Is a Man a fool for not wanting to be with a woman who loves him and

[Ming Fei Hong]

Well you know what playa she sound like a good catch to me so if you don't want here send her this way.

HERE! HERE!

 

[XXXplosive]

That's part of the problem. Im not. Every time she tries to be all affectionate, I end up pushing her away and hurting her.

Other than that, Im very good to her. She has my back and I have hers. Ive given her stacks, she's given me stacks .she knows she can call me for ANYTHING and vice versa....Just that everything is not there...and call me what you want, but Im trying to be attracted to my mate, ...that's all Im saying.

There's a thing called "slow attraction"
I takes time to develop
The whole "love at first sight" myth is a bunch of bullshit to me
Too many people out there wanna build a serious relationship off of lust and instant attraction, rather than sticking around and seeing if things can work out with a good person

 

[FAMU2g3]

But I'm sure he wouldn't mind just fucking her, right?
It's OK to just keep fucking her (if she's such a good person), but not have a serious relationship?
Niggas, I swear...

Actually that's the problem...She wants it more than I do!

I want get ignorant with you, b/c I go overboard.

But know what youre talking about before you comment.

 

[Mr.Still Fly]

*singing*

If you don't want her that don't waste that time... I take her... I take her I take her...j/k man

That use to be the jam...

Just move forward man... I agree with femmenoire.

 

[XXXplosive]

Maybe im not reading in between the lines or something. Imma reply again once I get what you saying. When I read it I got the vibe of you saying just keep fucking her.

S-A-R-C-A-S-M

 

[FAMU2g3]

Well you know what playa she sound like a good catch to me so if you don't want here send her this way.

Nuff nigga probly just waitin' for you to pass that up and you should if she ain't for you. Talk to her and get it all out on the table. Let her know you just "wanna be friends"(make sure you tell her at her crib - so she don't break-up all your shit) and... well hope for the best

Yeah, we've had this same talk.

She knows ALMOST everything you guys know (except for the "im not totally attracted to you part"..

She just always "forgets" what I say and continues to live in her world,,

 

[DarkCity]

if she's ugly,,, i can understand. but if he's physically attracted to her,,, he needs counseling,,,

i'm telling you,,, there are lots of (i hate to say) Black people who are so used to drama (the way they were raised, and all their relationships),,, that when a person steps to them with their shit together,,, they subconsciously sabotage the shit.

I think Im guilty of that shit right now

 

[XXXplosive]

Actually that's the problem...She wants it more than I do!

I want get ignorant with you, b/c I go overboard.

But know what youre talking about before you comment.

Wait, I remember you know
You're the nigga that didn't wanna hire blacks to your company
http://198.65.131.81/board/showthread.php?t=140669
On second thought don't follow any of my advice
Do whatever you feel like doing, use your "judgement"
Push her away so she can find a REAL man, you don't even deserve her

FUCK YOU!

 

[SpiritualPorn]

if she's ugly,,, i can understand. but if he's physically attracted to her,,, he needs counseling,,,

i'm telling you,,, there are lots of (i hate to say) Black people who are so used to drama (the way they were raised, and all their relationships),,, that when a person steps to them with their shit together,,, they subconsciously sabotage the shit.

Game you come up with the good true shit

Preach on

 

[FAMU2g3]

There's a thing called "slow attraction"
I takes time to develop
The whole "love at first sight" myth is a bunch of bullshit to me
Too many people out there wanna build a serious relationship off of lust and instant attraction, rather than sticking around and seeing if things can work out with a good person

I've known her for 5 yrs. @ "slow attraction"

 

[KnottyKnotty]

Yeah, we've had this same talk.

She knows ALMOST everything you guys know (except for the "im not totally attracted to you part"..

She just always "forgets" what I say and continues to live in her world,,

come on now don't be nieve, everyone knows when they bout to get dumped. She playin' you dog...she just tryin' to keep you from breakin' up wit her, she ain't forgetin' come on she a woman. If she keep forgetin' you tellin' her it ain't workin' out, then she crazy plain and simple. You gonna get "stalkified"

 

[FAMU2g3]

Wait, I remember you know
You're the nigga that didn't wanna hire blacks to your company
http://198.65.131.81/board/showthread.php?t=140669
On second thought don't follow any of my advice
Do whatever you feel like doing, use your "judgement"
Push her away so she can find a REAL man, you don't even deserve her

FUCK YOU!

I hear you bro.

I wnnt even get wordy with you. Cuz really, I feel like fucking you up. In real life.


Like you just "remembered" that post.

Smh at niggas "setting up" their routine as if theyre comics.

 

[NewyorkRealTalk]

Wait, I remember you know
You're the nigga that didn't wanna hire blacks to your company
http://198.65.131.81/board/showthread.php?t=140669
On second thought don't follow any of my advice
Do whatever you feel like doing, use your "judgement"
Push her away so she can find a REAL man, you don't even deserve her

FUCK YOU!

didnt know he was THIS guy im gone from this thread. He prolly one of those niggas that wont hire me.

 

[FAMU2g3]

didnt know he was THIS guy im gone from this thread. He prolly one of those niggas that wont hire me.

If you present yourself correctly, yeah, I will.

My point was, a lot of the Black applicants cam e all wrong.

Did eventually hire two young brothers trying to get through college.

 

[XXXplosive]

I hear you bro.

I wnnt even get wordy with you. Cuz really, I feel like fucking you up. In real life.


Like you just "remembered" that post.

Smh at niggas "setting up" their routine as if theyre comics.

... says the Tom who's afraid of niggaz

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Damn... How did a relationship advice thread turn into a beef thread?

