Just found out my brother-in-law molested my niece, his own sister's daughter. I'm heated

godofwine

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I know this might not be the place for this discussion. I can't put this shit on social media.

I just found out that my brother-in-law molested my niece, his sister's daughter. The sad irony is his father molested my ex-wife. The police say that they don't have any evidence, not enough to prosecute. I am beyond heated right now.

WTF? The cops can arrest somebody without a shred of evidence comma butt they don't lock up this sick fucker? I hate the fucking law. Mother fuckers need to take the law into their own hands in situations like this. This was the sweetest little girl, too, and now she's got this shit to deal with for the rest of her life.

If there's any crime that should be punishable by murder it is that one. There is hardly a worse crime in my opinion then molesting a girl for anyone. My niece was 6 when it first started, his father did the same to my wife between the ages of four and six (he's not my father in law, just some broke ass bum her mom was fucking when she was a little girl). Hearing about this ripped the bandage off of the wound my ex still has not healed from 30 years earlier.

I'm telling y'all so I don't kill him - I want to, but the sonofabitch went into hiding. The main reason you commit a crime is to get away with it, and I would get more time for killing him then he would get for doing what he did to a 6 year old girl the sick fuck

Is it hereditary? I mean, most molesters were molested, but this guy is the seed of the man that molested my ex-wife, her mother's ex boyfriend. Ain't no excuse. None, but some motherfuckers should not ever see the light of another day - period. I swear, that crazy dude that I got locked up inside my head with the I-Love-Me coat on is rocking back and forth saying, "Just put me in, coach."

Do any of you have any experience with this situation that the cars way too much and isn't talked about nearly enough? How did you deal when you found out?
 
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Think about others who need you and being locked up will not help. The best justice is to make him a pariah and shame him heavily to family and outsiders alike. Have him get help for his problem and no unsupervised exposure to minors for life. Think of others before you act harshly. Also consult an attorney or a child abuse advocate so a legal report can be made by his victims. I can't stress enough be smart, anger will make life harder for others if you are locked up.
 
you have to put it out there
local hangouts, barber shop, bodega
ex girlfriends wherever
that anybody see him and they let you know where he is
you will reward them handsomely

when you find him, a good kneecapping is the least you could do
 
My pops had a homeboy who made his stepdaughter jack him off when she was about 12 or 13


Sick fuck told everyone it was her fault walking around the house in those shorts and shit. Dude got locked up and served about 15-18 years I can't remember.

Got out last year or in 15... Has never seen his 19 year old son in person who is now in the Air Force & has to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

We never kicked it with him or his family again when we found out. This shit happened in the late 90s.
 
No disrespect to you OP, and I understand if you want to censor yourself but the fact that you created this thread either means you want to give yourself a reason not to do shit, you aint about that life or you're not thinking clearly. Even if you wanted to do shit you can't because you've put that shit in print....

If it's me, the last thing I'm thinking about is creating a thread about that shit... I'm... nevermind.

Respect to you for the passion you carry though, shit definitely needs to be addressed with Dude though...
 
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If the family is talking and bout sweeping it under the rug and forgiving the pervert you might want to start distancing yourself from them, and tell your kids to forget about ever spending the night at any relatives house
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The answer is NOT to take the law into your own hands. What will that accomplish? For a few minutes of satisfaction you fuck up your life and your family's lives? Cool down. Talk to your fam and stop them from doing something stupid and reckless. Cool down let the law take it's course and if needs must, revenge is a dish best served cold.
 
Sorry to hear that, bro. I hope he trips and lands neck first on a spiked bat.
 
You might want to delete this thread so that it doesn't come back to bite you in case you see him and decide to not think logically.

To answer your question I've had a close family member that was molested by another and a few ex's that were molested.
 
The police, the DA? Dude went into hiding too? Not enough?

Damn bruh sorry to hear about this. I really would have a hard time not trying to bash his head in.
Man, I kept it together talking to the ex and got off the phone with her and headed over her place. I called my cousin and I damned near crashed, and fam, she caught me...JUST caught me, "What are you doing right now (she heard my GPS). Are you DRIVING? Pull the fuck over right now!

