It's the intent/principle of the matter...What do y'all think??

[LeroyDibiase]

^^^Straight ghetto jibber-jabber^^^^

I can take whatever you throw out and about it.... If I couldn't type you wouldn't be able to respond to my posts.

####### strippers named Helga--funny, but not that funny for the response it got... So I guess his sex problem started AFTER the trip-- yeah right... get it together if you're gonna respond...and read very, very slowly so that you can process what you read--eventually...This is actually starting to be fun!

He says he's gonna take a swigg at this post, himself, soon...As we both laugh at the use of the word chickens being written over and over, like it's going to intimidate someone. He asked me before, why I #### with this lame board. Of course I defend it saying, I love to come on hear, so that I can leave appreciating how far life has brought me.

This is just for some of the members, not all. Alot of you do make sense, even if it is directed at me or others ignorantly. Go Obama!

Ghetto jibber-jabber? Me ghetto? And how dare you steal jibber-jabber from me? Two, Why did you post if you didn't want people to respond? Did you want your ass kissed? Have you read the advice-seeking threads on this board? If this board is lame, then don't come. Tell your limp-dick husband, don't come either, though it seems that not cumming is your problem, not his. I like how you say this board shows you how far you've gone in life, but your still an immoral *insert BiGirl's favorite insult that begins with S* who cheats on her husband, puts his business on a website, and can't take criticism of her foolish behavior.

Go to lipstickalley and join a hen circle if you want hand-holding. We keep it real thoro on BGOL.

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

Well, well, well...Its nice to know y'all have such strong opinions about everything. First off, I'm not looking for advice, just perspective. I have to agree with most of y'all for several reasons, but of course, I can't spill everything out on the internet in 2 or 3 short paragraphs. I just summed it up very shortly--still being upset for other reasons.
And further more, I'm not a nurse. What nurse you know makes 105k, besides a nurse anaesthetist, and rarely. My salary has nothing to with this post. And trust me, there are plenty of women who would love to be in my shoes, but....I have always had great men in my life--he's no exception (including my dad), so no I'm not one of these desparate women out here who wishes and prays for a husband--a good one or not. I never was the type of girl who dreamed of being married. I'm a spiritual person. People who love each other don't have to be "married".
And for those of you who claim I don't love him...get a grip. EVERYTHING I did was before marriage--and I was completely honest--unlike some of you! Marriage is a very delicate situation to me, and I've been a great wife--his words.....I'm not knocking him too much on his indiscretions, and fuck-ups during the marriage because this was just supposed to be from my view. As far as holding my man down, sexually, I would love to but its hard when you have to pretend all the time. Yeah, I knew this before marriage but.....you don't marry someone or not because the sex isn't perfect--that is SELFISH and shady, as stated by LoneStar29.
Some of you took this way to personal *cough*cough......It's just an internet post, with angry underlying tones. That why I said "just jokes" with the NBA player comment. LOL! Alreeady been there and done that!!
I just sucked my man into a tight vacation to Venezuela and another 1 carat ring! ............and before some of y'all go there, I hooked him up too, with a new Cartier watch....Ha! Be easy (some of you!) It's just a random, leisure porn board...Sorry I have no stories about getting caught in my bed with another man (which would have turned this post into a more sensitive, empathetic post)--Again excuse the typos!

now you make it sound like it aint so serious? whatever. the part in bold demonstrates how selfish you are. no woman has to be treated bad in order to appreciate a good man. i concur with the other posts--divorce him! since it aint no big deal he's a good husband, let someone else have him who will appreciate him!

 

[bigirl]

*insert BiGirl's favorite insult that begins with S*

yes that is the appropriate word in its full extended form

@ you not even being able to type it

and welcome back leroy

@ this whole thread

 

[somebodyshome]

I LIKE UR STYLE (somebodyshome)

Thanks, Man !!! I ain't scared of these Mu'fuckas!

 

[somebodyshome]

Ghetto jibber-jabber? Me ghetto? And how dare you steal jibber-jabber from me? Two, Why did you post if you didn't want people to respond? Did you want your ass kissed? Have you read the advice-seeking threads on this board? If this board is lame, then don't come. Tell your limp-dick husband, don't come either, though it seems that not cumming is your problem, not his. I like how you say this board shows you how far you've gone in life, but your still an immoral *insert BiGirl's favorite insult that begins with S* who cheats on her husband, puts his business on a website, and can't take criticism of her foolish behavior.

Go to lipstickalley and join a hen circle if you want hand-holding. We keep it real thoro on BGOL.

True dat. Of course this isn't the only board I frequent. I'm a stay-at-home mom--remember?? I really have nothing to do all day but breastfeed and cruise the net, until I start working in 4 months--in which event I won't be able to even look at my computer when I get home. Just chillin' until that time.

