So why are you here?
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So why are you here?
well clearly you and I do as I don't know one single woman who does that shit
*Spidey senses go off after seeing the word soapbox*
You should post this part in my soapbox thread too...
I'm just sayin'...
LOL
LOL! Naw I'm cool Mr. Finest*Spidey senses go off after seeing the word soapbox*
You should post this part in my soapbox thread too...
I'm just sayin'...
Aight, cool. Well if/when you have something you deem worthy to say in there come on in. We'll leave the light on for you...
Ok, I see now, that site is about to be exactly like this one, very clickish and too many rules.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
LoneStar29
Banned
Ok, I see now, that site is about to be exactly like this one, very clickish and too many rules.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
What's wrong with SOL
If you can make it on BGOL you can make it anywhere believe me
Ok, I see now, that site is about to be exactly like this one, very clickish and too many rules.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
Exactly like this one with the exception that the mods are likely to be on a much shorter fuse. I based that solely on what the women in this thread are saying.
-VG
What's wrong with SOL
If you can make it on BGOL you can make it anywhere believe me
It's not so much as to what's wrong with SOL, it's just too many angry ass women on here sometimes....this is my opinion. I've been on BGOL pretty much since the beginning so you're right, but there is a different vibe there. yeah I will say my two cents and go on about my business, but over here, at one time say too much to the wrong person, and you have to be concerned about a ban.
I deal with my own estrogen level, so I can't be concerned about the next persons too. And I understand if I don't like it, don't post over here...I don't. Only posted here because of HNIC's PM.
Some of you all are cool, but I'm ok being cool with you all on the main board.
Not trying to get into any heated debates, so I will end with my post on this subject here.
PEACE
One thing I cant stand is cliques and immaturity.
I cant do anything about the cliques but the immaturity I can.
I often wondered why you never posted over here, explain the problem so we can try to fix it...
**edited because I just saw your response to LoneStar**
I understand your points. I would like to see your more over here and over there. But trust I understand where you are coming from.
as far as being concerned about a ban-it's simple follow the rules or get ghost.
I am not having the B.S. rather via post or PM's...You can believe that.
I cant do anything about the cliques but the immaturity I can.
I often wondered why you never posted over here, explain the problem so we can try to fix it...
**edited because I just saw your response to LoneStar**
I understand your points. I would like to see your more over here and over there. But trust I understand where you are coming from.
Ok, I see now, that site is about to be exactly like this one, very clickish and too many rules.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
as far as being concerned about a ban-it's simple follow the rules or get ghost.
I am not having the B.S. rather via post or PM's...You can believe that.
Now Onyx you and I are cool, but who's going to make you follow the rules? I've watched you in action a couple of times before too, and I feel like you needed to have your coattailed pulled...but you're a mod....
And that tone of "I'm not having it" is comical to me
that's my point, no one here are children, and you are a mod/administrator, not the mother of this board, but again, I've watched you go back and forth with a certain member here and you were wrong, granted you apologized, don't really remember, but at that time, I felt you should have been banned, again my opinion.From the sounds of things you are about to be a mod/admin on the new board (from your tone), and just as VegasGuy said your fuse will be shorter, and that type of non-sense yall can have.
Everything I'm saying here, I've said to VP including asking him on how he was selecting female mods, it's not a hat I care to wear, and not one you wore originally, but I want everything to be fair, or the new board will dwindle like this one has.
It's not that serious, and it's only a lil power.
I still have much love for you, but do you ma!
No offense but I pull my own coattails.
When I am wrong I admit to whom I am wrong to.
Dont believe the hype hon-Everything is not always as it seems.
The example that you mentioned I was wrong for not following my own advice. That situation was wrong on both of the involved parties. One would have to know ALL the details to be able to form an opinion on something that was 3 or 4 months ago and very petty on both parts.
I didnt make the rules on this board but I will enforce them.
As far as power??
This place is not one for a power trip. I am a "mod" on this board and a few others. And I have never ever been referred to as a power trip besides this place.
I would like to believe there are not any kids on this board-but at times people act like it. I will not let anyone come over here
starting shit w/ any of the posters on SOL.
If I see bullshit I am calling folks on it.
Oh no doubt we are still cool-And to be honest I appreciate your posts. You approached w/o bias (also w/o knowing all details) and for that you get nothing but respect from me.
When I am wrong I admit to whom I am wrong to.
Dont believe the hype hon-Everything is not always as it seems.
