Ladies, Good Sex isn't just your Pussy! WHO defines Sexy!? Random Thought.

[shanebp1978]

I've been reading a few different threads on SOL, and @ a lot of it, and I'd like to share with a few experiences, entertain with some gifs, and enlightened with a few random thoughts in three parts.

It all really relates, you just gotta follow my thought pattern. Or pilot the Space Shuttle, I don't know which experience you need to be intoxicated for!? http://www.nytimes.com/2007/07/29/weekinreview/29basicB.html?_r=1&oref=slogin

Ok . . . so . . .


Part I

Good Sex isn't just Pussy!


Now I've certainly been enjoying the musings of the SOL Bash Squad, and their enigmatic Amazon war maiden leader, ( Whom I luv to death, though her name might as well be Andromache ). An her phallic spear of Iron wrought Dildo matter -

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It would seem the Bash Squad's current mantra, and call to arms consists of:

1. All bad sex is the fault of the male's sensitive ego, flaccid penis, and or general male idiocy.

2. All males are the same. Lump them together, and generalize concerning their gender, at will!

3. All male thoughts, actions, or speech pattern, is inferior to the female perspective. Untrue, and not to be trusted or valued.

These, ' Truths ' are self evident, and any deviation from them will result in the revoking of a female's Bash Pass, and utter humiliation in front of her peers. Also, she will be hereby forced to urinate standing.





Well let's talk about sex.

Chauvinistic Sean has a question . . .

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" Have you ever taken time to consider the unsatisfactory sexual experience is your own Physical, mental, or emotional fault! Or do you simply refute any and all responsibility, because SEX IS THE BUSINESS OF MEN, and because ducking responsibility is . . . what women do. "






Ladies, just because you have a vagina, does not mean you deserve 9 inches of good stiff length and girth! Good Sex isn't just your Pussy!



I know, there might be a dude out there with a better stroke than I.

BUT . . . ladies, did you know that some WOMEN have better pussy than others!! I mean, just better physical vagina than other women.



When I see a woman, and any man who knows, perhaps has dated internationals, will tell you . . . when I see a little peachfuzz on exposed forearms, little hint of hair. I know that's good pussy. Don't know how! Never figured out why! Just is!

GOOODDDDD!!!!

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If you got it, you got it, if you wanna get it, you might want to get it together, and get some sexy!

Or . . . just blame the Penis.

But remember, when you blame the penis, as you will REMIND us, it is a PURELY reactionary member of the the male anatomy.

Your blaming the cause, or, ABSENCE of CAUSE for REACTION!!!






Don't shoot the messenger. But the hole, ain't ALL that is holy, so don't expect a religious experience off it alone. An don't expect to get one just because you got an offering plate.




Which brings me to another quick thought . . .

Isn't it funny, how many women resort to talking about a man's size, once they've become a woman scorned?! I've heard that same bull from far too many jilted women. It's funny how the sex was "all that and so satisfying", before they found out they had been played.
A former lady friend of mine said that same old weak stuff, only AFTER she walked in on her fiance in bed, butt naked with another woman....only then claiming that "he was so small that "I called his mother and asked her if it was a deformity from birth". Now, before then he was "knocking the box out" (her words). I lost a lot of respect for that woman after she came out of her mouth like that.....nuff said.

That's because women are generally faking it.

Would we also like to admit, that often times, for males and FEMALES, the emotions of a relationship, effect the perception of either sexes sexual performance.

Just a thought!





I'll return with Part II, " WHO defines Sexy!? " Right now it's PBJ time.

 

[femmenoire]

Peachfuzz is your marker for good sex?

And just because we have vaginas, doesn't mean your dick deserves to be in it.

 

[Izayoi]

When I see a woman, and any man who knows, perhaps has dated internationals, will tell you . . . when I see a little peachfuzz on exposed forearms, little hint of hair. I know that's good pussy. Don't know how! Never figured out why! Just is!

I agree it takes two. I quoted that part because I have heard that before and it strikes me as an odd barometer for pussy evaluation, but since I do not have sex with women, I will have to take your word for it Shane. I'm curious where that comes from. I wax mine, but hey if its going to be an ally in me getting some quality dick, I'd be willing to work with it. Maybe even put a little mascara on it if that's what a ninja like

 

[Iron]

I'll return with Part II, " WHO defines Sexy!? " Right now it's PBJ time.