So you telling me to go to a less "real" board is not offensive. If some of y'all took this thread to be "Oh My!" or "stupid", as some of you 5th graders would say, then you definitely would not like able2know.com .... So, I definitely get what some of you are saying, but I know it ain't the whole story .......and the fact that I'm bored has alot to do with it, as well ....Oh and Leroy he cums just fine, "Yum!" ... but size, unfortunately, y'all (the ones who count) can't do nothing about.

 

[LoneStar29]

^^^You have got to be the dumbest bitch on BGOL ... you adding to this whole mess now that he has a small dickAnd you call yourself a "good wife"?No self respecting husband loving REAL woman would EVER put her man on blast like you have in this threadSilly chickenhead

 

[somebodyshome]

^^^You have got to be the dumbest bitch on BGOL ... you adding to this whole mess now that he has a small dickAnd you call yourself a "good wife"No self respecting husband loving REAL woman would EVER put her man on blast like you have in this threadSilly chickenhead

It's called being anonymous.. Hmmm do you know his name?? Huh? I could be sitting right across from you and you wouldn't know it. That's why we have screen names....Not real names. Do you get it, huh??

The size of any man's penis/woman's breasts shouldn't have to do with the "love" one has for their spouse. I just vented, asked for perspective just in case someone has been in a similar situation and could relate OR NOT relate, in most instances.

Maybe someone can tell me a trick they used to get over the "size" issue to make it more pleasurable for me. He is always pleased when I'm taking care of business. I love pleasing him, but I just want to learn some tricks for myself. Hint, being on a "porn" board.

(Not adressing your dumb ass anymore, LoneStar"15"!!)

In general:
Everyone goes through stuff in their marriage,I'm no exception. Just look at alot of the threads on this board. I simply put a small piece of what issues I have experienced in a thread. Am I going to seek a divorce lawyer now-- yeah right! My husband is a very good, understanding man...and has bought some sex toys for us to try based on what he's read. He doesn't like me on this site, especially with me entertaining convo back and forth, but he appreciates that I don't hide anything from him.
The chick, his "business-partner" and I have plans to go and look at some property later on today. So, yes, I misunderstood the situation, but I think it has alot to do with being cramped up in the house and maybe some kind of post-partum madness

Am I still upset with him feeling on some strippers tit--and she was black, by the way--yes, because he was afraid to openly tell me. I don't want any secrets in our relationship. I want to be down for him and he for me--but no one can do that with their significant other, if there are lies and secrets hindering their growth.

 

[LoneStar29]

^^^The bottom line is that you are a big chicken head ... I've read your posts and you are changing them around now to avoid any further backlash ... at first you wanted out for some stupid reasons then when everybody told you you were a two timing gold digging trick you changed your tune ... like a real chickenhead would

You are that stereotypical gold digging, materialistic, ungrateful, unappreciative, wannabee fucking NBA players sketel that gives good women a bad name

You put your husband on full blast regardless of whether it is anonymous or not ... if you really loved him and you were the "good wife" you claim to be you wouldn't be talking all this shit about him to a bunch of strangers ... do you not have any frieds you can confide in ... why the fuck would you air your personal marriage issues to a bunch of strangers than take time away from caring for your kids to internet squable with someone you think isn't worth your time ... oh yeah ... it's cuz you're a big chickenhead

And regardless of wether it was before or after marriage you are still a two timing whore cuz you were in a relationship and fucked other men ... PERIOD

Respond or not ... I don't give a fuck ... cuz you'll be a dumb bird wether responding to me or anybody else

 

[Rossini]

Sounds to me like "somebodyshome" is a very nice looking women/former groupie that managed to hit the lotto with a ol simp ass rich nigga that was fooled by her looks and married her, now shes looking for reasons to divorce him so she can take half his shit an get that child support money so she wont have to work for the next 18 years. This post should be a lesson to all males on the board, don't let a womens looks fool you.

 

[LoneStar29]

Sounds to me like "somebodyshome" is a very nice looking women/former groupie that managed to hit the lotto with a ol simp ass rich nigga that was fooled by her looks and married her, now shes looking for reasons to divorce him so she can take half his shit an get that child support money so she wont have to work for the next 18 years. This post should be a lesson to all males on the board, don't let a womens looks fool you.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

It's called being anonymous.. Hmmm do you know his name?? Huh? I could be sitting right across from you and you wouldn't know it. That's why we have screen names....Not real names. Do you get it, huh??

The size of any man's penis/woman's breasts shouldn't have to do with the "love" one has for their spouse. I just vented, asked for perspective just in case someone has been in a similar situation and could relate OR NOT relate, in most instances.

Maybe someone can tell me a trick they used to get over the "size" issue to make it more pleasurable for me. He is always pleased when I'm taking care of business. I love pleasing him, but I just want to learn some tricks for myself. Hint, being on a "porn" board.

