I'll sum it up as SHORT as I possibly can:
We were together for 3 yrs. Relationship was great, but distance eventually took its toll. We both live in Houston, but never talk. I didn't call her and she didn't call me. Never even asked if she had a man.
Well, finally last night I decide to shoot her an email and she was open to talking (phone). I call and we end up having a 4 1/2 hr convo. She told me her pains and how much I hurt her then. But we also laughed and said some good things too.
However, she does have a man now and although she didn't reference him by name she did mention them possibly spending their lives together. However, she does seem open to meeting for drinks, but I didn't want to push the issue.
So, at 4AM, we close out the convo and I'm really wondering what my next move should be. Fall back, press hard now that we're talking, keep in touch, but ever so often? Hell, I even thought of sending flowers to her office tomorrow, but don't wanna just jump out there too much. In the end I consider this my one and can't fathom going thru life w/o her.
Advice?
We were together for 3 yrs. Relationship was great, but distance eventually took its toll. We both live in Houston, but never talk. I didn't call her and she didn't call me. Never even asked if she had a man.
Well, finally last night I decide to shoot her an email and she was open to talking (phone). I call and we end up having a 4 1/2 hr convo. She told me her pains and how much I hurt her then. But we also laughed and said some good things too.
However, she does have a man now and although she didn't reference him by name she did mention them possibly spending their lives together. However, she does seem open to meeting for drinks, but I didn't want to push the issue.
So, at 4AM, we close out the convo and I'm really wondering what my next move should be. Fall back, press hard now that we're talking, keep in touch, but ever so often? Hell, I even thought of sending flowers to her office tomorrow, but don't wanna just jump out there too much. In the end I consider this my one and can't fathom going thru life w/o her.
Advice?
