If a guy can't get women until he is sucesful what does that say about him?

That's pretty obvious. So why do women get bashed for passing that guy up when he was in college or before he got a deal?

Obama had to ask the same girl 5 times before she would even go out with him... If she was a hot commodity, there is no way he wouldve been able to have that many chances. Now how many negros would bone michelle in her college days.
michelle-obama-teenager1.jpg

Not me.

The basic premise of your argument is that a man has to be smarter and more athletic than Obama to have an easier time landing a better sister whereas a thug with swagger can get pussy on the first night.

But when he finishes college, that same female is rolling up on him with bastards in tow and with the air of complete desparation surrounding her, she goes up to the educated, successful, articulate brother and wants to "axe" why he's with these white girls or why he's not interested in marraige at all.
 
I'm really not sure what the topic is because this thread is a little convoluted. So I'm just going to answer the question in the title.

First I'm going to tell you that there are different types of men (no homo).

You have to figure out which type you are and play the game accordingly. It's all in how you define yourself. That shit is the key right there.

1) There are certain dudes that don't have to do anything and they can pull women. They are few and far between, but they exsist.

That's me:yes:

Once I get a woman to laugh, she opens up.

:itsawrap:
 
Obama had to ask the same girl 5 times before she would even go out with him... If she was a hot commodity, there is no way he wouldve been able to have that many chances. Now how many negros would bone michelle in her college days.
michelle-obama-teenager1.jpg

Not me.

The basic premise of your argument is that a man has to be smarter and more athletic than Obama to have an easier time landing a better sister whereas a thug with swagger can get pussy on the first night.

But when he finishes college, that same female is rolling up on him with bastards in tow and with the air of complete desparation surrounding her, she goes up to the educated, successful, articulate brother and wants to "axe" why he's with these white girls or why he's not interested in marraige at all.

barack didn't get with michelle for beauty reasons
it was for family and his political career
 
Agreed

If you are being passed up by no good keisha cole worshipping women you should really thank whatever high power you believe in for being the lucky one. I used to be bitter on how these dimes in ghigh school used to pass me up for thugs until I saw what they did to those thugs. Many men on this board refuse to acknowledge the power a woman can have on a man's thoughts and actions just by being there . Most of these no good women can easily ruin you with praise and inflating ego's to the pint where one becomes detached from reality and goals. It's funny how the same dimes who gassed up some of the brothers they chose into oblivion are the same ones with the SOB stories for the simps to pick up

Co-sign.
 
If a guy can't get a woman until he is successful, he is no different from a guy who uses his mouth piece, a guy with a nice car or a guy with good looks. I think we tend to be so judgmental when it comes to what a woman likes, but men 99% of the time are attracted to looks. So maybe you have to question yourself and ask what does that say about you.
 
But when he finishes college, that same female is rolling up on him with bastards in tow and with the air of complete desparation surrounding her, she goes up to the educated, successful, articulate brother and wants to "axe" why he's with these white girls or why he's not interested in marraige at all.

LOL ax about me!
 
Every man is different, you cant put your life on the the next man. There are to many single women out here for a man to be alone. I'm sure if he dosent have a girl its by choice. Maybe going to school, or getting a good job or whatever is more important then chasing skirts. Pussy gone be around forever if a man wanna wait till he papered up before he starts going after girls thats on him.
 
Types of women pt 2.

So of course I'm generalizing here and they are very broad generalizations. But the important thing to remember is just like a man has to realize his worth first, he has to recognize a woman's worth too. So I'm not going to talk about certain age groups or anything like that. Another thing to realize is as long as a woman doesn't look like a gremlin, everyday more than one dude is going to try to talk to her. That's why you have to be a go getter.

1) The first type of woman, just like men is the super fine woman. She doesn't have to have a super bad body, but everybody notices her when she walks in a room, men and women. These types of women don't have to work very hard at getting what they want. So naturally she's going to go for men that either look good as her or can make her life even easier than it already is. That could be money, power whatever. Every now and then you'll find a super fine woman that goes against the norm and will go for an average type dude, but that's only after she gets tired of other type men. The average dude getting with this type of woman is like hitting the powerball.

2) The next type of woman is the woman that has something going for her. It could be a dope body, a good job or whatever, but it doesn't have anything to do with personality. This type of woman can vary in personality, but she usually has a man or a boyfriend just on the strength of what she has going for her. An average dude can luck up on this kind of female.

3) Most woman have a maternal or nesting instinct. So they choose flawed type men. These are the type of women that say they want a thug or choose a deadbeat, then complain. They want to fix a broken man, it's like a feather in their cap. Sometimes they are successful, but more often than not...they aren't. There's a lot of females out there like this.