PBJ time?

[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/s8MDNFaGfT4[/FLASH]

 

[shanebp1978]

Peachfuzz is your marker for good sex?

And just because we have vaginas, doesn't mean your dick deserves to be in it.

I said, " Good pussy ".

Just like you can find that perfect size dick . . . but he done poked your asshole three times already, cause his navigation is just all Bermuda Triangle. Lost . . .

I said, good pussy. Has nothing to do with, GOOD SEX.

My point is to simply illustrate, that every woman's vagina may not be as golden a catch as they may think. It MAY be. But don't take it for granted.

Perhaps by CONSIDERING that FACT, you might make effort to enhance other attributes, and you might get more of the REACTION YOU want!

And just because we have vaginas, doesn't mean your dick deserves to be in it.

AND . . . !!!!!

See this attitude. What's that about? How uncalled for.

Door swings both ways if we're dating, and into each other . . . talk that shit if you want.

I ain't a have dick, will fuck kinda cat.

Pad lock it, U-Store-It self storage your Oprah vay jj. Because I'll Stedman style on your ass till the Cows come home!

Oh, U mad 'cause I'm STYLING on ya!!

 

[mcguyver]

Wtf???

 

[Bigmario23]

"Do we have a witness in the congregation?"

CHUUUUURCH!!

 

[Mo-Better]

Oh damn....Did he say, "their enigmatic Amazon war maiden leader." ???

Gone for more popcorn I'll be back.

 

[Mo-Better]

Shane it looks like there's too much heat in this kitchen. Seems like they're peeping in but they keep right on stepping.

 

[SinaminDelite]

I agree it takes two. I quoted that part because I have heard that before and it strikes me as an odd barometer for pussy evaluation, but since I do not have sex with women, I will have to take your word for it Shane. I'm curious where that comes from. I wax mine, but hey if its going to be an ally in me getting some quality dick, I'd be willing to work with it. Maybe even put a little mascara on it if that's what a ninja like

Mascara.....

Umm, I got a lil peachfuzz on the forearm

 

[shanebp1978]

Shane it looks like there's too much heat in this kitchen. Seems like they're peeping in but they keep right on stepping.

They have been routed.

Their leader has not unfurled the Pad Flag and drawn her battle lines.

Their lines of communication have been cut. There is no command & control.

It is utter chaos in the backfield.

They do not know where to press their forces for an effective counter offensive and therefore stay silent.​

 

[bigirl]

I have hairy arms like a gorilla

 

[shanebp1978]

Part II

WHO defines Sexy!?

Sexy

1.

2. Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
3. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).



So we can all agree, to be, dress, Sexy, is to arouse sexual desire and interest. We now must simply say, WHOs. Let's assume this from the Heterosexual interests.

So . . .


Why have women, started to believe that THEY define what is sexy.

When clearly, only a man can . . . if it his sexual desire or interest, you wish to arouse.



IS it that idiotic attitude and Phrase, " If a female compliments me, I feel it's more validating that if a man does! "


How can another woman tell you what's sexy? Unless it is her sexual desire and or interest you are trying to gain!?

It seems awfully bogus to me that you'll believe a creature with the same thing as you, no Kiełbasa and potatoes, over a man. Over 100,000 years of pure sexual oriented evolution towards the female species over here!

An then comes . . . . " Well, when a woman says it, it means more than a man "

Just silly.

So. Here's how it comes to a point.

Your going out, and of course, I must look good, I'm always thinking . . . I gotta look good to her friends too . . . as a representation of her.

But then I get asked, " Is this hot!? "

" Naw, the black is better with the skin. "

" Well, I like the blue, it's hot, I'm wearing the blue. "


" Cool. "

But I'm saying in my head . . . When the drinks are done. Don't think your getting dick TOO-NIGHT!!

So this is how it all relates, to things such as Part I of this post.

Dick ain't free ladies.

An just the pussy ain't the ticket. It costs. Cost is, the TURN ON.

