just out of curiousity

mariano42

Rising Star
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why do females look at male virgins(21yrs and up) differently when they mention they're a virgin? is it a turn off or something.


just curious.
 
why do females look at male virgins(21yrs and up) differently when they mention they're a virgin? is it a turn off or something.


just curious.

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That is a really good question ... I have heard females say they hate players but then knock a man down who is a virgin ... that is stupid to me:smh:

I don't see anything wrong with a man being a virgin ... you break it when you are ready and I can respect the self control aspect of it:yes:

I've always had a fantasy about being a man's first:yes:;)I'll be gentle:D:lol:
 
I think it depends on how the woman feels about a man being more knowlegdeable when it comes to sex. When I was a virgin, I wanted a man who was a virgin so that we could explore and learn together :rolleyes:
 
Women want someone who has had sexual experence. They don't want to be pawed on and fumbled with. They may not want a Quagmire (Family Guy) but they want someone with experence. A guy that's 21 and still a virgin today is in trouble sexually. Its best he keeps that a secret.
 
That is a really good question ... I have heard females say they hate players but then knock a man down who is a virgin ... that is stupid to me:smh:

I don't see anything wrong with a man being a virgin ... you break it when you are ready and I can respect the self control aspect of it:yes:

I've always had a fantasy about being a man's first:yes:;)I'll be gentle:D:lol:
co-sign. besides a male virgin wont even pressure the female for some pussy. i know they want a guy with experience but everyone was a virgin before. why females are so odd?:smh:
Women want someone who has had sexual experence. They don't want to be pawed on and fumbled with. They may not want a Quagmire (Family Guy) but they want someone with experence. A guy that's 21 and still a virgin today is in trouble sexually. Its best he keeps that a secret.
why should a 21 year old male virgin be troubled sexually? and why should it be a secret? thats stupid to me.
 
^^^Yeah that does sound a little bit unfair to me too Mo-Better ... you gotta find out his reasons behind it first before you can call him "troubled" ... I think it is sweet and a refreshing change from some of these super cocky "I fucked 100 women and I'll fuck your brains out too" kind of men ... and I think it would be fun to teach him as opposed to him thinking he already knows it all:yes:
 
co-sign. besides a male virgin wont even pressure the female for some pussy. i know they want a guy with experience but everyone was a virgin before. why females are so odd?:smh:

why should a 21 year old male virgin be troubled sexually? and why should it be a secret? thats stupid to me.

If you are not having sex because of religious reasons then thats fine, but if thats not the reason then you are in trouble.
 
man shyt ain't nothin wrong with a nigga that wanna wait. As much diseases runnin round here he better off waitin for the right female. Females be talkin bout they wanna man with experience, but shyt ladies if you are a good teacher and patient you can mold a nigga into something serious. That's where most of yall be missin out
 
co-sign. besides a male virgin wont even pressure the female for some pussy. i know they want a guy with experience but everyone was a virgin before. why females are so odd?:smh:

why should a 21 year old male virgin be troubled sexually? and why should it be a secret? thats stupid to me.

Buy today's standards a 21 year old male virgin may already be several years behind his peer group sexually. It's bad to say but it's a fact. :eek:

Sexual pressure can come and often comes from the females. It's not just the men who want to get off sexually. Women mature faster than men. So don't think its all about what the guy wants. Women want sex as much as men do especially young women.

You meet a nice girl and pull that virgin crap. She'll respect you alright. Then she'll try and break the next guy she meets dick off. But she'll respect you. :rolleyes:

Just like men, women are going to get theirs. So you got a choice, it can be you or the next guy she meets.
 
^^^OR he can wait till he meets a woman mature enough to respect his decision and not look down on him for it and let HER break his virginity *cough like me cough*:D(did I mention it was a fantasy of mine:rolleyes:):)
 
^^^OR he can wait till he meets a woman mature enough to respect his decision and not look down on him for it and let HER break his virginity *cough like me cough*:D(did I mention it was a fantasy of mine:rolleyes:):)


Well, I can reclaim my virginity and have it broken again :rolleyes:
 
^^^OR he can wait till he meets a woman mature enough to respect his decision and not look down on him for it and let HER break his virginity *cough like me cough*:D(did I mention it was a fantasy of mine:rolleyes:):)

Were not getting the whole story. In an age where kids are exposed to more sexual content than ever before, a 21 year old virgin male is as rare as a virgin in a maternity ward.

