Kissing your son on the forehead

[nawlinsn931]

Just asking, how many of the fathers on the board still give their son a kiss on the forehead? Not on no creepy shit
But my miserable ex wife tried to make it something weird because I still kiss my sons (20,16,&15) on their forehead she was like “ they not lil kids anymore and you’re embarrassing them”
I asked them about it and they was cool with it which is all that matters to me
But just asking the board in general

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Embarrassing them and creepy shit are 2 different things.

 

[BGLR1212000]

I have 3 sons. 18, 11, 8.
The 18 year old, if I have to kiss him something is wrong lmao.
My 11 year old, i haven't kiss him in a good while. Maybe one time in the last year if I was really proud of him.
My 8 year old is most likely to get a kiss, because he so young.

I do hug them tho, and honestly we spend a lot of time together so I don't feel the need to be affectionate like that.

 

[nawlinsn931]

I have 3 sons. 18, 11, 8.
The 18 year old, if I have to kiss him something is wrong lmao.
My 11 year old, i haven't kiss him in a good while. Maybe one time in the last year if I was really proud of him.
My 8 year old is most likely to get a kiss, because he so young.

I do hug them tho, and honestly we spend a lot of time together so I don't feel the need to be affectionate like that.

To each his own but I get mine on weekends and I’m at their games so yeah I’m gone let them know dad loves them
I always hug on them

 

[HellBoy]

I haven't done that since my boys were in middle school. They still get hugs though.

 

[Dark19]

Hug and Kiss Your Sons.... Them Your Babies Their Whole Life Don't Matter How Old They Get....Damn What Anybody Else Thinks

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Hug and Kiss Your Sons.... Them Your Babies Their Whole Life Don't Matter How Old They Get....Damn What Anybody Else Thinks

We can admit that a woman’s child/ren are her babies even though they’re like 75 years old but that sentiment is shared with men. Society says that any affection will weaken them. We haven’t felt comfortable to question the idea and society.

This is for the posters who wanted D.Wade to feed his son to the wolves. Coincidently, these are the same folks who rather shit on the parents of the Pee Girl than Robert. At some point we are going to question if society has the individual’s best interest.

 

[Hey Julian!]

My only son is 10 and yes I still kiss him on his forehead. I imagine, that wouldn't change in the future cause I love my son and ain't no gay shit tied to that. I think you said the keywords though, "miserable ex-wife". We already know when a ain't shit woman that's mad at you, the first thing they want to attack with is some gay shit. I wouldn't give that no mind bruh. Your relationship with your sons are between you and them. Fuck what anybody else got a say.

 

[Mask]

Just asking, how many of the fathers on the board still give their son a kiss on the forehead? Not on no creepy shit
But my miserable ex wife tried to make it something weird because I still kiss my sons (20,16,&15) on their forehead she was like “ they not lil kids anymore and you’re embarrassing them”
I asked them about it and they was cool with it which is all that matters to me
But just asking the board in general

The subject of your second sentence, lets me know you’re doing something right

Anyone in my fam will let you about them foreheads kiss

 

[cstrong79]

I'll be damned if I kiss a 20yr old man on his forehead. Not even on a batty boy ting but it's very emasculating

to each their own

 

[APOPHIS]

She's jealous and insecure.
Fuck what she thinks!

 

[nawlinsn931]

I'll be damned if I kiss a 20yr old man on his forehead. Not even on a batty boy ting but it's very emasculating

to each their own

Not trying be debating but what makes you say that? Again not attacking you

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Not trying be debating but what makes you say that? Again not attacking you

300 posts since 2008. You already know how this is going to go.

 

[DMXtreem]

Brotha, kiss your sons. The Black Man is the most cussed, discussed, and hated Man on this planet!!!

 

[Gods_Debris]

Not trying be debating but what makes you say that? Again not attacking you

Cultural nonsense. Guarantee he can't substantiate his position beyond, 'that's how I grew up.' Shit is mad insecure

 

[PsiBorg]

I used to kissed my son on the forehead often. My son passed away in 2020. My son knew that I loved him, and I knew that he loved me as well.

