance. People at many churches, fraternities and nightclubs would take a brown paper bag and hold it against a person's skin. If a person was lighter or the same color as the bag, he or she was admitted. People whose skin was not lighter than a brown paper bag were denied entry.

...Especially Howard University about the colorism of sororities, The stigma is the Ladies of AKA are light-skinned and the Women of DST(Delta Sigma Theta) are the Darker-skinned ones. The AKA's were one of the first to use this method as a standard of entrance into there organization.
Paper bag tests were given for different African American organizations, at most HBCU's, to determine ( because of the shade of your skin) whether or not you would be apart of that particular establishment. Other organizations were formed after the AKA's for the girls who were rejected based on their pigments.....ever since then the same type of girls have seemed to draw towards that molding.

Is there a thin line between colorism and preference when a black person looks for a person of interest you may hear black people say thing's such as "You're pretty for a dark skin girl". Some men don’t like dark skinned black women and think of them as ugly? Sometimes thin features and “good hair” can make up for the dark skin, but some don’t like darker black women at all. I’ve noticed that in general, the lighter the black person the thinner the features and loosely curled the hair is considered good hair. Light skin Long hair is considered the standard of beauty for a lot of men. If a light woman has short nappy hair, she can always slap on a weave and call it a day. On the other hand, a dark woman to some can’t do the same. Have you ever known a dark skinned guy to consider every light skin female he see's as pretty, or some light skin women will prefer dark skinned guys cause they feel the color will balance out with the child, and some people just feel lighter is better period cause they feel the kids will come out prettier, is that programmed colorism or is it a preference??

TV and in magazines, you seldom see a dark-skinned black person but you see Beyonce, Tyra banks etc.. all over TV and magazines. Our culture is still being led to believe that having lighter skin makes you a more desired person. Today, black children having white G.I. Joes and Barbie dolls with blond hair and blue eyes reinforce colorism. It is also strengthened by the absence of dark-skinned black people on TV and in magazines. If you ask any black boy to name a female celebrity whom he finds attractive, chances are you will receive responses such as Halle Berry, Alicia Keys, Eva Pigford, and Beyonce, Laura London,Tyra Banks etc.... Celebrities such as Lauryn Hill, Serena Williams, and Kelly Rowlands probably get rarely mentioned. The absence of dark skinned women on the T.V. in videos and in the magazine leads to further division and self-hatred and people never being satisfied of how they look. Black Women now will put in contacts so there eyes can look lighter and wear blonde weaves or wear certain types of make up to lighten there skin but will give lame non-credible excuses why they do it to justify there reason for wanting to lighten there features. If any black woman decides to wear here her natural with out any perms or use any type of hair supplies people will view her as if there is something wrong and she is considered as trying to be afro-centric.The media is very big and influential in altering our perceptions of classifying of what we are supposed to like and what we consider real beauty is.

Some black people love to talk about the evils that white folks did, and in some cases still do, perpetuate against us, be we conveniently overlook the evils, esp. the past evils, that light skinned black people perpetuated against dark skinned black people.
In 2006, the University of Georgia found that, all other things being equal, light-skinned people were more likely to get hired for jobs over dark-skinned people. It was worse for the men.
"Dark-skinned men with greater credentials were significantly less preferred than a light-skinned man with lower credentials," says Ph.D. candidate Matthew Harrison, whose test asked 250 of his peers to hire the best candidate using nearly identical resumes and a photo featuring the same person color-adjusted for light and dark skin tone. Most of the study participants were White. Adds Harrison: "The economic gap between light-skinned and darker-skinned Blacks is similar to the gap between Whites and blacks.Another 2006 study found dark-skinned Black men who murdered White men were more likely to get the death penalty than light-skinned Blacks found guilty of the same crime. Plus, a 2007 study researched in part by Duke University Professor William Darity estimates that light-skinned men, on average, earn about $3 more per hour than dark-skinned men.
Harrison said in a statement. "This finding is possibly due to the common belief that fair-skinned blacks probably have more similarities with whites than do dark-skinned blacks, which in turn makes whites feel more comfortable around them."
"I think it has a lot to do with the general comfort level that people have with dark-skinned blacks and light-skinned blacks," Harrison said. "
Lighter-skinned women applicants also were preferred over those with darker complexions but equal credentials.

Some darker black women will hang around even lighter people with even lighter eyes and even straighter hair, to make themselves seem more beautiful. Or Some Lighter black women will surround themselves with darker women they feel are less beautiful and not as appealing as them, so they can stand out more and people can pay more attention to them. And some Light skin black women will only hang out with light skin black women, and some dark skin black women will only hang out with dark skin black women. Doesn't this cause separation amongst our own??

In some families older people placed that same hate inside of their own family... Many of the light skinned individuals became the highlight of the family because they were the closest thing to white and that's what the man has placed inside of our head to feel like anything closest to white was right...

These results of inequalities amongst our own are due to the beliefs and ideologies that are associated with colorism and of the prejudices we have regarding skin tone due to the images we are exposed to on a regular basis. Most African-Americans refuse to discuss this self-destructive problem even in private. Discrimination from whites and other groups remains a big problem for blacks. But colorism is just as serious, if not more so. Colorism saps our strength from the inside. It weakens our power and ability to fight the outside forces that keep us marginalized in larger society. We often face hatred within the race, and it's more hurtful from your own people than the mainstream.
These are the ideologies that were placed in our head that we don't realize...Think about it..
 
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