The example that you mentioned I was wrong for not following my own advice. That situation was wrong on both of the involved parties. One would have to know ALL the details to be able to form an opinion on something that was 3 or 4 months ago and very petty on both parts.
I didnt make the rules on this board but I will enforce them.
As far as power??
This place is not one for a power trip. I am a "mod" on this board and a few others. And I have never ever been referred to as a power trip besides this place.
I would like to believe there are not any kids on this board-but at times people act like it. I will not let anyone come over here
starting shit w/ any of the posters on SOL.
If I see bullshit I am calling folks on it.
Oh no doubt we are still cool-And to be honest I appreciate your posts. You approached w/o bias (also w/o knowing all details
) and for that you get nothing but respect from me.Now Onyx you and I are cool, but who's going to make you follow the rules? I've watched you in action a couple of times before too, and I feel like you needed to have your coattailed pulled...but you're a mod....
And that tone of "I'm not having it" is comical to me
From the sounds of things you are about to be a mod/admin on the new board (from your tone), and just as VegasGuy said your fuse will be shorter, and that type of non-sense yall can have.
Everything I'm saying here, I've said to VP including asking him on how he was selecting female mods, it's not a hat I care to wear, and not one you wore originally, but I want everything to be fair, or the new board will dwindle like this one has.
It's not that serious, and it's only a lil power.
I still have much love for you, but do you ma!
that is a good question...
how will the mods be chosen for that board...
nothing against the mods on SOL but i have found their decisions to be very inconsistent...
some get banned without warning (like myself)
some get warnings (like ol boy in this thread)
some dont get banned at all (like onyx)
if that is whats going on in the new forum ill be there about as much as i on SOL....if not less...im just being honest
as far as cliques...i agree that SOL is extremely cliquish...but that happens on every fourm to an extent...even bg's main board
theres really nothing u can do to get around that
how will the mods be chosen for that board...
nothing against the mods on SOL but i have found their decisions to be very inconsistent...
some get banned without warning (like myself)
some get warnings (like ol boy in this thread)
some dont get banned at all (like onyx)
if that is whats going on in the new forum ill be there about as much as i on SOL....if not less...im just being honest
as far as cliques...i agree that SOL is extremely cliquish...but that happens on every fourm to an extent...even bg's main board
theres really nothing u can do to get around that
Ok, I see now, that site is about to be exactly like this one, very clickish and too many rules.
On the pictures issues, if you don't want your picture posted, elsewhere please don't post it on the internet, you see what happens here.
Same tension and hot-headedness is about to filter over there.
I registered but see now it's about to be some issues. yeah we have to knock out the kinks, but it seems that board will be no different then this one.
Cliquish
that is a good question...
how will the mods be chosen for that board...
nothing against the mods on SOL but i have found their decisions to be very inconsistent...
some get banned without warning (like myself)
some get warnings (like ol boy in this thread)
some dont get banned at all (like onyx)
if that is whats going on in the new forum ill be there about as much as i on SOL....if not less...im just being honest
as far as cliques...i agree that SOL is extremely cliquish...but that happens on every fourm to an extent...even bg's main board
theres really nothing u can do to get around that
Cliques
I'm happy to have seen SOL grow and prosper over the last 19 months and see this as a move into a bright future. To infinity and beyond.
Your right about the cliques there isnt anything you can do about that-But you dont roll in a clique from what I see.
Have you thought about becoming a mod?
And you are right decisions have been inconsistent. I cant control what happened before me..But only since I have been a mod. I believe in if I mess up-fess up and handle biz.
And that is what I am trying and will do.
But please know-this place is only a small fraction of my life meaning I cant mod the board by myself.
So w/ that I say to those that are interested in being a mod-
Take it to the head man.
Have you thought about becoming a mod?
And you are right decisions have been inconsistent. I cant control what happened before me..But only since I have been a mod. I believe in if I mess up-fess up and handle biz.
And that is what I am trying and will do.
But please know-this place is only a small fraction of my life meaning I cant mod the board by myself.
So w/ that I say to those that are interested in being a mod-
Take it to the head man.
that is a good question...
how will the mods be chosen for that board...
nothing against the mods on SOL but i have found their decisions to be very inconsistent...
some get banned without warning (like myself)
some get warnings (like ol boy in this thread)
some dont get banned at all (like onyx)
if that is whats going on in the new forum ill be there about as much as i on SOL....if not less...im just being honest
as far as cliques...i agree that SOL is extremely cliquish...but that happens on every fourm to an extent...even bg's main board
theres really nothing u can do to get around that
never really thought about it
its good to see the door is open and the decisions havent already been made
Cocoa,also understand there is always 3 sides to a story,believe me. Their side,the other side,and the truth.
