Marriage does not mean anything. People have open marriages, people cheat on their spouses, etc. It is a religious thing and mostly done for others... I think a real commitment between two people to raise their children together is more important.
I am happy that she has some new life coming into her family after the terrible losses she had last year![]()
Marriage does not mean anything.
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people. The commitment is what means something. But 2 people do not have to be married to have a wonderful relationship and life with their children.I have to agree. There are people who live with their SO for years then get married and it is over within months. On the other hand there are people who commit to each other without the ceremony and live together happily forever until they die.
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people.
It also provides legal protection and social stability for the child (and spouse).
you shack up with a girl long enough in some states she automatically becomes your wife anyway.
you can have a socially stable child without the parents living together.
wow interesting responses! Lol @melon my folks are from the south too!
Very rare occurrence, and not the point. If you don't want to make a legal committment simply out of love, then you should at least consider the ramifications of having a child together and/or living together long-term without legal protection.
come on dude this ain't the 40's and 50's the same people that spot that shit you are saying are the same people who say the gays shouldn't have the same type of legal protection.
Marriage does not mean anything. People have open marriages, people cheat on their spouses, etc. It is a religious thing and mostly done for others...
I think its wonderful because she is bringin new life into the world. She just had alot of tragic things going on in her life and she could use a bundle of joy to lift her spirits... and yes its probably gonna be a rebirth of her mom or nephew... someway somehow her child will remind her of them
I'm used to speaking with my own people. Let me clarify: the actual act of getting married means nothing. It is mostly done for other people. The commitment is what means something. But 2 people do not have to be married to have a wonderful relationship and life with their children.
chuuch tabernacle! right on follow
Oh-oh. Another single mother for folks here to hate.
So many already ready know it is now confirmed Jennifer Hudson in pregnant. In my opinion congrats, but many are saying why congratulate her she is pregnant and not married yet.
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Your thoughts?
**Side note he would get everyday if he was my man**
If so, congrats. They are adults and can make they own choices.
U know, the last woman to have me willing to do anything, i mean, anything was a Scorpio. Y'all are dangerous, but so damn hard to resist,...................................................................Ok, lets do it!So lets go half on a baby![]()
Thats all black women do is get knocked up out of wed lock. The plantation is gone, but not the plantation mentality. Thats a dam shame. From the crack head to the celebrity.