(Not adressing your dumb ass anymore, LoneStar"15"!!)

In general:
Everyone goes through stuff in their marriage,I'm no exception. Just look at alot of the threads on this board. I simply put a small piece of what issues I have experienced in a thread. Am I going to seek a divorce lawyer now-- yeah right! My husband is a very good, understanding man...and has bought some sex toys for us to try based on what he's read. He doesn't like me on this site, especially with me entertaining convo back and forth, but he appreciates that I don't hide anything from him.
The chick, his "business-partner" and I have plans to go and look at some property later on today. So, yes, I misunderstood the situation, but I think it has alot to do with being cramped up in the house and maybe some kind of post-partum madness

Am I still upset with him feeling on some strippers tit--and she was black, by the way--yes, because he was afraid to openly tell me. I don't want any secrets in our relationship. I want to be down for him and he for me--but no one can do that with their significant other, if there are lies and secrets hindering their growth.

You could shrink your vagina.

 

[LoneStar29]

You could shrink your vagina.

Dyin'

 

[shanebp1978]

You could shrink your vagina.

Me thinks the lady doth protest too much!

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/TfHqv8YAA9w&hl=en[/flash]
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[Adam Knows]

Ive been married for 2 years, and our anniversary is coming up. We are both professional people and started out as friends... Before marriage, I did some pretty wild shit (mainly having sex with other men) but I confessed to all of this before we got married. Dude really had no detrimental reaction--sooo in love,broken heart, but wanting to move on. His attitude was kinda like, we already engaged...and I love you, so let's go on with it. New start. O.k. we jumped the broom. We had premarital counseling and all. I went into the marriage a whole different woman, even decided to have a baby because he wanted one soooo bad--I didn't.(I have an older one from previous relationship.) He is a great father and excellent husband. The problem is I think I've sacrificed too much.
The sex is wack most of the time ( I tell him it's good, like a good wife); he's so tired from trying to be 'the man' on the job that he's too exhausted for any lengthy periods of love-making (more than 1 hour). I decided to quit my 105k job to be a temporary stay-at-home mom for 1 year (we decided its best for the baby); not to mention I moved to another state for his job for 2 years....and while I'm pregnant, I find out that he was in Germany for a 1 week visit with his brother dancing freaky and feeling up on some chicks boobs, which I learned because I finally made him get a lie detector test because of some "friend"/business-partner that he decides to exclude me from. The girl and I exchange words and she stopped talking to him, just like that.
I feel like he used "business" as a tool to try to grow a frienship with this girl--innocent he says. And friends are all good, as long as they acknowledge the spouse. Of course, this was not happening. He would tell me briefly about her, if something happened that day at work, but I found out they were talking more than this, through the same lie detector. The chic and I talked, and she's like, "it wasn't even like that. I got a man". Basically, the chic's low-key trying to tell me that I have a desparate husband (whether it be for acceptance, frienship,wanting a business partner, etc.). I tell him what his "good friend" had told me, now he want to switch it up, like "she was never a 'friend', just my colleague" (looking all pittiful).

I'm kinda looking at separation, but not before I spend some $$$ to look 200% better than I looked before the baby.

Y'all give me your perspective....Am I wrong?? (excuse the typos, if any)

i'm guessing there is more to the story then what's here?

 

[Harlem's Angel]

 

[Remmy]

You say you want a perspective.... Then you ask, "Am I wrong??" What do you think? Let's be real about this tale your telling. There's a number of things very wrong.

First of all sex with this guy didn't just happen to turn "wack most of the time." You knew who you were marrying and you knew what you were getting as a sexual partner, long before you said I do. The sex prior to marriage was good enough for you to say yes, or was it? What was the real attraction or real reason? Did he have a few bucks in the bank? Enough whereas you decided to cement your financial future by getting married and having a child for him.

This marriage meant more to him than it ever meant to you. You say he "is a great father and excellent husband," yet you claim your considering a separation. That doesn't make sense. Not if he's a great father and excellent husband. Most women I know would love to be in your shoes.

Not once have you said you loved this man, nor have you made mention of feeling hurt or betrayed by what may have become an affair had you not stepped in. The girl you were so worried about backed off. If she was hell bent on taking your man she would still be a presence especially if he wanted her too. In addition to all this a lie detector test? Most women I know have their own lie detector. Its called female intuition and I can tell you it ain't easy fooling that one. This girl would've been a more convincing arguement for seperation than wack sex.

So now you feel your "Tour of Duty" has been long enough. But not before you spend some (probably his) $$$ to look 200% better than you looked before the baby. You entered into this marriage for your own selfish reasons and now you've elected to use "wack sex" as your escapism. He should let you go and count his blessings and cut his losses. Its women like you that make it so difficult today for men to commit.

C/S