Hopefully this will bring out the other women lurking on here and it will make them feel more comfortable
Hopefully this will bring out the other women lurking on here and it will make them feel more comfortable
100% Agreement
Cocoa,also understand there is always 3 sides to a story,believe me. Their side,the other side,and the truth.
Hopefully this will bring out the other women lurking on here and it will make them feel more comfortable
No offense but I pull my own coattails.
When I am wrong I admit to whom I am wrong to.
Dont believe the hype hon-Everything is not always as it seems.
The example that you mentioned I was wrong for not following my own advice. That situation was wrong on both of the involved parties. One would have to know ALL the details to be able to form an opinion on something that was 3 or 4 months ago and very petty on both parts.
I didnt make the rules on this board but I will enforce them.
As far as power??
This place is not one for a power trip. I am a "mod" on this board and a few others. And I have never ever been referred to as a power trip besides this place.
I would like to believe there are not any kids on this board-but at times people act like it. I will not let anyone come over here
starting shit w/ any of the posters on SOL.
If I see bullshit I am calling folks on it.
Oh no doubt we are still cool-And to be honest I appreciate your posts. You approached w/o bias (also w/o knowing all details
Now Onyx you and I are cool, but who's going to make you follow the rules? I've watched you in action a couple of times before too, and I feel like you needed to have your coattailed pulled...but you're a mod....
And that tone of "I'm not having it" is comical to me
From the sounds of things you are about to be a mod/admin on the new board (from your tone), and just as VegasGuy said your fuse will be shorter, and that type of non-sense yall can have.
Everything I'm saying here, I've said to VP including asking him on how he was selecting female mods, it's not a hat I care to wear, and not one you wore originally, but I want everything to be fair, or the new board will dwindle like this one has.
It's not that serious, and it's only a lil power.
I still have much love for you, but do you ma!
-VG
This is one I have asked myself....
I believe the goal or the intent is as it states before coming in:
As far as the blog...I never knew...
I believe the goal or the intent is as it states before coming in:
As far as the blog...I never knew...
This is one I have asked myself....
I believe the goal or the intent is as it states before coming in:
As far as the blog...I never knew...
thanks for responding...I mean what is the GOAL of the separate board?
we are just throwing out random ideas but we don't know what the goal is....usually goals will help determine what elements are needed to meet those goals.
after reading some of the discussion in here, I do wonder if SOL the forum is just being repackaged of there.
Ahhh I got you. Well yeah HNIC will have to answer that one for you.
Sorry I misunderstood.
Sorry I misunderstood.
Getting ready for the movie huh, LD?
I'd like to know the cliques myself. I think there are those that interact with each other a little more but cliques...
Cocoa,also understand there is always 3 sides to a story,believe me. Their side,the other side,and the truth.
Hopefully this will bring out the other women lurking on here and it will make them feel more comfortable
Word, there are a bunch of ladies lurking in the shadows. Come out and holla at us here and there...On another note, it's good to see Coco on this side...
Ladies and Gents, thanks for all of the suggestions via PM and in this thread. I will make all of the changes everyone agrees on tomorrow. My Son was away visiting his Mom, I had to pick him up and get him settles back in. I'm on it first thing tomorrow.
I really appreciate your help.
VP
I really appreciate your help.
VP
Bullshit.
A while back for like a stretch of weeks SOL was like a cricket convention a tumbleweedville. Random Thoughts and Confessions thread were basically keeping this joint from flat lining.
Of course there's been the stretches of "ladies I need your advice: my pet chipmunk is having an affair with my ex baby mama's cousin."
If it wasn't for the fellas keeping this forum relevant with prolific paradigm shifting threads ...
Plus, females are probably the most lurkingest muhfukaz on the main board anyways.
ugh. Always tryna incorporate everything into your graduate program.
shaddap
I was speaking like that BEFORE my grad program AND I want it to be successful cuz lookin at it right now, it looks boring and I will be posting here and on the main board as usual. I would like to see it be more than a repackage of SOL the forum.
the fuck?
YO HNIC ... these are the sorts of bitch made male posters we don't want on the new site ... she disagreed with him and he starts calling her names WTF???
stfu and stop bitching.
shaddap
I was speaking like that BEFORE my grad program AND I want it to be successful cuz lookin at it right now, it looks boring and I will be posting here and on the main board as usual. I would like to see it be more than a repackage of SOL the forum.
appologize to me.
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