If black women dont want you it's you...or is it?

[Top_Bunk]

This is a thinking thread that requires about 120 points of I.Q so i thought i'd give you a fair warning.


I'd first like to quote a BGOL member visionpoet* who represents what a lot of people believe.

" it amazes me how people can allow any of their focus on the bad examples and let that be their example for the whole.

If womEn don't want you, it's YOU. There's something you're giving off that makes her not want you. If women constantly come at your neck or cheat on you, it's YOU. People in general like to test boundaries. People will generally do what you allow them to do.

I'm sorry, but black women can't destroy me. I (keyword "I") won't allow it. I surround myself with nothing but queens and positive folks in general. If you keep doing the same thing and expecting different results..."​

A lot of people act like if you get rejected by women a lot it's that you aren't any good. I get rejected a lot amongest younger women 19-24....but also i really dont like those women either. Well if i do i like them for the wrong reasons like "ass, titties, smile". Whenever i like a woman for her personality and her intelgence i never get rejected in the long run.

But back to topic....
And i was just watching the VH1 T.V. show tough love. There are plenty of men that those girls dont want. A lot of men that they wouldn't give the time of day. And there are plenty of women like this in the single dating field. Made me think what is it about the men that they dont want....

The question of the hour is: at what point should one look at his/herself and try to refor

And how do you go about finding what it is that isn't allowing you to get women?

Why do people insest that it's you that have personal problems and not the women you're approaching?
And how would one know if it is them that's the problem or perhaps the women they are approaching?

 

[nubian]

http://blogs.bgol.us/da_snitch
...oh and lol @ insest.

 

[LoneStar29]

On BGOL when a woman says she can't find a good man it's cuz she never made the right choices but when a man says he can't find any good black women it's cuz there are none Hypocrites

 

[Top_Bunk]

On BGOL when a woman says she can't find a good man it's cuz she never made the right choices but when a man says he can't find any good black women it's cuz there are none Hypocrites

point out one person who has said both of these things.
People on BGOL have also said beyonce has a fat ass then she has no ass....that make bgol hypocritical to?

 

[HALO2]

On BGOL when a woman says she can't find a good man it's cuz she never made the right choices but when a man says he can't find any good black women it's cuz there are none Hypocrites

This might sting a little..

 

[Top_Bunk]

This might sting a little..

This has gotta be the coolest ninja on this board lmao

 

[KTD]

You fools continue dissing black women when there are far worst women out there like Whites and Asians who act white. In my opinion white women are more disrespectful and rude then black women. Black women just have attitudes because of the shit they have to deal with.

 

[Top_Bunk]

You fools continue dissing black women when there are far worst women out there like Whites and Asians who act white. In my opinion white women are more disrespectful and rude then black women. Black women just have attitudes because of the shit they have to deal with.

The last two questions in bold?

I haven't dissed them in this thread....

 

[Naha-Nago]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

 

[Top_Bunk]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...

1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

learned that myself to.

Why do people insist that it's you that have personal problems and not the women you're approaching?

 

[Griffin50calibers]

This might sting a little..

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[mozartte]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

Very True. Most these cats mess up when they dont know their niche.

 

[Sampson]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

 

[YoungEddieOThorp]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

Preach....

 

[Adam Knows]

This might sting a little..

i'm sorry

that's funny

 

[SaKem]

This is a thinking thread that requires about 120 points of I.Q so i thought i'd give you a fair warning.


I'd first like to quote a BGOL member visionpoet* who represents what a lot of people believe.

" it amazes me how people can allow any of their focus on the bad examples and let that be their example for the whole.

If womEn don't want you, it's YOU. There's something you're giving off that makes her not want you. If women constantly come at your neck or cheat on you, it's YOU. People in general like to test boundaries. People will generally do what you allow them to do.

