If a guy can't get women until he is sucesful what does that say about him?
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I think majority of guys that aren't successful can get some chick at the least(even if she's not on his level), but since society equates money with power, the rest is self-explanatory. Women love power, and wealthy men have alot of that. As a result, women will do anything to get that and/or maintain that lifestyle. A rich dude can treat his girl like shit 10 times the magnitude a regular guy can, because she is addicted to lifestyle.
yet not by their own merit.
*see thread about tiger woods going off to sex addiction therapy for a recent example of the side effects of this current situation*
Agreed
If you are being passed up by no good keisha cole worshipping women you should really thank whatever high power you believe in for being the lucky one. I used to be bitter on how these dimes in ghigh school used to pass me up for thugs until I saw what they did to those thugs. Many men on this board refuse to acknowledge the power a woman can have on a man's thoughts and actions just by being there . Most of these no good women can easily ruin you with praise and inflating ego's to the pint where one becomes detached from reality and goals. It's funny how the same dimes who gassed up some of the brothers they chose into oblivion are the same ones with the SOB stories for the simps to pick up
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Rick Ronson
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you ever notice how hood bitches do a quick once over from the shoes
up to the hair. Thats where it starts with them...appearance.
that once over is the red flag to me...lets me know the caliber of bitch it is.
I had friends that did better than me cause yes they are on game time.
it was all sport for them and they ran through bitches without spending a dime.
i was always the relationship type dude so yeah my process wasn't that simple.
up to the hair. Thats where it starts with them...appearance.
that once over is the red flag to me...lets me know the caliber of bitch it is.
I had friends that did better than me cause yes they are on game time.
it was all sport for them and they ran through bitches without spending a dime.
i was always the relationship type dude so yeah my process wasn't that simple.
42 young buck
Rick Ronson
Banned
What happened to "Man make the Money.... Money don't make the Man!"
Guess that theory don't apply anymore.
We all can't be like Bangs
[flash]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/nw1yaIPPAeI[/flash]
8/10 women go for the benefits a man offers.....1/10 goes for the man and the benefits...the other one goes for the man, but usually ends up hurt and resorts to the 8/10 group!! ROFLMBAO!!
Thats partly true. But it's partly bullshit as well. It goes both ways. Having money is a whole different thing than having confidence and drive.
The Mike Jones, the 50's, the Jay-z. All have said back then they couldn't get a woman.
I think this will be interesting to see how BGOL handles this.
I'm just trying to get this. If you can't get a woman it's you that have a problem.<<< That's the concensus on BGOL give or take what day. And if you have a mouthpiece, game you can get any woman.
But also i hear on here "you passed up the good nigga for a thug nigga".
Timeout. Wasn't that "good nigga" a lame because the women passed up on him?
[HIDE]That's a dam lie but anyways
I mean isn't he still a lame with a degree? If he has to be sucessful to get women what does that say about him?
I mean after all BGOL is full of macks and playas so if you can't get a girl you're a lame. [/HIDE]
So he was dogged out by women before and now that he on he getting that salary. Showed up in the dubbed out bugy ha?
The real question is, what does that say about women?
You can't blame the women at all. You have to keep it real. Not all people have the complete package. A brotha may not be the most attractive person. In that case he may not get a lot of play. But if he is successful and doing good things. Women can see pass the looks.
But if a brotha is lacking in looks and broke and doesn't have at least some path of coming up....how can you blame a female for passing him up.
Black men are just as guilty. You all remember the fat chick in high school or the nerd flat body looking chick. The fat chick ends up loosing the weight and choosing a healthy life style now is a winner in the looks department. Then you have the nerd flat body chick who finally matured into a curvy female who now dresses stunningly
But if a brotha is lacking in looks and broke and doesn't have at least some path of coming up....how can you blame a female for passing him up.