Now, if you want, what you want.

WHO DECIDES WHAT THE TURN ON IS. I.E. - WHO DEFINES SEXY?

Because if your NOT turning anyone on. Don't expect to get it on.




Don't be scurred to talk about this now!










An remember ladies . . . Hate to see you go . . .

. . . Love to watch you walk away!

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I wax mine, but hey if its going to be an ally in me getting some quality dick, I'd be willing to work with it. Maybe even put a little mascara on it if that's what a ninja like

Thats funny (reminds self not to nair arm hair next summer)

 

[ladyscorpio]

Part II

WHO defines Sexy!?

Sexy

1.

2. Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
3. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).



So we can all agree, to be, dress, Sexy, is to arouse sexual desire and interest. We now must simply say, WHOs. Let's assume this from the Heterosexual interests.

So . . .


Why have women, started to believe that THEY define what is sexy.

When clearly, only a man can . . . if it his sexual desire or interest, you wish to arouse.



IS it that idiotic attitude and Phrase, " If a female compliments me, I feel it's more validating that if a man does! "


How can another woman tell you what's sexy? Unless it is her sexual desire and or interest you are trying to gain!?

It seems awfully bogus to me that you'll believe a creature with the same thing as you, no Kiełbasa and potatoes, over a man. Over 100,000 years of pure sexual oriented evolution towards the female species over here!

An then comes . . . . " Well, when a woman says it, it means more than a man "

Just silly.

So. Here's how it comes to a point.

Your going out, and of course, I must look good, I'm always thinking . . . I gotta look good to her friends too . . . as a representation of her.

But then I get asked, " Is this hot!? "

" Naw, the black is better with the skin. "

" Well, I like the blue, it's hot, I'm wearing the blue. "


" Cool. "

But I'm saying in my head . . . When the drinks are done. Don't think your getting dick TOO-NIGHT!!

So this is how it all relates, to things such as Part I of this post.

Dick ain't free ladies.

An just the pussy ain't the ticket. It costs. Cost is, the TURN ON.

Now, if you want, what you want.

WHO DECIDES WHAT THE TURN ON IS. I.E. - WHO DEFINES SEXY?

Because if your NOT turning anyone on. Don't expect to get it on.




Don't be scurred to talk about this now!










An remember ladies . . . Hate to see you go . . .

. . . Love to watch you walk away!

I don't feel that WOMEN on a whole believe that they define sexy. I feel that sexy is all a state of mind. No one can truly tell you that you are sexy unless you yourself know it.

If anyone gives a compliment its their own perception of you. What one person sees as sexy will differ completely from another.

Definition of sexy will differ from person to person. Female to male.


hey but what do i know...

 

[Mo-Better]

Finally made it back with the popcorn.

Shane the responses where are they? Yeah there's a few but they're lacking substance. One would think a thought provoking subject such as this would be several pages long by now.

Your right, good sex isn't just about the pussy they are two different things mainly because attitude makes all the difference in the world. The same too applies to what is sexy and who is sexy. Why is it 2 women with similar attributes can have the same dress on and one puts the dress on while the other wears the hell out of it?

Hopefully the severed communications you spoke of earlier can be reestablished and substantial dialog can begin. Your using good bait the fish just ain't biting.

I must give props to Ladyscorpio for stepping up. Seems there is one ram among the sheep.

 

[BGLR1212000]

Peachfuzz is your marker for good sex?

And just because we have vaginas, doesn't mean your dick deserves to be in it.

you know damn well ya'll don't give no pussy out based on who deserves it.

 

[shanebp1978]

Shane the responses where are they? Yeah there's a few but they're lacking substance. One would think a thought provoking subject such as this would be several pages long by now.

Naw, SOL, just like BGOL, everybody would rather play chase the Tranny Poster Trashman and his newest incarnations . . . .


Plus, since I'm just plain out and simple, RIGHT.

There is little room for debate!

And just because we have vaginas, doesn't mean your dick deserves to be in it.

you know damn well ya'll don't give no pussy out based on who deserves it.

BAM!




Ouch!

Slip and Fall!