If anyone tries to discourage you from showing your loved ones genuine affection, they are not genuine themselves. Kiss your son on the forehead every chance you get, Bro. Tomorrow is not promised to us.

 

[Famous1]

Nope... Just dap them up and keep it moving.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

I used to kissed my son on the forehead often. My son passed away in 2020. My son knew that I loved him, and I knew that he loved me as well.

If anyone tries to discourage you from showing your loved ones genuine affection, they are not genuine themselves. Kiss your son on the forehead every chance you get, Bro. Tomorrow is not promised to us.

I’m sorry for your loss. As long as your memory is straight, your son will always be with you.

 

[PsiBorg]

I’m sorry for your loss. As long as your memory is straight, your son will always be with you.

Thank you, Brother.

 

[playahaitian]

Brotha, kiss your sons. The Black Man is the most cussed, discussed, and hated Man on this planet!!!

/thread

 

[playahaitian]

I cannot believe we have allowed many decades of oppression, lies, organized racism at every level of national infrastructure to completely rob us of any semblance of humanity love respect and affection with each other.

 

[playahaitian]

Yet we wonder why the world treats us as emotionless beasts.

No one who has lost a child or has a child with an illness or physical challenge would even entertain this nonsense.

 

[Gods_Debris]

I cannot believe we have allowed many decades of oppression, lies, organized racism at every level of national infrastructure to completely rob us of any semblance of humanity love respect and affection with each other.

Oh I absolutely can. Intolerance sings proudly everyday here on these BGOL skreets.

 

[playahaitian]

And ummm guess what?

Withholding affection to your son?

will probably lead him to the exact type relationships yall afraid of.

 

[REDLINE]

I used to kissed my son on the forehead often. My son passed away in 2020. My son knew that I loved him, and I knew that he loved me as well.

If anyone tries to discourage you from showing your loved ones genuine affection, they are not genuine themselves. Kiss your son on the forehead every chance you get, Bro. Tomorrow is not promised to us.

Respect, and I’m sorry to hear about your son…

 

[Gods_Debris]

And ummm guess what?

Withholding affection to your son?

will probably lead him to the exact type relationships yall afraid of.

I see what you're intimating

 

[REDLINE]

There’s nothing wrong with kissing your sons on the forehead.

Everyone doesn’t have that same form of expression and that’s perfectly fine, but you do and that’s great.

 

[playahaitian]

I see what you're intimating

We cant be doing this caveman sh*t in 2026. We need to do better.

Kissing your son on the forehead doesn't make him gay or weak or effeminate.

I can't even begin to understand the mental gymnastics you have to do to believe that.

So the mother shouldn't kiss the daughter because she will be gay?

of course a father shouldn't kiss his daughter either?

Cause then she will only want to be with older men?

the white devil generational manipulation is insanely effective.

 

[jawnswoop]

It's crazy people find everything gay when you want to show love to your kids.

Bro, fuck what they're talking about because if your kids don't have a problem with it nor should you regardless of what others think.

 

[playahaitian]

There’s nothing wrong with kissing your sons on the forehead.

Everyone doesn’t have that same form of expression and that’s perfectly fine, but you do and that’s great.

^^^^^

This

 

[BGLR1212000]

To each his own but I get mine on weekends and I’m at their games so yeah I’m gone let them know dad loves them
I always hug on them

i have mine with me. They run me ragged before and after school every day and they mf expensive. I aint kissing these niggas.

 

[REDLINE]

^^^^^

This

Every person and family's different, if that's the way that they express themselves then that's good.

If the sons don't have an issue with it there is no issue.

 

[bigjayler]

My twins are 11, i kiss them on top of the head, and dap them up.

 

[playahaitian]

Every person and family's different, if that's the way that they express themselves then that's good.

If the sons don't have an issue with it there is no issue.

thats all we saying

But it aint healthy to deliberately withhold affection to your children because you believe that will either make them weak or homosexual.

 

[REDLINE]

thats all we saying

But it aint healthy to deliberately withhold affection to your children because you believe that will either make them weak or homosexual.

Agreed