4) The laid back woman is another kind of woman. She might be laid back because she doesn't have much personality or she might be laid back because she's nuts and laying in the cut. You really can't tell until you get to know them.

5) The fixer-upper. This woman is always a damsel in distress. She could have back luck, but usually, she's in some shit because of her own doing. Watch out!

6) (I'm getting a little lazy) You got the woman that asks a lot of questions. She asks you why didn't you call her at 8 o'clock. She asks you why didn't you order the steak. In other words this type of woman can't think for herself, but still wants to know everything. You have to check this woman a lot or she will wear you down and have you second guessing yourself.

The bottom line here is, it doesn't matter how successful you are or how much money you have. You can still run into different types of women that are attracted to money and power. And there are women that are dangerous to money and power. That's why there are so many men that lose what they have.

3)
 
If a guy can't get a woman until he is successful, he is no different from a guy who uses his mouth piece, a guy with a nice car or a guy with good looks. I think we tend to be so judgmental when it comes to what a woman likes, but men 99% of the time are attracted to looks. So maybe you have to question yourself and ask what does that say about you.
Yep... Its funny how all these guys take such umbrage at women simply for being shallow in a different way from the way in which they are just as shallow if not more.
 
6) (I'm getting a little lazy) You got the woman that asks a lot of questions. She asks you why didn't you call her at 8 o'clock. She asks you why didn't you order the steak. In other words this type of woman can't think for herself, but still wants to know everything. You have to check this woman a lot or she will wear you down and have you second guessing yourself.

If I didn't see this for myself I wouldn't believe it was true. Just got done dealing w/ a bitch you would ask me everything under the sun, but would hate for the same to be done to her. In addition to what you said, I noticed EXTREME emotional baggage.

Fellas, you seriously need to watch out for this, and RUN the first time you see it. I tried to run but the bitch ran after me! That baggage is no joke, and it's not just an Erykah Badu song. I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, and I see the beginnings of a woman turning bitter. Always complaining about men, being stood up, having to foot the bill all the time, etc. She won't take advice, and the advice she wants to give u is based on her bitter experiences and unhappiness with her own life.

So what I've seen thus far is that women are of course more f***ed up than men, but because they are the emotional sex, they internalize that junk ten fold. Just like another poster said, 9 times out of 10, if you aren't "chosen," it's not YOU it's THEM. Women have had some jacked up lives and experiences, but you have the choice on whether you will get the ones who know how to purify themselves, or play captain save a ho.

Geist, good knowledge you dropped there
 
Types of women pt 2.

So of course I'm generalizing here and they are very broad generalizations. But the important thing to remember is just like a man has to realize his worth first, he has to recognize a woman's worth too. So I'm not going to talk about certain age groups or anything like that. Another thing to realize is as long as a woman doesn't look like a gremlin, everyday more than one dude is going to try to talk to her. That's why you have to be a go getter.

1) The first type of woman, just like men is the super fine woman. She doesn't have to have a super bad body, but everybody notices her when she walks in a room, men and women. These types of women don't have to work very hard at getting what they want. So naturally she's going to go for men that either look good as her or can make her life even easier than it already is. That could be money, power whatever. Every now and then you'll find a super fine woman that goes against the norm and will go for an average type dude, but that's only after she gets tired of other type men. The average dude getting with this type of woman is like hitting the powerball.

2) The next type of woman is the woman that has something going for her. It could be a dope body, a good job or whatever, but it doesn't have anything to do with personality. This type of woman can vary in personality, but she usually has a man or a boyfriend just on the strength of what she has going for her. An average dude can luck up on this kind of female.

3) Most woman have a maternal or nesting instinct. So they choose flawed type men. These are the type of women that say they want a thug or choose a deadbeat, then complain. They want to fix a broken man, it's like a feather in their cap. Sometimes they are successful, but more often than not...they aren't. There's a lot of females out there like this.

4) The laid back woman is another kind of woman. She might be laid back because she doesn't have much personality or she might be laid back because she's nuts and laying in the cut. You really can't tell until you get to know them.

5) The fixer-upper. This woman is always a damsel in distress. She could have back luck, but usually, she's in some shit because of her own doing. Watch out!

6) (I'm getting a little lazy) You got the woman that asks a lot of questions. She asks you why didn't you call her at 8 o'clock. She asks you why didn't you order the steak. In other words this type of woman can't think for herself, but still wants to know everything. You have to check this woman a lot or she will wear you down and have you second guessing yourself.

The bottom line here is, it doesn't matter how successful you are or how much money you have. You can still run into different types of women that are attracted to money and power. And there are women that are dangerous to money and power. That's why there are so many men that lose what they have.

3)

Dam a whole page without me responding to...must have missed this. Bumpage
 
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