If a man & woman who broke up after having a child can be...

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...Mutual friends for the benefit of their child can a regular couple stay mutual friends after breaking up for the benefit of their friendship? Assuming a genuine friendship existed or came out of the relationship. I was just thinking to myself that I'm glad I don't have a child with my ex because I'd hate to have to see her and establish a different kind of bond with her.
 
Met daughers mother when we were 11 & 12... she had a crush from the start and it developed into a friendship. We did nothing sexual until we were 19 & 18... daughter born when we were 21 & 20, broke up at 24-23... still one of my closest friends. When she was going through a divorce, who got the call.. routinely she calls me to reminisce... for instance a movie is on that I like, she will call to tell me, or a song is on the radio she will call to let me listen... so yes it can work, and my daughter is better for it... just keep sex out of it and it can be fine... but as said we had a actual friendship before the sex and shit...
 
The word Love is over used to describe some other shit.

Love doesn't die over some bullshit.

Love is pretty unconditional.

This shit out here you see is pretty superficial.

How many of the bitches that claimed love, do you even speak to once it's over?

People also use the word to position themselves or feel security.

 
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Met daughers mother when we were 11 & 12... she had a crush from the start and it developed into a friendship. We did nothing sexual until we were 19 & 18... daughter born when we were 21 & 20, broke up at 24-23... still one of my closest friends. When she was going through a divorce, who got the call.. routinely she calls me to reminisce... for instance a movie is on that I like, she will call to tell me, or a song is on the radio she will call to let me listen... so yes it can work, and my daughter is better for it... just keep sex out of it and it can be fine... but as said we had a actual friendship before the sex and shit...

Good shit homie.. :yes:

My wife and I shares that same friendship. We are the best of friends. So if something was to happen, I think we would be able to carry on in life and still be cool
 
Sure they can, as long as they're both single. The real test comes after one of them starts dating again.
 
Yes it can work, me and my ex-wife put are daughter first and it worked out for my daughter. We devoiced when she was 1 and now she’s 18 and headed to college. At first I couldn’t stand to be around my ex but then I realize I need to be there for my daughter. My daughter came every summer to stay with me and my ex would travel to bring her and stay a couple days and I would take my daughter back to my ex and stay a couple days also. But the key thing that we did was to do a family trip with my daughter once a year till she was about 14, so that way she can see home a family is even thou I didn’t stay there. One year I was taking my daughter to Hawaii because that’s where she was born and my ex wanted to go and my daughter wanted her to go also. So my ex told me to bring my girlfriend also, so I said cool. My girl didn’t mind because she always told me that her father and mother did the same thing when she was young. So she understood my relationship with my ex and what we are doing for my daughter. . And my girl notices that after a couple days with my ex we start to get on each other nerves. So me, my girl, my ex and my daughter stayed in Hawaii for 5 days and had fun. My daughter and ex were in one room and me and my girl in another one. My ex later told me that the reason she wanted me to bring my girl was to see how I treat our daughter when my girl is around, and that I passed her test. Me and my ex also said that we wouldn’t remarry till my daughter is out of high school.
Like someone posted early, we always kept sex out of it, because if you put that in someone always get feeling and end up getting mad and next thing you know you have baby mama trouble.
 
Thanks for posting this because I always wondered what it actually "looks like" to have that kind of thing be successful.
 
...Mutual friends for the benefit of their child can a regular couple stay mutual friends after breaking up for the benefit of their friendship? Assuming a genuine friendship existed or came out of the relationship. I was just thinking to myself that I'm glad I don't have a child with my ex because I'd hate to have to see her and establish a different kind of bond with her.

I can only see one benefit here while the other is superficial.
 
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