Ladies, is it still considered good dick if you don't reach an orgasm?
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I would imagine, no.
Thought so. Was having a New Years Eve convo with a group of males and females and this one young lady was like I don't think i'm able to have orgasms but I still get good dick though. Everybody was just like
Poor thing- denial is a rough customer.
Watch, when she meets that one dude who can give her one she is going to lose her damn mind. Pray for her and hope it's a good dude.
Not really, no.
Now that doesn't mean it can't get better, but off top umm no it won't go into the good dick file.
lol @ good d file
Ok i think i understand what the young lady was saying when you put it like that.
Ok, so do you think it's possible LI? I still don't, because any woman with any man or woman can NOT have an orgasm. It's those peak experiences that make a memory imo. I'm very very lucky I never had trouble with orgasms because I masturbated so much as a kid, but I totally can not understand NOT having one and reminiscing like oooh girl that was some good dick.
I have to rate the d on an orgasm scale from "aww that was sweet" to "he blew that out the frame!!!!" Not having one wouldn't put a man on the map at all.
Ok, so do you think it's possible LI? I still don't, because any woman with any man or woman can NOT have an orgasm. It's those peak experiences that make a memory imo. I'm very very lucky I never had trouble with orgasms because I masturbated so much as a kid, but I totally can not understand NOT having one and reminiscing like oooh girl that was some good dick.
I have to rate the d on an orgasm scale from "aww that was sweet" to "he blew that out the frame!!!!" Not having one wouldn't put a man on the map at all.
Now that i think about it. yes. Because like sex sometimes shouldn't even be about reaching climax. Just a mind blowing exercise. That's kind of what the tantra is about. Enjoying the journey instead of the destination. I've had sex where i didn't come but i was physically very satisfied. So i suppose yes...you could get good dick and not orgasm in that fashion. Depends on where your mind is i suppose.
You're an interesting lady! I'm all about Eastern Healing Arts, but I've struggled to develop the patience for tantra.
Orgasm is really the height of physical satisfaction for me in a sexual context.
A good massage gives me incredible physical satisfaction in a non-sexual way, but something about a good O really seals the deal for me when it comes to sex.
Maybe.
I don't think I'd let him get away unscathed! Blow job, hand job something.
That's an ego blow for us as much as for men. Especially if you came a lot. Nobody wants to feel like they didn't give their partner equal fantastic pleasure.
Maybe.
I don't think I'd let him get away unscathed! Blow job, hand job something.
That's an ego blow for us as much as for men. Especially if you came a lot. Nobody wants to feel like they didn't give their partner equal fantastic pleasure.
You laugh but I have experienced that very thing. But I love your determination.
You laugh but I have experienced that very thing. But I love your determination.
. Yeah it's that ego Mo! I understand though that men (like women) are not machines and sometimes SOMETIMES it's just not going to happen (the rare times I can't get there it's just plain old fatigue ).I tell you what though. After that man takes a breather, I will not let him leave that room without getting it in. Defeat is not an option.
Thanks. You're pretty darned inneresting yourself.
Don't get me wrong, Orgasm is divine....lol
Like the massage. You've never had that slam banging type sex where your mind wasn't even on cumming? Just the SEX itself? You never focused on just the visual of it? The feel? Focusing as every inch slides in and out of you? Or grinds inside you? Not on the feeling of the ANTICIPATION. But the feeling ITSELF.
Try it. You may find new pleasures.
It could be, as long as it's not habit forming. I like the whole encounter mindfuck kissing foreplay intercourse...climax is the cream
Thanks. You're pretty darned inneresting yourself.
Don't get me wrong, Orgasm is divine....lol
Like the massage. You've never had that slam banging type sex where your mind wasn't even on cumming? Just the SEX itself? You never focused on just the visual of it? The feel? Focusing as every inch slides in and out of you? Or grinds inside you? Not on the feeling of the ANTICIPATION. But the feeling ITSELF.
Try it. You may find new pleasures.
Nah I'm trying to get mine, but I'll breathe and focus next time. May open a whole new world for me.
Never too old to learn.
I tell you what though. After that man takes a breather, I will not let him leave that room without getting it in. Defeat is not an option.
A response like this gets a
out of me. That ego might have you sleeping long hours.
Nah I'm trying to get mine, but I'll breathe and focus next time. May open a whole new world for me.
lol i'm trying to get mine. NYYYUUUGGA! lmao. That's how i always visual people saying that when they do that phrase.
Try it Iz, you have to try things in order to fully understand your own capabilities.
And here I was falling asleep.
What about the chicks that fuck for hours and only climax once?
What about the chicks that fuck for hours and only climax once?
What about'em? lol And where is this fucking for hours stuff coming from? Why the hell would you want to be stroked for hours? I keep hearing it but i've never witnessed it. An HOUR ok. But PLURAL? Really? I mean when we'd be at it for long periods of time it would be several things happening. A little eating here, sucking there. Stroking, eventually some nut busting. More sucking, repeat process, move to different location. Repeat process. That would take hours.
