Why do you say that????????
I mean I regret that I felt "obligated" to attend shit to show people I didnt give a fuck about that I loved somebody!!!
I had done it b4, but not to the level of my father.
My immediate family understood but I felt obligated as the elder to step up to greet others.
Hell naw, never again.
My mother and one brother still live, so do my kids, I will not pick out a casket for them, I will not attend services.
I wish to mourn my own way.
For me it is best to remember live images of you loved ones, maybe I am crazy.
My last images of my loved ones do not have to be caskets, wakes and the like.
I regret I seen friends and family buried like that since I said.....fuck the practice.
I would rather have dreams of my kids playing then them in the casket!!!!!!
Sometimes you do dream about that shit.
There is no reason to see a loved one dead if you can avoid it, that is my opinon.