Ladies...do you feel yourself pulling back from a male coworker when you feel...

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...you may have given him one smile/laugh too many...or said something a little too friendly although not inappropriate...
 
I work in environments where men are generally lax. I find that I have to either roll with the punches or state my position early in the game so no boundaries are crossed.

But still it happens. Like the tossing a quarter on my ass incident.
 
I work in environments where men are generally lax. I find that I have to either roll with the punches or state my position early in the game so no boundaries are crossed.

But still it happens. Like the tossing a quarter on my ass incident.

Women in IT + Hot looking = Uber sexiness. How can we resist. I always
hugged this big tittied guyanese in the command center.
 
Like the tossing a quarter on my ass incident.

That's straight up harassment and not a line I cross...my example is a new coworker who has been working there for a few weeks...I barely noticed her...not to be disrespectful but I am just very caught up in my work and really don't make time for idle talk...but I almost bumped into her one day and when we looked up at each other there was just a strong sense of familiarity and after that we would always smile and laugh with each other for no reason...almost like a silly high school crush and shit...just staring at each other taking quick glimpses and so on...this went on for about a week...it was obviously some chemistry there but I told myself 'hey this week I need to back off'...I'm having a good year and don't want to get back into having a reputation for dating/flirting with new coworkers which I was notorious for on my last job...seems like she must've had the same "talk" with herself cause she has backed off a lot too...I guess I might have answered my own question...
 
That's straight up harassment and not a line I cross...my example is a new coworker who has been working there for a few weeks...I barely noticed her...not to be disrespectful but I am just very caught up in my work and really don't make time for idle talk...but I almost bumped into her one day and when we looked up at each other there was just a strong sense of familiarity and after that we would always smile and laugh with each other for no reason...almost like a silly high school crush and shit...just staring at each other taking quick glimpses and so on...this went on for about a week...it was obviously some chemistry there but I told myself 'hey this week I need to back off'...I'm having a good year and don't want to get back into having a reputation for dating/flirting with new coworkers which I was notorious for on my last job...seems like she must've had the same "talk" with herself cause she has backed off a lot too...I guess I might have answered my own question...


There is nothing wrong with having friends in the workplace but it is a risk. If the man or woman is a vengeful person and seeks more and you don't it could be trouble. If you go forward with a mutual relationship and it doesn't work out, it could be trouble.

I always just say "You don't shit where you eat".
 
one of my co-workers is fucking the hell out of the secretary-a married white lady.

but in his words, "it's a wonderful arrangement," so i asked him to explain.

he says that she's VERY happily married but has a sex drive that her hubby can't keep up with... so she has him on the side, and they fuck or he gets sucked off just about EVERY day. every day.

when asked how she feels, she simply told him, "i'm a married woman, and i know my place in your life."

:D:yes:shit, imo, it doesn't get any better than that. a married woman that plays her role to get her rocks off. :dance:
 
At my previous job, I had started going out to lunch with my manager. We became good friends and he looked the other way for me a lot... People even thought we were fucking...... Quite a bit of time passed and I did not drop the panties and he did a 180 on me... He gave me a horrible review and made it almost impossible to stay there. I grew very unhappy and left... People are always screaming thats sexual harassment but if you are actually in that situation, you know that shit is real hard to prove. Especially when the company is run by men and when you were a little to cool with him. Pull back don't do it:smh:
 
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But still it happens. Like the tossing a quarter on my ass incident.



ouch that was a no-no.

i have a lot of women that work for me and all of them are "very attractive"

we all joke/flirt/cool but that's about it...

um..well except for one case.....but that was a while ago......
 
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