Jennifer Hudson-Pregnant

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So many already ready know it is now confirmed Jennifer Hudson in pregnant. In my opinion congrats, but many are saying why congratulate her she is pregnant and not married yet.
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Your thoughts?


**Side note he would get everyday if he was my man**
 
Congrats!

New life is new life. For us country people we'd be thinking she's gonna give birth to her mother. Or if it's a boy her nephew.


I know how folks feel about children before marriage, but as long as you happy do you. Life too short to please other people.
 
Marriage does not mean anything. People have open marriages, people cheat on their spouses, etc. It is a religious thing and mostly done for others... I think a real commitment between two people to raise their children together is more important.

I am happy that she has some new life coming into her family after the terrible losses she had last year :)
 
Marriage does not mean anything. People have open marriages, people cheat on their spouses, etc. It is a religious thing and mostly done for others... I think a real commitment between two people to raise their children together is more important.

I am happy that she has some new life coming into her family after the terrible losses she had last year :)

Marriage is what you make it.If you think of it as nothing then it will mean nothing to YOU.
 
Marriage does not mean anything.

I have to agree. There are people who live with their SO for years then get married and it is over within months. On the other hand there are people who commit to each other without the ceremony and live together happily forever until they die.
 

I have to agree. There are people who live with their SO for years then get married and it is over within months. On the other hand there are people who commit to each other without the ceremony and live together happily forever until they die.
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people. The commitment is what means something. But 2 people do not have to be married to have a wonderful relationship and life with their children.
 
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people.

It also provides legal protection and social stability for the child (and spouse).
 
She is dating a guy that allowed a chick to call him punk?

Don't be surprised if he ends up being a punk a few years down the road.
 
It also provides legal protection and social stability for the child (and spouse).

you shack up with a girl long enough in some states she automatically becomes your wife anyway. you can have a socially stable child without the parents living together.
 
you shack up with a girl long enough in some states she automatically becomes your wife anyway.

Very rare occurrence, and not the point. If you don't want to make a legal committment simply out of love, then you should at least consider the ramifications of having a child together and/or living together long-term without legal protection.

you can have a socially stable child without the parents living together.

Much less likely.
 
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Very rare occurrence, and not the point. If you don't want to make a legal committment simply out of love, then you should at least consider the ramifications of having a child together and/or living together long-term without legal protection.

come on dude this ain't the 40's and 50's the same people that spot that shit you are saying are the same people who say the gays shouldn't have the same type of legal protection.
 
come on dude this ain't the 40's and 50's the same people that spot that shit you are saying are the same people who say the gays shouldn't have the same type of legal protection.

The 40s and 50s were better for it (especially for black families), and of course gays should get similar legal protection.
 
I think its wonderful because she is bringin new life into the world. She just had alot of tragic things going on in her life and she could use a bundle of joy to lift her spirits... and yes its probably gonna be a rebirth of her mom or nephew... someway somehow her child will remind her of them
 
I think its wonderful because she is bringin new life into the world. She just had alot of tragic things going on in her life and she could use a bundle of joy to lift her spirits... and yes its probably gonna be a rebirth of her mom or nephew... someway somehow her child will remind her of them

What you say is inevitable, I wish her and her child much happiness and success. :yes:
 
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people. The commitment is what means something. But 2 people do not have to be married to have a wonderful relationship and life with their children.


:yes:chuuch tabernacle! right on follow
 
:yes:chuuch tabernacle! right on follow

*walks into church and kicks the pastor in the nuts*

:hmm: F.O.H.
Based on that logic, nobody really has to do anything.

Here's one.

Why go to school to get a certified education when you can get the SAME knowledge outside of school?

Look. I have nothing against two grown ass adults that want to have a committed relationship (whatever the fuck that means) outside of marriage. But please leave kids out of that mess.
:hmm:

*spits* "ptt-uah!"
 
not very common for black women to be married while they are pregnant anymore...the only people making this an issue are whites, you can believe that.

but i'll be damned if J-hud isn't looking quite busted in that picture though...damn! :smh::smh:
 
So many already ready know it is now confirmed Jennifer Hudson in pregnant. In my opinion congrats, but many are saying why congratulate her she is pregnant and not married yet.
jennifer-hudson-and-david-otunga-51st-grammy-sMFsfU.jpg


Your thoughts?


**Side note he would get everyday if he was my man**

As I said before I wish Jennifer and her child all the best.

I do take issue to those who would not congratulate her. Why must we always look to find fault of others? It's not like any of us are or have lived stellar God like lifestyles. Who are we to judge? After what this girl has gone through (the murders) we should be looking to support her and give her our support. Not find fault because she's not married. :(

This woman has her career and the means to take care of herself and her child. On the other hand we as a people have become incredibly hateful and resentful of our own. Every chance we get we make statement or start threads to discredit our brothers and sisters. (not you Onyx I know you wanted a discussion) This self hating needs to stop. :hmm:
 
So lets go half on a baby:D
U know, the last woman to have me willing to do anything, i mean, anything was a Scorpio. Y'all are dangerous, but so damn hard to resist,...................................................................Ok, lets do it! :dance: U know, we would make a beautiful child, from what i can see.:D
 
Thats all black women do is get knocked up out of wed lock. The plantation is gone, but not the plantation mentality. Thats a dam shame. From the crack head to the celebrity.
 
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