Seconds, I mean seconds after I pulled over I just started crying and shaking like a leaf. All that anger and frustration with nowhere to release it. She saved my life because I was driving down the center of the damned road before she said something.

Man, I got no goon squad, and no connections in my old city. I lost contact with most of my squad once I went into the military and came back and none of them changed, still living at home and shit.

Shit, we don't even come close to rollin in the same circles. I wouldn't know the first place to look. Fuck a kneecapping, I'd pull his knee backward like a chicken wing. Make the mofo a lifelong handicap
 
You might want to delete this thread so that it doesn't come back to bite you in case you see him and decide to not think logically.

To answer your question I've had a close family member that was molested by another and a few ex's that were molested.
I would never not think logically. Every though calculated. I know that the system could give me more time for viciously whoopin his ass than he would get for molesting a 6 yr old. . I know that my phone is a working GPS, and if I were to get at him I can't have the phone on me, on or off.
 
Wait you are you related to this lil girl?
She's my niece. My ex's sister's daughter. I've known the girl since she was born. She even lived with us for a second while her apartment was getting ready here in Medina when she was making the move from Cleveland.
 
Man you gotta have friends from before you made it, to handle shit like this on the low. Sorry to hear. I dated a chick that was molested as a kid, and even as a grown women, some wounds inside just never healed. Get the girl some help asap. pay the money for the long term therapy!!!!. If not her life as a mother,wife will be forever fucked
 
You might want to delete this thread so that it doesn't come back to bite you in case you see him and decide to not think logically.

To answer your question I've had a close family member that was molested by another and a few ex's that were molested.
Even if he doesn't do shit but something happens to Dude he's a prime suspect.... That why I said if this shit was me the last damn thing I would be thinking about is making a damn thread about that shit.... Some whit just doesn't need to be posted... Social media stays with people self snitching or just keeps them stuck on stupid. (Not referring to the OP with the stupid statement just speaking in general) :smh:
 
That's sad to hear. I hope that little girl can recover without letting what happen to her destroy her development.

Treating her like something is wrong with her cuz she's been molested isn't helpful either.

I had a cousin from a great uncle on my grandmas side who was molested by his uncle who was also molested as a kid.

So when you say is it hereditary I wonder. Something about that shit is like poison. It's a viscous cycle.

Like Azazel from that movie with Denzel hopping from person to person.

Gotta be careful with these blended families.

I say the family needs to come to a consensus on how they will deal with him from now on.

Whoever closest to him takes the lead in how they treat him will be the lead the whole family takes.

He obviously needs help. Wouldn't be a surprised if it turns out he was molested too. :smh:
 
sorry and sad to hear about this godofwine, but i hope you find and beat the living shit out of his ass
 
It's sad to hear but killing that piece of shit over your niece will have you sitting down for awhile. If you can do 20-40 years then go ahead. Maybe you can even argue it down to murder 2 and get only 25 years...oh wait you put it in print so it's kind of premeditated.
 
No disrespect to you OP, and I understand if you want to censor yourself but the fact that you created this thread either means you want to give yourself a reason not to do shit, you aint about that life or you're not thinking clearly. Even if you wanted to do shit you can't because you've put that shit in print....

If it's me, the last thing I'm thinking about is creating a thread about that shit... I'm... nevermind.

Respect to you for the passion you carry though, shit definitely needs to be addressed with Dude though...
I'm smart enough to know that the law protects people like him far more than people like me retaliating. I wouldn't even know where to look for him because he's virtually homeless just staying with random people in Cleveland, and since we ain't in the same circles I wouldn't know.

I posted this here because BGOL is the barbershop. Most time we laugh and joke about bullshit one way or the other, but sometimes it gets real real, and I needed to release it in some way before I blew up.
 
How does your father-in-law know your ex-wife? :confused:
My brother in law's father dated my ex's mother between the ages of 4-6. He's not father in law, never married, just some guy who was fucking my ex's mom enough to produce a kid, and... :smh:
 
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