Is a woman who won't reciprocate oral sex selfish?

[smoovejazz]

Personally, I've met women who damn near demand that you go down on them, but get repulsed when you want them to give you head. Personally, I think that's selfish...if I'm gonna go all out to please you, then I'm gonna want the same to be done to me...it's only fair.

I recently read a couple of books regarding the subject. One woman has a theory called the "cunnilingus to fellatio ratio", where she says the ratio of the number of times both are done should be in the 1:1 range; if one number is much more than the other, unless it's agreed upon by both parties, it's an unbalanced relationship. The best thing I read recently was when one author said, "Don't trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you", because that woman is showing that she's not really feeling you, or waiting for the next best thing, if she doesn't do it (especially if you're doing it to her); the author feels that it's bullshit when a woman says, "I'm not comfortable with doing it", or "It's against my religion", etc., because if she's really down for the man, she will do it...and (perhaps) swallow. What y'all think? (NOTE: I posted this thread on the main board as well, so in the interest of equity, you may substitute "man" for "woman".)

 

[onyxfemme]

Selfish isnt the word....

 

[jucurious]

yup


i mean if she is demanding that u go down she betta be willing to return the favor if not...then you don't go down

funny thing is....i know plenty of guys who want head but refuse to go down on a chic and i'm talkin bout their long time girlfriends not a jump

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

yup


i mean if she is demanding that u go down she betta be willing to return the favor if not...then you don't go down

funny thing is....i know plenty of guys who want head but refuse to go down on a chic and i'm talkin bout their long time girlfriends not a jump

 

[Mo-Better]

Selfish isn't the word....

Selfish ain't/isn't the word for it! How can you ask someone to do what you won't do? Yeah she's selfish probably lonely too. She's also got a lot of nerve.

 

[ladyscorpio]

yup


i mean if she is demanding that u go down she betta be willing to return the favor if not...then you don't go down

funny thing is....i know plenty of guys who want head but refuse to go down on a chic and i'm talkin bout their long time girlfriends not a jump

true and


also true

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I do think its selfish, because like it was stated.. if you care about someone you do care about pleasing them... Not saying that girls or guys need to just be going down on each other all willy nilly... but you can't be in a one sided sexual relationship...

 

[SWATLANTA]

If she doesn't suck dick, I don't fuck with her....






real simple

 

[actinanass]

mannn gas $4.00 a gallon, and there's some bitches who DON'T SUCK DICK?


That shit is UN-AMERICAN!!!!

 

[ClevelandDawg216]

yes.

 

[owl]

mannn gas $4.00 a gallon, and there's some bitches who DON'T SUCK DICK?


That shit is UN-AMERICAN!!!!

 

[shywriter]

mannn gas $4.00 a gallon, and there's some bitches who DON'T SUCK DICK?


That shit is UN-AMERICAN!!!!

I'm shywriter and I approve this message. And it's not just younger women (early to mid 20s), I've come across some women from mid 30s to about late 40s who "don't do that."

 

[sean69]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like

















































I put mad Nyquil in da water.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

My dick will get sucked somewhere.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like


I put mad Nyquil in da water.

 

[ladyscorpio]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like






I put mad Nyquil in da water.

OMG

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like






































I put mad Nyquil in da water.

Wait!!!! How did you put Nyquil in her water and she didn't notice?? Water is clear and flavorless... And nyquil taste like ugh and is green or red????

 

[sean69]

Wait!!!! How did you put Nyquil in her water and she didn't notice?? Water is clear and flavorless... And nyquil taste like ugh and is green or red????

Damn you Matlock!

 

[jucurious]

Wait!!!! How did you put Nyquil in her water and she didn't notice?? Water is clear and flavorless... And nyquil taste like ugh and is green or red????

i'm glad someone said it

*whispers* cause Sean is a habitual...

Damn you Matlock!

 

[bigirl]

i'm glad someone said it

*whispers* cause Sean is a habitual...

 

[sean69]

i'm glad someone said it

*whispers* cause Sean is a habitual...

i can't sing...

 

[DeSiRe]

u dealing with the wrong type of females

 

[Chicutie]

If she doesn't suck dick, I don't fuck with her....


real simple

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like



I put mad Nyquil in da water.

 

[BrownTurd]

It depends on if she enjoys doing it.If the woman does not enjoy giving head then it makes the man selfish for trying to force her to do it.

Now if she is demanding that you go down then you may have a red flag. Also the book you are refering to is correct. If she is not feeling you then she will give the "I am not comfortable going down"

 

[nukdollars]

yup

 

[honeyboy]

 

[MCP]

As the old saying goes,

If you like to receive, then you should like to give.

 

[kjxxxx]

yup


i mean if she is demanding that u go down she betta be willing to return the favor if not...then you don't go down

funny thing is....i know plenty of guys who want head but refuse to go down on a chic and i'm talkin bout their long time girlfriends not a jump

....one author said, "Don't trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you", because that woman is showing that she's not really feeling you, or waiting for the next best thing, if she doesn't do it (especially if you're doing it to her); the author feels that it's bullshit when a woman says, "I'm not comfortable with doing it", or "It's against my religion", etc., because if she's really down for the man, she will do it...and (perhaps) swallow.

So basically if we go from what the females experience with the guys, it go in line with what the author says? "Not to be trusted." Sounds like the author may have a point. It seems also when women wants to break up with you the oral sex also goes first.

 

[Zei]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like


I put mad Nyquil in da water.

WTH

you told her it was flavored water or something

 

[LeroyDibiase]

She fell asleep with my dick in her mouth, woke up with my dick in her mouth, GOOD MORNING.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

i can spot the chinks in some people armor.

 

[Black Limey]

As the old saying goes,

If you like to receive, then you should like to give.

Innit doe!

 

[absolutvodka]

if you can't get head then you're a goofy

cuz that bitch done sucked somebodies dick before.

 

[Kazoo]

I told this female I was dating once that I'd go down on her if she gave me head first. It was a Sunday even. Anyway, after she went down on me like this ... (yes)(yes)(yes) ... and this (yawn)(yawn) (ignore the eyes) ... and sucked like this (angry)(angry)(angry) (ignore the angry expression) ... I was like, "dayum!" Her dome game was a factor.

So i'm like, "you must be thirsty?" She was like ... Then I gave her some cold water and 1 min and 11 secs later she was like

















































I put mad Nyquil in da water.

anywho , some chicks are just uptight about SEX .... if you check their track record ...you'll find 1) they have a hard time keeping a Man
2) they get cheated on in realtionships

 

[DarkCity]

Oral to me is one of the most giving thing you can do for a person. And if you do it and actually enjoy I feel like it shows that you care for the person.

One woman has a theory called the "cunnilingus to fellatio ratio", where she says the ratio of the number of times both are done should be in the 1:1 range

^^^^^^^
I want to know if y'all agree with this ratio here? And if it's really like that in your relationships.