Know anyone who's gotten pregnant by a man other than her husband/boyfriend?

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How'd you or her handle the situation? I'm tight with this chic that is currently facing this situation (no I didn't knock her up). And I'm trying to be supportive. Any advice I can give her besides not being so damn careless in the future?
 
my dumb ass brotha wife got knocked up by the local drug dealer...damn shame yo

Not his fault. Now, he would be an idiot to still be with her triflin' ass.

Charge it to the game, get custody of HIS kids and step. She obviously is into bad habit, being married and having affairs with drug dealers. Maybe she has a drug habit. All that should be thrown into the divorce/custody paperwork by the way...
 
"10 percent of all children conceived in the context of a marriage (or a less formal heterosexual pairing) have been fathered by someone from outside the couple."

Source:
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/10/magazine/10section3a.t-1.html

Damn! 1 in 10?? That's deep. But let's just be honest: this shit has been going on since forever.

My girlriend who got caught up like this a few years back just kept her mouth shut about it. She told me, but everyone else naturally assumed her hubby was the dad. To this day, she really doesnt know if the kid's dad is her husband or that other dude. People be talking about, "Yeah, li'l Malik looks just like his daddy..."




Yeah, ok.:rolleyes::hmm:
 
How'd you or her handle the situation? I'm tight with this chic that is currently facing this situation (no I didn't knock her up). And I'm trying to be supportive. Any advice I can give her besides not being so damn careless in the future?

Do the DNA thing and get it all out in the open ASAP and move on... The sooner the better! She need to think of the kid now too late for the rubber!

:cool:
 
Yea I know a girl. She already had one child (baby daddy #1) and was talking to this other guy (#2). She gets pregnant. She tells baby daddy #2 it could be #1 child the last month of her pregnancy. So now she has had the baby and hasnt done a DNA test. She doesnt know if #1 or #2 is the child father and she seems to not care.
 
Tell her to man up. Tell ol' boy and face the consequences. If he love her he may stay. If not then her fault and oh the hell well. :dunno:
 
Yea I know a girl. She already had one child (baby daddy #1) and was talking to this other guy (#2). She gets pregnant. She tells baby daddy #2 it could be #1 child the last month of her pregnancy. So now she has had the baby and hasnt done a DNA test. She doesnt know if #1 or #2 is the child father and she seems to not care.

Me head hurt just trying to figure that story out:confused::smh::lol:

To the OP I hope she tells her current man what she did ... cuz I HATE IT WHEN WOMEN FUCK AROUND AND GET PREGNANT THEN TELL THE MAN 100 YEARS DOWN THE LINE HE MAY NOT BE THE FATHER THEN HE GETS ALL BITTER AND TAKES IT OUT ON ME WHEN I MEET HIM:angry:sorry:o ... I'm ok now:)She needs to be a real women and fess up to what she did and let her man decide if he wants to be with her or not ... if he doesn't want to be around she'll have to take that as her punishment and let him move on ... it is difficult when a mate cheats but to cheat and then bring a child into the mix is devastating cuz the child will always be a reminder of the infidelity ... but tell her not to take it out on the kid cuz it aint the child's fault:smh:
 
Tell her to man up. Tell ol' boy and face the consequences. If he love her he may stay. If not then her fault and oh the hell well. :dunno:


Me head hurt just trying to figure that story out:confused::smh::lol:

To the OP I hope she tells her current man what she did ... cuz I HATE IT WHEN WOMEN FUCK AROUND AND GET PREGNANT THEN TELL THE MAN 100 YEARS DOWN THE LINE HE MAY NOT BE THE FATHER THEN HE GETS ALL BITTER AND TAKES IT OUT ON ME WHEN I MEET HIM:angry:sorry:o ... I'm ok now:)She needs to be a real women and fess up to what she did and let her man decide if he wants to be with her or not ... if he doesn't want to be around she'll have to take that as her punishment and let him move on ... it is difficult when a mate cheats but to cheat and then bring a child into the mix is devastating cuz the child will always be a reminder of the infidelity ... but tell her not to take it out on the kid cuz it aint the child's fault:smh:

Cousin that's the rules right there. Lonestar said the same thing just more beautifully if I may say so myself. :)

Well except for the CAPS part! :lol:
 
My brother just found out that he might be the father os a 7 year old from a local hood rat.

The little girls father has no idea & he loves his child.

Her mother has no plans on making an issue out of it and my brother doesn't give a shit.

To me they're both wrong but maybe it's for the best seeing as how both of the kids real parents are trifflin
 
My brother just found out that he might be the father os a 7 year old from a local hood rat.

The little girls father has no idea & he loves his child.

Her mother has no plans on making an issue out of it and my brother doesn't give a shit.

To me they're both wrong but maybe it's for the best seeing as how both of the kids real parents are trifflin

:smh:That is sad but what's even sadder is not addressing the issue may start a cyle that noone is prepared for ya know what I mean ... kids may grow up and do the same shit ... and so on:smh:
 
My brother did this.

He cheated on his girlfriend with another woman, and she had a child.
My brother and his girlfriend (yes, the same one that he cheated on) have now been married for 10 years.

I will never understand why she stayed.
 
guy I know has a teenage son in a nearby city that his brother and sister know about but his parents, exwife, girlfriend and son never heard of

other than that nah
 
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