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Black A. Camus

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instead of trying to have sex with you?

Seriously, aren't there times when you're asleep, or tired, or just not in the mood and you'd rather your man take care of himself rather than bother you? Or, would you rather for him to demand you every time he gets horny. When, and how, do you draw the line?
 
Black A. Camus said:
instead of trying to have sex with you?

Seriously, aren't there times when you're asleep, or tired, or just not in the mood and you'd rather your man take care of himself rather than bother you? Or, would you rather for him to demand you every time he gets horny. When, and how, do you draw the line?
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When he wants it...give it to him.......you'll sleep better afterwards anyway!!!
 
I wouldn't get mad.

But I generally don't turn down sex when I'm in a relationship unless it's going to make me late for work or something. But even if I'm mad, he can still get it. I'm just submissive that way.

Now if he does it to turn me on, then shit go on! I'll be a voyeur.
 
I don't mind if he masturbates in general. If he does it because he knows that I'm exhausted or otherwise pre-occupied and chose to do that rather than to pressure me for it, that would be considerate, so that's okay. But then again, he should know me well enough to know that it would be a rare occasion when I don't want it :yes:

Now, if he does secretly to avoid sex with me when he KNOWS I would be down, that's fucked up and a sign of bigger issues.
 
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femmenoire said:
I wouldn't get mad.

But I generally don't turn down sex when I'm in a relationship unless it's going to make me late for work or something. But even if I'm mad, he can still get it. I'm just submissive that way.

Now if he does it to turn me on, then shit go on! I'll be a voyeur.
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DAMN WISH YOU WERE IN THE BOOT!!
 
lilsexii said:
I don't mind if he masturbates in general. If he does it because he knows that I'm exhausted or otherwise pre-occupied and chose to do that rather than to pressure me for it, that would be considerate, so that's okay. But then again, he should know me well enough to know that it would be a rare occasion when I don't want it :yes:

Now, if he does secretly to avoid sex with me when he KNOWS I would be down, that's fucked up and a sign of bigger issues.
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If a man gets to that point the relationship is pretty much over!
 
It doesnt bother me, but sometimes I do feel bad.
Sometimes I am so tired, I am just like let me go to sleep...Please stop poking me! Then he will start stroking himself...He knows if he does that w/ me laying next to him that I am gonna want some so we end up having sex anyway.

But to answer the question, I dont really care. I rather him jack off than fuck someone else any day:yes:
 
I am currently dealing with an anomaly of a man that doesn't masturbate.

I think its unnatural NOT to masturbate... but some people, like Taoists, think differently- they believe that its better for a man's health to actually not ejaculate each and every time stimulated because it decreases his power...


to each his own...
 
MAD? Hell NO! I love to watch him do it. Sometimes I help (licking his balls, sucking the head,...) and when he's ready to cum he picks a spot...YUM:yes::yes:
 
MTL said:
MAD? Hell NO! I love to watch him do it. Sometimes I help (licking his balls, sucking the head,...) and when he's ready to cum he picks a spot...YUM:yes::yes:
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LOL. . cosign to this :D

I used to do that with my ex . . I loved to watch him. . . Such a turn on.
 
When I was younger I would be like why do you masturbate when you can have sex whenever... But now... I don't care. I know that masturbation and sex are two different things... Most guys masturbate so its definitely no biggie...
 
I'm gonna be honest and say it does piss me off. I hate when a dude masterbates every day lol... that was a big issue in a previous relationship.
 
femmenoire said:
I wouldn't get mad.

But I generally don't turn down sex when I'm in a relationship unless it's going to make me late for work or something. But even if I'm mad, he can still get it. I'm just submissive that way.

Now if he does it to turn me on, then shit go on! I'll be a voyeur.
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As I have grown older I have learned not to deal in absolute terms since learning is a life long ordeal. However, when it comes to the subject of to "jack" not to "jack" or to be jacked off I am pretty steadfast. Ladies I agree with you, there are times, very limited and few times, when you just don't feel like being poked, drilled, slammed, prodded, piped or any of the other colorful metaphors used to describe intercourse, let alone having to do any licking, sucking, slurping and slobbing. It is at this time that a well placed handjob becomes a work of art. Ladies go ahead, muster the strength, jack the dick, if we have scummed to the hand job I guarantee we are not trying to hold the nut from you. When done correctly we are talking about a 5 - 7 minute act, come on y'all, some hot talk, eye contact and hand action, can we get that!!!!! Trust me as far as we men are concerned the marathon nut and the handjob nut feel the same in the end when done right.

Now real talk, yea we could do it ourselves, my five fingers and thumb have never let me down, been tiered, or not available, but when I am erking-tha-jerk my mind tends to wonder and truthfully I will probably not be thinking about the women next to me who couldn't get up the strength or time to give me 5-7 minutes!!!! My mind will be on the women who was enthusiastic, and since its all in my mind any women can be a candidate, shit I won't even get into how many times Halle, has been tagged. Think about it:yes:
 

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