Is that what you're talking about?
of course...good dick is what leads up to the orgasm. you can't from point A to Z without everything in between...you can also have good tongue without an orgasm
To quote you "Pause"
Who is getting their pussy ate and not cumming?
I hate hate hate bad head. I mean really I'd rather have no head than a man wiggling his tongue up there like an escaped goldfish.
Good head, I'm cumming! Maybe I have female premature orgasm syndrome.
I'm going to have to side with LI on this one. Tantra sex once learned is very rewarding. Its the type thing I will slip into when a special sexual reward is justified. There's many levels to the Tantra experience. I think you might want to reconsider on this idea.
You said "Orgasm is really the height of physical satisfaction," for you. You also said "something about a good O, sealing the deal." Now just imagine sustaining those high levels of orgasmic pleasure. Don't think I need to give you any more than that. Just think about it.
I do it all the time. getting good head and I want penetration to get the orgasm. Of course it's great to have an orgasm but a lot of good feelings to get you there too. You might have a problem LOLTo quote you "Pause"
Who is getting their pussy ate and not cumming?
I hate hate hate bad head. I mean really I'd rather have no head than a man wiggling his tongue up there like an escaped goldfish.
Good head, I'm cumming! Maybe I have female premature orgasm syndrome.
I've been with one of those chicks.
is all I can say. Had me feeling self-conscious about my dick.Yeah this is what having sex for hours is like but with that one girl she required that you stroke the same spot until she came. Had me looking at the clock like, "Man when is this shit going to be over".
I've fucked a woman in the front of a cruise ship while we looked out to make sure no one was coming. We didn't fuck for long, we didn't do any special moves, and neither her or I came, but to this day when we speak she still considers that encounter some of the best dick she ever had.
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I'm going to have to side with LI on this one. Tantra sex once learned is very rewarding. Its the type thing I will slip into when a special sexual reward is justified. There's many levels to the Tantra experience. I think you might want to reconsider on this idea.
You said "Orgasm is really the height of physical satisfaction," for you. You also said "something about a good O, sealing the deal." Now just imagine sustaining those high levels of orgasmic pleasure. Don't think I need to give you any more than that. Just think about it.
I'm thinking I need to dust off my tantra books.I know right! Too much masturbation at an early age has made me outcome oriented I suspect.
I've fucked a woman in the front of a cruise ship while we looked out to make sure no one was coming. We didn't fuck for long, we didn't do any special moves, and neither her or I came, but to this day when we speak she still considers that encounter some of the best dick she ever had.
Now see turboether this was an example I can relate to. I can see the memory of the illicit experience being good! However chances are she already knew you had good dick and so the memories and the other dick experiences all combined really made an orgasm in that instance a non issue. If your sex game was wack overall, I doubt she still be reminiscing about it.
It could be.
I have to c/s LI's views in this thread.
Remember when you were a kid eating those Italian Icees in the cup. You knew there was that extra sugary sweet ice at the bottom of the cup. Some kids only wanted to get to that sugary part at the bottom so they would concentrate all their energy trying to flip the ice over in the cup. Me, I liked to savor the whole thing. I'll get there, but if I don't I can enjoy the sights and sounds as well. But like someone said, just as long as it's not a habit
I have to c/s LI's views in this thread.
Remember when you were a kid eating those Italian Icees in the cup. You knew there was that extra sugary sweet ice at the bottom of the cup. Some kids only wanted to get to that sugary part at the bottom so they would concentrate all their energy trying to flip the ice over in the cup. Me, I liked to savor the whole thing. I'll get there, but if I don't I can enjoy the sights and sounds as well. But like someone said, just as long as it's not a habit
of course...good dick is what leads up to the orgasm. you can't from point A to Z without everything in between...you can also have good tongue without an orgasm
That oral orgasm is part of the foreplay. Your missing out.
But Ciel does the memory of the "O" not haunt you?
Even though it's rare, has it not given you a hunger for more?
I don't know ladies. I'm all for the experience, but I say it's like riding a rollercoaster. Yeah the bumper cars are nice and fun and I'll laugh and feel great...but if I paid to get into the amusement park I want to ride the biggest baddest coaster in that joint. Not tootsie around on the teacups all day.
I'm Sure It Feels Good
But You Gotta Get Over
That Hump!!!!!
Every Chick I Get Wit
I'm Trying To Make Them Cum
Be It The Finger, The Tongue Or The Dick
She's Gonna Bust A Nut Or Two......
But You Gotta Get Over
That Hump!!!!!
Every Chick I Get Wit
I'm Trying To Make Them Cum
Be It The Finger, The Tongue Or The Dick
She's Gonna Bust A Nut Or Two......
I'm Sure It Feels Good
But You Gotta Get Over
That Hump!!!!!
Every Chick I Get Wit
I'm Trying To Make Them Cum
Be It The Finger, The Tongue Or The Dick
She's Gonna Bust A Nut Or Two......
See this man understands!
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