I'm sorry, but black women can't destroy me. I (keyword "I") won't allow it. I surround myself with nothing but queens and positive folks in general. If you keep doing the same thing and expecting different results..."​

A lot of people act like if you get rejected by women a lot it's that you aren't any good. I get rejected a lot amongest younger women 19-24....but also i really dont like those women either. Well if i do i like them for the wrong reasons like "ass, titties, smile". Whenever i like a woman for her personality and her intelgence i never get rejected in the long run.

But back to topic....
And i was just watching the VH1 T.V. show tough love. There are plenty of men that those girls dont want. A lot of men that they wouldn't give the time of day. And there are plenty of women like this in the single dating field. Made me think what is it about the men that they dont want....

The question of the hour is: at what point should one look at his/herself and try to refor

And how do you go about finding what it is that isn't allowing you to get women?

Why do people insest that it's you that have personal problems and not the women you're approaching?
And how would one know if it is them that's the problem or perhaps the women they are approaching?

"Whenever i like a woman for her personality and her intelgence i never get rejected in the long run." Yea because they're ugly lol.

And people insist that you have personal problem if a woman rejects you because in this society women take no blame ever, Only men. Plus don't sweat it, young girls our age are full of shit, just fuck if you can, have a good time and take it for what it is. btw You can tell if ur the problem if u feel scared to approach them, or if ur too nice, and don't get to the point; get to the point when you talk to these hoes. If wanna date her just walk up and say that, if you wanna have sex with her, ask her how she's doing then just tell her you wanna have sex with her, stop wasting your and her time.

 

[RESPECT]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

LEARNED THIS FROM WATCHIN MY BROTHER. HE'LL TALK TO ANYTHING ON TWO LEGS (POLITELY AND CORDIAL), NO MATTER THE RACE CREED OR COLOR. BY WATCHING HIM I REALIZE HE DID NOT GIVE TWO FUCKS IF THEY LIKED HIM OR NOT, HE WAS GONNA SPEAK ANYWAY AND WAS ALWAYS HONEST. AND WHOEVER GAVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY IS WHO HE ROLLED WIT. NO HANG UPS ON WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH BECAUSE HE DID NOT ALLOW HIMSELF TO BE APART OF ANY NEGATIVE SHIT YOU WERE GOING THROUGH TO HAVE A NEGATIVE IMPACT ON HIM.

 

[SaKem]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

Hmm this is true. It's really a coin toss when you meet em too, and some will ALWAYS fuck you. And some would never

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

"Whenever i like a woman for her personality and her intelgence i never get rejected in the long run." Yea because they're ugly lol.

And people insist that you have personal problem if a woman rejects you because in this society women take no blame ever, Only men. Plus don't sweat it, young girls our age are full of shit, just fuck if you can, have a good time and take it for what it is. btw You can tell if ur the problem if u feel scared to approach them, or if ur too nice, and don't get to the point; get to the point when you talk to these hoes. If wanna date her just walk up and say that, if you wanna have sex with her, ask her how she's doing then just tell her you wanna have sex with her, stop wasting your and her time.

LEARNED THIS FROM WATCHIN MY BROTHER. HE'LL TALK TO ANYTHING ON TWO LEGS (POLITELY AND CORDIAL), NO MATTER THE RACE CREED OR COLOR. BY WATCHING HIM I REALIZE HE DID NOT GIVE TWO FUCKS IF THEY LIKED HIM OR NOT, HE WAS GONNA SPEAK ANYWAY AND WAS ALWAYS HONEST. AND WHOEVER GAVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY IS WHO HE ROLLED WIT. NO HANG UPS ON WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH BECAUSE HE DID NOT ALLOW HIMSELF TO BE APART OF ANY NEGATIVE SHIT YOU WERE GOING THROUGH TO HAVE A NEGATIVE IMPACT ON HIM.

..........

 

[ansatsusha_gouki]

Something I learned rather quickly in my early 20's...


1.There are a lot of women that will never like my black ass.


2. There are a lot of women that will always like my black ass.


Fuck those in group 1 figuratively...

Fuck those in group 2 litterally...


Getting mad cause a broad don't "like" you is a wasted emotion and making her like you is worse.... Unless you running for office save "swaying voters" for the politicians.

