Kimora's New Baby...Awwwww
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Speaking of pretty babies.
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One had a nose job, the other hasn't
And neither is the worse for it.
Young lady I dont think low of sistas, I was merely making an observation. I was not refering personally to anyone on this board, so why would you take offense? And for the record , a white man would not come up to me making those accusations , because he would have no reason to. I am 3rd generation Morehouse grad, a CPA in the Atlanta area, and I supervise WHITE MEN. So I doubt very seriously if a white guy on the street would approach me that way seeing as how the " thug " element is missing from my character and my appearance. The same way you can tell the difference between white people and crackas, white people can tell the difference between black people and niggas. And I'm not making assumptions as to how that couple lives because I dont have to. They put it on the front page news.
So you admit that looking more Caucasian is superior to looking African.
I think you're reading more into that , than whats really there. Either that, or you're trying to start something.
Why are you getting emotional about his comment
What he said was not directed towards anyone. This is what kills me on SOL. Stop running people off cause you don't agree. He did not direct his opinion to anyone....and you know I am right
Dude was not talking to you so why you getting all emotional. Are you a dead beat parent?...Are you having babies for money...Are you having 3& 4 kids by different daddies? If not then what are you upset about.
If you don't like what he said stop being a bitch about it and actually form a debate to prove him wrong. Sometimes yall so emotional until you proved the dude correct
BrownTurd, just my opinion, but I found his choice of words disturbing. I've heard the argument so many times it doesn't phase me, but the language he used was out of place to me...
He was straight foward and held nothing back in his words. He was not being disrespectful. Now if he directed his words towards individuals then he would have been out of line. He just formed his opinion and expresses himself the best way he knew how. I admit it was edgy but it was not directed at anyone. His words actually make for a good topic that could be 20 pages long and people actually learns something from it or agree to disagree. But often SOL kills these threads so fast.
LoneStar29
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Dude was not talking to you so why you getting all emotional. Are you a dead beat parent?...Are you having babies for money...Are you having 3& 4 kids by different daddies? If not then what are you upset about.
Debate what??? What the fuck was there to debate in here about???
We were looking at a pic of a cute baby plain and simple ... Onyx made a comment about being excited to see her own baby then this jerk comes in here with this shit "Well hopefully your new little one is not out of wedlock like hers is . Whats up with black women? Do you all not care that your children grow up without families?" ... does that not sound like a negative generalization to you??????? What he did was the REAL bitch move
If you started a thread about buying a new car and how excited you were and some idiot strolled in there talking about "I hope you didn't deal drugs to get that car. What's up with Black men always selling drugs?? Don't they realize they are killing our communites for their financial gain???" ... would that make you think "oh ... she just wants to debate" ... or would you think
"wtf is her problem? why would she come in here assuming all that negative shit about me just cause I am a Black man??"?????
The main board is full of threads where brothas will list in great detail all the horrors that are Black women ... all we asked is for him to take it there so we can have a section of peace and quiet ... IS THAT TOO FUCKIN' MUCH TO ASK FOR?????????????????????
If you and him think it's ok to just randomly come out of nowhere spewing negative generalizations towards Black woman for no reason in a thread that has nothing to do with that than that is your opinion ... just take it to BGOL cuz SOL is where the sistas get love from brothas not hassled like every other place
It's amazing how ya'll think just cuz we are on a mens board that you can take all your Black woman hating on us
I don't fuckin' think so ... take that to your mommasEdit: And what exactly do ya'll want us to say anyways??? Do you want us to say "yes we all suck" to make you happy??? These discussions will not result in that so GTFOH
Debate what??? What the fuck was there to debate in here about???
We were looking at a pic of a cute baby plain and simple ... Onyx made a comment about being excited to see her own baby then this jerk comes in here with this shit "Well hopefully your new little one is not out of wedlock like hers is . Whats up with black women? Do you all not care that your children grow up without families?" ... does that not sound like a negative generalization to you??????? What he did was the REAL bitch move
That was the only thing directed at anyone. Everything else was a generalization. But how fucked up it maybe dude was correct. He was not degrading Onyx. He just used her comment as a vessel to state his opionion.
If you started a thread about buying a new car and how excited you were and some idiot strolled in there talking about "I hope you didn't deal drugs to get that car. What's up with Black men always selling drugs?? Don't they realize they are killing our communites for their financial gain???" ... would that make you think "oh ... she just wants to debate" ... or would you think
"wtf is her problem? why would she come in here assuming all that negative shit about me just cause I am a Black man??"?????
He would not be talking to me because I don't live that lifestyle. But I can understand where that poster would be coming from. Now I would either ignore it or debate back. Getting upset over something I don't do is silly
The main board is full of threads where brothas will list in great detail all the horrors that are Black women ... all we asked is for him to take it there so we can have a section of peace and quiet ... IS THAT TOO FUCKIN' MUCH TO ASK FOR?????????????????????
First off you are on a porn board. Porn is all about degrading women.
If you and him think it's ok to just randomly come out of nowhere spewing negative generalizations towards Black woman for no reason in a thread that has nothing to do with that than that is your opinion ... just take it to BGOL cuz SOL is where the sistas get love from brothas not hassled like every other place
You are the one generalizing if you think that topis are about all black women. All black women don't have babies out of wedlock nor do they sleep with men for money. We are all educated enough to know that. Seems like in every post about women you miss that important memo
It's amazing how ya'll think just cuz we are on a mens board that you can take all your Black woman hating on us
Unless you a hoe then no one on BGOL is talking about you. BGOL only comment on hoess
Edit: And what exactly do ya'll want us to say anyways??? Do you want us to say "yes we all suck" to make you happy??? These discussions will not result in that so GTFOH
What we would like is for you to debate the topic and leave the generalization out of the post. You are educated enough to know that we are not refering to all women...
