Is a Man a fool for not wanting to be with a woman who loves him and

[checkcashing]

the question is, are u fuckin her or not? if u fucked her already then u fucked up in the game and u gonna have problems. if u aint fuck her yet then u still got time to lay it down because if u say shorty keeps "forgetting" what u tell her, then you're not conveying your message properly to her.

 

[Damn Right]

finding a woman who likes you is easy. u can do that all day everyday. but LOVE? u won't find real love very often in your lifetime. all these people sayin 'it's just not the right time' for you are full of sheit. when IS the right time for love or the starting of something meaningful with someone? you do what u want, playboy. but i'd say it's worth at least a look. do u really want to go through another 85 hoez before you find another woman of substance?

 

[Harlem_Gangsta]

You from Harlem , NYC crying about some chick and you went to FAMU my alma Mata! Stop crying pull up ya pants and be a man. Coming on here asking about relationship issue's sound like a little Bitch! Not repping Harlem at all. You need to take down that Harlem Hustler and put Harlem SIMP. CLOWN , stop crying .

 

[Harlem_Gangsta]

True but this ain't that situation, at least I don't think so... I digress

^^ Yo Stop taking ya man Tariq Nasheed words "I Degress" get ya own image/style! CLOWNS!

 

[ALEXZANDER THE GREAT]

am i the only one who thinks dis shit sounds made up.....

 

[cocobeauty]

MESSAGE!​

For right now, DO NOT tell (or show) her that her feelings for you are not mutual! What you're feeling could easily be a temporary resistance to commitment. Which is normal when a man is in transition from single life to a committed relationship. We (men) wish for the girl of our dreams, while single, but generally choke when we have to confront all the compromises, responsibilities and discipline we need in order to accommodate our dream girl when she arrives. It’s not a cause for concern… just nature taking its course.

Still… if you express to (and subsequently crush) her with unsubstantiated rejection when she's at her all time high in love with you and then you realize later that you DO want to be with her... her pain, lessoned sense of value to you and fear of abandonment with you will dog your potential relationship. Women are emotional beings, whose feelings have to be nurtured, protected and supported for them to function in a relationship at their highest level of efficiency & happiness. It takes SO much for women these days to be willing/able to really go all out for a man the way you're describing this woman does for you... That effort has to be rewarded. Period.

Give yourself some time to do a little soul searching, but do all that you can to support and reciprocate her love for you in the meantime. If you later discover that she is truly not the one for you, she will still be hurt, but at least your loving manner of ‘letting go’ will be defensible and chivalrous. If you discover later that she is the one for you, you will already have a firm foundation to keep building on. It’s a win/win situation, if you take my advice.

Lastly, I don’t know your girl, but she sounds like she’s a keeper… More so than 90% of the women I see out here on the single scene. It doesn’t get much better than what you got. If you don’t want her… PM me her info and I’ll take her… depending on her looks & sexual skills, that is.

Good Advice Ming, minus that last sentence.

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

if she's ugly,,, i can understand. but if he's physically attracted to her,,, he needs counseling,,,

i'm telling you,,, there are lots of (i hate to say) Black people who are so used to drama (the way they were raised, and all their relationships),,, that when a person steps to them with their shit together,,, they subconsciously sabotage the shit.

CO-Sign!!!!!!!!

I think it happens more often with black men than we'd like to admit. He'll regret it when he sees that same woman with his best friend or worse yet, that white dude from across the street.
"Fight the Power....Wife a black woman"

 

[Bastard Chile]

Just like a little bitch.

Think I give a fuck?

P.S.- Im still gonna fuck you up.

Didn't Janet Jackson's character say something like this in "Poetic Justice"?