*two cents*

c/s

 

[donwuan]

Approaching a women and then not wanting to be bothered is not them not wanting you. They don't know you and they don't want to be bothered. But if a woman gives up some convo and you can't get with her than it's probably you.

Like homeboy said above, I could careless if a chick don't give me the time a day if I don't know her. Young chicks are easy. Dress fresh and have a tight whip. But fuck a young chick. 99% can't fuck and we have nothing in common anyway. Chicks my age I seem to attrach regardless. I'm married so they really like that for some unknown reason. And I handle my business, educated, look good, dress nice, and have a tight whip. I'm the total package. But believe it or not I don't cheat on my wife.

 

[MRLEGEND]

People without the ability to think above their pay grade tend to give foolish answers.

If you gave a 3rd grader an equasion of

3x+1=?
He will say the answer is 4.
Only because his level of understanding is limited to addition.

Same thing with simps and manginas; their understanding of life is simplified to money and pussy. And if you have a problem "gettin", either of those...then of course it must be you doing something wrong...because those are the only things that matter in life.

These simps and manginas share a culture with ignorant women, and they live just fine toegether.

I'm not a simp or a mangina, and if they don't want me because they can't control me with their crotch, or my horizons stretch further than they can comprehend..then fuck'em

It is in no way YOUR fault BW do not want you. Normal women wish they could have someone honest and responsible. BW won't pay you any attention if you don't lie to them.

Normal women would fall over backwards for someone that cared less about vanity, and put more time and money into the home. BW won't look at you twice if your shoes ain't up to par.

Normal women would take a faithful man and build with him anyday of the week. BW will tolerate infidelity & abuse from you as long as that money is right...the moment you go broke you ain't shit you cheatin ass bastard.

So you just have to discover who you are and what you want. Then ask your self "do you really want them?"

MRLEGEND-BlackMenVent.com

 

[THE GRANDJURY]

You fools continue dissing black women when there are far worst women out there like Whites and Asians who act white. In my opinion white women are more disrespectful and rude then black women. Black women just have attitudes because of the shit they have to deal with.

Come again

 

[hsm2448]

learned that myself to.

Why do people insist that it's you that have personal problems and not the women you're approaching?

think about it.

you are the same person no matter which woman you are approaching.

so let's assume you've approached and dealt with 10 women in the past year. a reasonable assumption is that these 10 women are not all the same person personality wise etc. so if you've dealt with 10 different women, who come from different backgrounds, have different personalities/strengths/weaknesses/foibles etc and you are STILL complaining about why you can't find a decent woman, IT JUST MIGHT BE YOU.

now, if you're approaching 10 women and the last 7 were the same as the first 3, none of which you got along with, then according to one definition (doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result), you might be not only dumb but also INSANE.

i swear some of you niggaz have the mental age of a dog with alzheimers.

 

[Rick Ronson]

its sooo hard out here

everyone wants to fuck these bitches and roll out

they are carefully selective and still get fucked over

every man wants pussy but none want attitudes and problems

many men just fuck and go through the motions with them

to get the pussy then roll out like they went to the store.​

 

[sirwoodz]

all the spelling and grammatical errors up and down this thread is insane...yall niggas are probably running up on women sounding like 5 year olds....

some of yall dudes need to focus on your INTELLIGENCE, then maybe some women will like you ....

 

[Top_Bunk]

People without the ability to think above their pay grade tend to give foolish answers.

If you gave a 3rd grader an equasion of

3x+1=?
He will say the answer is 4.
Only because his level of understanding is limited to addition.

Same thing with simps and manginas; their understanding of life is simplified to money and pussy. And if you have a problem "gettin", either of those...then of course it must be you doing something wrong...because those are the only things that matter in life.

These simps and manginas share a culture with ignorant women, and they live just fine toegether.

I'm not a simp or a mangina, and if they don't want me because they can't control me with their crotch, or my horizons stretch further than they can comprehend..then fuck'em

It is in no way YOUR fault BW do not want you. Normal women wish they could have someone honest and responsible. BW won't pay you any attention if you don't lie to them.