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[Iron]

^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[bigirl]

As for good sex I find it to be completely a vibe thing. I don't care how good peoples skills are. If the vibe ain't there it will not be good sex.

As for sexy, its all relative depending on the individual. Different things are sexy to different people. I have been very surprised at things men have told me are sexy. I would have never thought of it that way. I think the sexiest thing is to just be yourself.

 

[shanebp1978]

I think the sexiest thing is to just be yourself.

C'mon Bigirl, miss us with that Reading Rainbow Dr. Phil shit!

We live in North America, nobody gets anything being yourself! Have you seen how people treat each other, most people are Crack Whores on the inside.

Be yourself! We see you grew up in Mr. Roger's Neighborhood!

Now if you wanna catch the big fish in your pond!

Subscribe to my way of living . . . Emotional Capitalism.

Now, stop trying to, " Be yourself " grow a pair, and get back out there for the big win, and bring 'er home!

Now all I wanna hear from you is . . . " YES SIR COACH! INSINCERITY COACH!!! "










































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[ladyscorpio]

Finally made it back with the popcorn.

Shane the responses where are they? Yeah there's a few but they're lacking substance. One would think a thought provoking subject such as this would be several pages long by now.

Your right, good sex isn't just about the pussy they are two different things mainly because attitude makes all the difference in the world. The same too applies to what is sexy and who is sexy. Why is it 2 women with similar attributes can have the same dress on and one puts the dress on while the other wears the hell out of it?

Hopefully the severed communications you spoke of earlier can be reestablished and substantial dialog can begin. Your using good bait the fish just ain't biting.

I must give props to Ladyscorpio for stepping up. Seems there is one ram among the sheep.

The reasoning behind the similar dress scenario is that one female wearing the hell out of said dress will be confident that she is. Its all about the vibe. You put out positive you get positive returned.


The same goes with good sex, Has nothing to do with the physicality of the pussy but good sex is a mind thing. You can have the tightest pussy in the world and a guy can be packing like there is no tomorrow but if neither of them can stimulate each other with the mental vibe then its just plain ole intercourse. Doesn't even matter if both orgasm its still intercourse.
If there is that fervor, that real desire to give pleasure on both sides then sex will be good.

 

[Mo-Better]

The reasoning behind the similar dress scenario is that one female wearing the hell out of said dress will be confident that she is. Its all about the vibe. You put out positive you get positive returned.


The same goes with good sex, Has nothing to do with the physicality of the pussy but good sex is a mind thing. You can have the tightest pussy in the world and a guy can be packing like there is no tomorrow but if neither of them can stimulate each other with the mental vibe then its just plain ole intercourse. Doesn't even matter if both orgasm its still intercourse.
If there is that fervor, that real desire to give pleasure on both sides then sex will be good.

Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding!

I can see from your response your the one that would wear the hell out of the dress. That works for me.

Yeah its about attitude but its also about ones approach. If you get into each others minds the sexual thing tends to become automatic. It all ties together and it has little to do with physical attributes. If the physical attributes are there too then that's just icing on the cake.

What we define as hot or sexy doesn't mean sex with that person is going to guarantee that mind blowing bedroom experence. I learned that lesson years ago and I never forgot it. Being obsessed with looks, builds, fancy cars and such is a path to unfulfilment.

So forget all that superficial nonsense, I want the woman that wears the hell out of that dress. She doesn't need to be the pagent winner. She just needs to display that confidence I'm looking for. From confidence comes sexuality.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding, Ding!

I can see from your response your the one that would wear the hell out of the dress. That works for me.

Yeah its about attitude but its also about ones approach. If you get into each others minds the sexual thing tends to become automatic. It all ties together and it has little to do with physical attributes. If the physical attributes are there too then that's just icing on the cake.

What we define as hot or sexy doesn't mean sex with that person is going to guarantee that mind blowing bedroom experence. I learned that lesson years ago and I never forgot it. Being obsessed with looks, builds, fancy cars and such is a path to unfulfilment.

So forget all that superficial nonsense, I want the woman that wears the hell out of that dress. She doesn't need to be the pagent winner. She just needs to display that confidence I'm looking for. From confidence comes sexuality.

Mo-Better I must give you props on this right there. Respect