I'm about to delete my advice and be up out this bitch... niggas is wildin'.

 

[FAMU2g3]

Damn... How did a relationship advice thread turn into a beef thread?

I'm about to delete my advice and be up out this bitch... niggas is wildin'.

That's your man.. OG board member...following me around starting shit.

The kinda nigga I wont even talk to.

Just punch him in his face on sight.

Damn, I wanna fuck this nigga up. Just for acting like a bitch.

I said I was gonna be more calm on here, so fuck it....let me ignore the bitch.

Wish I could fuck him up in real life though.

 

[KnottyKnotty]

That's your man.. OG board member...following me around starting shit.

The kinda nigga I wont even talk to.

Just punch him in his face on sight.

Damn, I wanna fuck this nigga up. Just for acting like a bitch.

I said I was gonna be more calm on here, so fuck it....let me ignore the bitch.

Wish I could fuck him up in real life though.

WTF...*Leaves Thread*

 

[XXXplosive]

That's your man.. OG board member...following me around starting shit.

The kinda nigga I wont even talk to.

Just punch him in his face on sight.

Damn, I wanna fuck this nigga up. Just for acting like a bitch.

I said I was gonna be more calm on here, so fuck it....let me ignore the bitch.

Wish I could fuck him up in real life though.

Your name =

on here

I'll make it a PERSONAL mission of mine to make sure it stays that way if I have to

Have a nice day

 

[FAMU2g3]

Your name =

on here

I'll make it a PERSONAL mission of mine to make sure it stays that way if I have to

Have a nice day

Just like a little bitch.

Think I give a fuck?

P.S.- Im still gonna fuck you up.

 

[Osca Lee]

if she is black, then you have issues within about accepting blacks in anything so you question everything.

I cant you!

 

[Havoc]

Actually that's the problem...She wants it more than I do!

I want get ignorant with you, b/c I go overboard.

But know what youre talking about before you comment.

We can only go by what you give us. Before saying things like "You don' tknow the whole story" or "Know what you're talking about", how about informing us of the whole story.

 

[Havoc]

Just like a little bitch.

Think I give a fuck?

P.S.- Im still gonna fuck you up.

E-BEEF at it's best!

 

[AristotlesOwn]

No because apparently she's not perfect for you. Maybe it's not the perfect time. Never apologize for how you feel.

That's just life.

If you string her along knowing this, then that's selfish.

That's real.

It's good to hear a female say that because I felt bad about my situation for a long ass time. I still think about her from time to time, but something about our relationship just didn't sit right with me, perfect as it seemed.


As for FAMU...you're gonna have to let it go if you ever want peace of mind. I had a woman who was nice, could cook very well, and basically just loved being around me...problem was I wasn't ready for what she wanted and we didn't really have common ground as far as interests. She was overly jealous for no reason, and she called incessantly...a man can only take so much. On the surface we looked fine...but there were many issues. Even though she was a genuinely good person, the little things really got to me after awhile. It was hard for me to let go because we had been together for 3 years, but I knew I had to do it.

 

[THELANDLORD]

For men LOVE is a decision. It is a choice. Choose to love her and work on it. But dont half step and creep on the side. That is an unneeded distraction.

 

[pookie]

Gameboy..he saying the girl is better for friend mode. Like saying he loves her but hes not IN LOVE with her.

If he's fucking her, he can't cop the friend mode plea.

 

[Bluekid]

Dont force yaself to be in something you dont feel ready for.

Oh yes.Trust me thats the last thing you wanna do because she will start feeling the same like how you feel now a few months into the relationship.It's sorta like she is doing everything to get you then when she finally get you thats it.

 

[jiggylo09]

Love is two ways just cause she loves u you don't have to be in love with her remember this never make urself unhappy to make some body happy!!

 

[Spectrum]

Damn... How did a relationship advice thread turn into a beef thread?

I'm about to delete my advice and be up out this bitch... niggas is wildin'.

Only on BGOL... I came back two hours later...and shit has gone in a whole new direction

 

[shanebp1978]

No because apparently she's not perfect for you. Maybe it's not the perfect time. Never apologize for how you feel.

That's just life.

If you string her along knowing this, then that's selfish.

Co to the muthafucking sign, even though I do it.

And to fam who started the thread . . .


JOIN THE FUCKING CLUB, YOUR WELCOME PACKET WILL BE IN THE MAIL!!!



The path we should choose, is the path we refuse
- Lauyrn Hill

Ayitien tir

 

[Ricky715]

Perfit before you say "I Do" a pain in the ass after. Women change after they find out that you really love them.

 

[African Herbsman]

If he's fucking her, he can't cop the friend mode plea.

Says who?

 

[ladyscorpio]

No because apparently she's not perfect for you. Maybe it's not the perfect time. Never apologize for how you feel.

That's just life.

If you string her along knowing this, then that's selfish.

truth written right there.

 

[UNSEEN]

IT TAKES SOME TIME ..MAYBE YOUR FEELINGS WILL GROW..LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT IS NONSENSE.....AS TIME GROWS..YOU TWO WILL GROW..I FEEL.

 

[Boo_Slim]

Bet you wasn't telling her how much you wasn't feeling her when you was fucking. Bet you wasn't saying shorty I got love for you then. Niggas don't know that when you fuck over a female you lower her in the eyes of the men see deserves. Now that "Miss Perfect" has fucked with you, probably a nigga with nothing going for himself, "Mr. Perfect" will probably be like fuck that shit, you was in love with that nigga and he didn't love you, "YOU AIN'T SHIT." Dawg, do me a favor let this on go and don't mess over anymore "Miss Perfects."