Then the one starting the debate should learn how to debate w/o ignorant comments and generalizations himself.
Which is why-I wouldnt entertain his mess...I refuse to stoop to his level.
Which is why-I wouldnt entertain his mess...I refuse to stoop to his level.
You did by posting about it....
First off you’re stepping in the middle of a conversation. Blunt is a big ‘boy,’ he can speak for himself. Second, I am basing this on his comments from a long line of BGOL comments he has made. This is not an isolated observation.
LoneStar29
Banned
You are completely missing my point
There is a time and place for everything and this was not the time nor the place ... he was out of pocket plain and simple. If he meant no harm then he woulda shut up after the first time we asked him to ... he kept pushing our buttons for a reason and I believe that resaon is hate
That is what I call random acts of generalizationsDebates on BGOL are pointless especially when debating about men and women issues because it will always be about 50 men debating with just me ... not one of you takes the time to "SEE" where I am coming from ... you just say I am emotional and wrong and you insult me until I agree with you
And no I don't know that you aren't talking about all sistas ... BGOL assumes the worst of all sistas just like the media and non blacks do with brothas... I see a problem with that ... too bad you don't
We will just need to agree to disagree
Did what? Posting about what? Did you even read MY posts?
Think what you like-But I dont argue in this or any place w/ children.
I pick and choose battles and there are no battles for me on this topic.
Think what you like-But I dont argue in this or any place w/ children.
I pick and choose battles and there are no battles for me on this topic.
You did by posting about it....
Naw I did not read your post...Now Hush and get nakkid
Post it on the board..lol
Please get this girl a good man so she can stop invading our hoe threadsYou are completely missing my point
Debates on BGOL are pointless especially when debating about men and women issues because it will always be about 50 men debating with just me ... not one of you takes the time to "SEE" where I am coming from ... you just say I am emotional and wrong and you insult me until I agree with you
And no I don't know that you aren't talking about all sistas ... BGOL assumes the worst of all sistas just like the media and non blacks do with brothas... I see a problem with that ... too bad you don't
We will just need to agree to disagree
LoneStar29
Banned
Please get this girl a good man so she can stop invading our hoe threads
Anyways
That is a beautiful baby
I'm out
Well maybe I will....lolol
NOT!
NOT!
Naw I did not read your post...Now Hush and get nakkid
Say what??? Looking more cute is better than looking less cute. Period. Ain't got nothing to do with Caucasian or African.
You are completely missing my point
These are excellent responses. You've proven your point.
Dude was wrong with the personal attack, and tried to clean it up, when called on it. This could be a good topic for it's own thread (although, I believe this, and variations of it have been discussed ad infinitum) but here is not the time or place.
TBone, you're wrong, bruh, and I even happen to agree with some of what you say in theory. So the manly (adult) thing to do would be to say, yeah, maybe I was a little out of line, and move on. Brown Turd coming in and backing you up didn't help, cuz he either didn't read everything or didn't care/comprehend.
Anyway, this is how you respond to an attack. A little less emotion, and a little more analysis.
LoneStar29
Banned
Thank you Harbinger for taking the time to see it from my point of view ... you're right less emotions are better I'm trying to work on that LOL
Say what??? Looking more cute is better than looking less cute. Period. Ain't got nothing to do with Caucasian or African.
You never answer a direct question, but you imply a lot. Does making her nose less ‘African’ looking make her look more ‘cute’ to you? Why would she need to have nose in the first place? I know, so she won't be reminded of her father, even though Joe Jackson is not her father, right?
Who says it was ever "African looking?" She's white.
It was a bit bulbous. She had a minor slimming. It's still very wide and flared (which may be "African" to you), just a bit more streamlined up top. It's not like she's a Jackson female or something, with a non-existent nose.
I believe whites in the public eye have nose jobs too. It's a vanity thing, not a racial one.
LoneStar29
Banned
Who says it was ever "African looking?" She's white.
It was a bit bulbous. She had a minor slimming. It's still very wide and flared (which may be "African" to you), just a bit more streamlined up top. It's not like she's a Jackson female or something, with a non-existent nose.
I believe whites in the public eye have nose jobs too. It's a vanity thing, not a racial one.
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I believe whites in the public eye have nose jobs too. It's a vanity thing, not a racial one
Need I say more?
I dont really see how I was out of line. I did'nt make any personal judgements about anyone on this board. I never attacked anyone , or made generalizations or assumptions. I merely asked the question, why it is that most of the black babies born in this country , are born to black women who are UNMARRIED? And since this is a womans board, I thought I came to the right place to get the answer. But apparently I came to get jumped on. Dont black women think more of themselves than to spend the best years of their lives being semen dumps? And what about the kid when they become teenagers and want to know why they live in Texas and their daddy whom they hardly know lives in Georgia? But you dont want me to make the same mistakes you did??? I believe that conceiving a child out of wedlock is pure selfish, and has nothing to do with love at all.
These are excellent responses. You've proven your point.
Dude was wrong with the personal attack, and tried to clean it up, when called on it. This could be a good topic for it's own thread (although, I believe this, and variations of it have been discussed ad infinitum) but here is not the time or place.
TBone, you're wrong, bruh, and I even happen to agree with some of what you say in theory. So the manly (adult) thing to do would be to say, yeah, maybe I was a little out of line, and move on. Brown Turd coming in and backing you up didn't help, cuz he either didn't read everything or didn't care/comprehend.
Anyway, this is how you respond to an attack. A little less emotion, and a little more analysis.
WTF happened here
LoneStar29
Banned
WTF happened here
It seems us ladies are not safe anywhere on BGOL from unnecessary bashing
It seems us ladies are not safe anywhere on BGOL from unnecessary bashing
I got a safe place for you