Normal women would fall over backwards for someone that cared less about vanity, and put more time and money into the home. BW won't look at you twice if your shoes ain't up to par.

Normal women would take a faithful man and build with him anyday of the week. BW will tolerate infidelity & abuse from you as long as that money is right...the moment you go broke you ain't shit you cheatin ass bastard.

So you just have to discover who you are and what you want. Then ask your self "do you really want them?"

MRLEGEND-BlackMenVent.com

Shut yo mouth

 

[Top_Bunk]

all the spelling and grammatical errors up and down this thread is insane...yall niggas are probably running up on women sounding like 5 year olds....

some of yall dudes need to focus on your INTELLIGENCE, then maybe some women will like you ....

You are so right because nobody makes grammatical errors ever. If they do then that means they get no pussy.

Yeah because a woman would never talk to a guy that has made a grammatical error on a porn board.

But women will fall for guys that say "yall niggas" and complain about someone making a grammatical error.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

all the spelling and grammatical errors up and down this thread is insane...yall niggas are probably running up on women sounding like 5 year olds....

some of yall dudes need to focus on your INTELLIGENCE, then maybe some women will like you ....

 

[Top_Bunk]

think about it.

you are the same person no matter which woman you are approaching.

so let's assume you've approached and dealt with 10 women in the past year. a reasonable assumption is that these 10 women are not all the same person personality wise etc. so if you've dealt with 10 different women, who come from different backgrounds, have different personalities/strengths/weaknesses/foibles etc and you are STILL complaining about why you can't find a decent woman, IT JUST MIGHT BE YOU.

now, if you're approaching 10 women and the last 7 were the same as the first 3, none of which you got along with, then according to one definition (doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result), you might be not only dumb but also INSANE.

i swear some of you niggaz have the mental age of a dog with alzheimers.

which goes back to my other question: why consider it's YOU that has flaws and that you're not approaching the right women?

And you sound pretty dumb if you rate someone's overal intelegence by a post that someone made on a porn board. Rather you say they are super smart or super dumb one post and you judging niggas overall intellect.

Sounds like you're the one that's dumb

 

[Top_Bunk]

Approaching a women and then not wanting to be bothered is not them not wanting you. They don't know you and they don't want to be bothered. But if a woman gives up some convo and you can't get with her than it's probably you.

Like homeboy said above, I could careless if a chick don't give me the time a day if I don't know her. Young chicks are easy. Dress fresh and have a tight whip. But fuck a young chick. 99% can't fuck and we have nothing in common anyway. Chicks my age I seem to attrach regardless. I'm married so they really like that for some unknown reason. And I handle my business, educated, look good, dress nice, and have a tight whip. I'm the total package. But believe it or not I don't cheat on my wife.

I can pretty much agree with this with few exceptions. Well i think it's still "you" but it could be that you approached a superfial woman.

 

[freshnclean]

why consider it's YOU that has flaws and that you're not approaching the right women?

Because those women don't wanna take responsibility for their flaws and imperfections. It's much easier to blame someone else for your problems than it is to recognize the issue and change it. One thing I learned is that everyone has issues, even the people you wouldn't expect. And there are 2 types of people, those that recognize and acknowledge their issues, and those that don't. If you're dealing with someone that doesn't, then you better run for the hills, because they will never change

 

[melonpecan]

Let me get back to the subject that spawned the question.

If there is something with every man that a woman don't want, shouldn't there be a whole lot with women, (the Tough Love women in general), that men don't want? Whatever rule you can apply to men, you can apply to women- the rules of relationships knows no bounds or gender.

 

[2 ONE 3]

A lot of lame dudes on this board.


If you can't bag a sista KILL YOURSELF​

 

[LoneStar29]

This might sting a little..

LMAO @ you thinking YOUR opinion affects me in any way ... you are a coon ... 1 shade darker than a Klansman ... you mean nothing