Yes you did. (cough ah hmm) Do be careful with that fantasy of yours, you don't make someones pedo list. :roflmao3:
 
man shyt ain't nothin wrong with a nigga that wanna wait. As much diseases runnin round here he better off waitin for the right female. Females be talkin bout they wanna man with experience, but shyt ladies if you are a good teacher and patient you can mold a nigga into something serious. That's where most of yall be missin out


True indeed...I just found out one of my homegirls has herpes :eek::eek::eek::eek:...To make matters worse she told me there's been a couple times (since finding out she has it) when she didn't tell the guy before sleeping with him...:smh::smh::smh::smh:


No matter how much experience we have, when it comes to sex we've all got to...

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Yes you did. (cough ah hmm) Do be careful with that fantasy of yours, you don't make someones pedo list. :roflmao3:

:lol:Oops I guess I forgot to mention there is an age requirement of 20 and over;):rolleyes::lol:

True indeed...I just found out one of my homegirls has herpes :eek::eek::eek::eek:...To make matters worse she told me there's been a couple times (since finding out she has it) when she didn't tell the guy before sleeping with him...:smh::smh::smh::smh:

Your homegirl is:smh:one of "those" disease spreaders:hmm:
 
:lol:Oops I guess I forgot to mention there is an age requirement of 20 and over;):rolleyes::lol:



Your homegirl is:smh:one of "those" disease spreaders:hmm:


Word. That's not a good look. Honestly Star, when she told me about not telling people about her condition I lost allot of respect for her. Overall, I guess she and I can still be cool, but that's fucked up...
 
Word. That's not a good look. Honestly Star, when she told me about not telling people about her condition I lost allot of respect for her. Overall, I guess she and I can still be cool, but that's fucked up...

Hella fucked up:smh::hmm:That is one of the main resons why these STD's are out of control like this ... because of people like her who don't tell their partners about it:smh::hmm:Personally I would have to reavaluate my friendship with a person like that cuz it goes against their character:smh::hmm:
 
Hella fucked up:smh::hmm:That is one of the main resons why these STD's are out of control like this ... because of people like her who don't tell their partners about it:smh::hmm:Personally I would have to reavaluate my friendship with a person like that cuz it goes against their character:smh::hmm:

I feel you. Honestly she's always had some questionable ways and tendencies. We're cool but I'm not tight with her like I am with other people. She's one of those people who always seems to have ulterior motives with what she says and does. You never know though, this might be a turning point...
 
Word. That's not a good look. Honestly Star, when she told me about not telling people about her condition I lost allot of respect for her. Overall, I guess she and I can still be cool, but that's fucked up...
i would too. that why people should fuck in a relationship. beside you cant trust people nowadays because alot of people cheat too.
True indeed...I just found out one of my homegirls has herpes :eek::eek::eek::eek:...To make matters worse she told me there's been a couple times (since finding out she has it) when she didn't tell the guy before sleeping with him...:smh::smh::smh::smh:


No matter how much experience we have, when it comes to sex we've all got to...

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co-sign. that friends with benefits syht is dumb as fuck. is a orgasm really worth your life?
:lol:"Gentle" is my middle name;):devil::rolleyes::lol:

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i would too. that why people should fuck in a relationship. beside you cant trust people nowadays because alot of people cheat too.


Word. She claims she got it from a guy she was dating...Whatever the case may be it's a wild and fucked up situation...

co-sign. that friends with benefits syht is dumb as fuck. is a orgasm really worth your life?


:lol::lol:


Not at all. Orgasms are great, but not if they threaten someone's health...
 
True indeed...I just found out one of my homegirls has herpes :eek::eek::eek::eek:...To make matters worse she told me there's been a couple times (since finding out she has it) when she didn't tell the guy before sleeping with him...:smh::smh::smh::smh:


No matter how much experience we have, when it comes to sex we've all got to...

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Not that it is any consolation, but hopefully your homegirl is on suppressive therapy (and used condoms) which may have reduced the probability of her spreading the infection (though herpes can be spread AT ANY TIME -- even when using condoms and there is no outbreak occuring).

See if you can encourage her to speak to her local Department of Health and give the names/addresses/phone of the men she has slept with, they can inform them that they have been exposed and need to get tested, without compromising her anonymity.
 
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