Black men are just as guilty. You all remember the fat chick in high school or the nerd flat body looking chick. The fat chick ends up loosing the weight and choosing a healthy life style now is a winner in the looks department. Then you have the nerd flat body chick who finally matured into a curvy female who now dresses stunningly
Jay Z looked like a camel and was ugly as fuck and he was a drug dealer. Why would a woman at that time take a chance on him. First he was ugly then he wasn't doing shit with his life.
C/S This is the raw truth. People don't like the truth, but this is what it is, and a real woman will tell you.
At this point you are a high risk. Can't blame the female for thinking twice about being with a person in that situation
Rick Ronson
Banned
shit slim....i was a band geek
carrying my tenor saxophone
i like the good girl the smart one the nerd intellectual regular dress
code but still attractive type that stayed to herself.
keep in mind the geeks and nerds are a label given by the fake ass supposed "in crowd"...
that shit aint valid coming from them shallow ass hollow souled lost n following type mfs.
a girl might be in the nerd category for her dress code..
fuck that got to do with her as a person....its high school
those mentalities carrying over to adulthood is the silly shit.
carrying my tenor saxophone
i like the good girl the smart one the nerd intellectual regular dress
code but still attractive type that stayed to herself.
keep in mind the geeks and nerds are a label given by the fake ass supposed "in crowd"...
that shit aint valid coming from them shallow ass hollow souled lost n following type mfs.
a girl might be in the nerd category for her dress code..
fuck that got to do with her as a person....its high school
those mentalities carrying over to adulthood is the silly shit.
That is all fine and dandy, and sometimes happens; but what happens if your success comes and you are still looking?
If you are a traditional brother and want to be MARRIED to the mother of your children then you have to come to terms with the fact that your success is part of who you are at that point...and trust, that is not a bad thing.
I'm really not sure what the topic is because this thread is a little convoluted. So I'm just going to answer the question in the title.
First I'm going to tell you that there are different types of men (no homo).
You have to figure out which type you are and play the game accordingly. It's all in how you define yourself. That shit is the key right there.
1) There are certain dudes that don't have to do anything and they can pull women. They are few and far between, but they exsist. I had a friend from childhood that can just stand around and women would come to him. So that became his game. He figured it out and played accordingly. He started working out, bulked up a little, got an S-Curl (it was the 90's) and walked around with no shirt on (seriously). By 15 grown women were throwing pussy at him. He didn't attract every woman and I wouldn't say he attracted quality women, but that shit was amazing to me when I was a teenager.
2) Then you have dudes that have charisma, money, swag or whatever else going for them. These dudes realize they aren't dude 1) and compensate. Different types of women are drawn to this type of man because he has more going for him, because he's more of a go getter. I have another friend that looks like Forrest Whittaker, but this kat is funny, very friendly and talkative. The difference is he actually spits game at women. He's not always successful, but those qualities are attractive to women.
3) Then you have the type of dude that has some of the qualities of 1 and 2, but doesn't play to his strengths. This is where most men are. So they kind of sit on the sidelines and watch dude 1 and 2, pull women. This type of dude might luck up on women every once in a while, but he's not successful as dude 1 and 2 because he feels like something is wrong.
What's the moral here? You gotta go get it if you are not extremely good looking. Dudes that say they couldn't get women before, were dude #3, but then they realize a few things and become dude #2.
I got a few things to do, but I'm not going to let women off the hook either. So I'm going to post a part 2 to this later.
First I'm going to tell you that there are different types of men (no homo).
You have to figure out which type you are and play the game accordingly. It's all in how you define yourself. That shit is the key right there.
1) There are certain dudes that don't have to do anything and they can pull women. They are few and far between, but they exsist. I had a friend from childhood that can just stand around and women would come to him. So that became his game. He figured it out and played accordingly. He started working out, bulked up a little, got an S-Curl (it was the 90's) and walked around with no shirt on (seriously). By 15 grown women were throwing pussy at him. He didn't attract every woman and I wouldn't say he attracted quality women, but that shit was amazing to me when I was a teenager.
2) Then you have dudes that have charisma, money, swag or whatever else going for them. These dudes realize they aren't dude 1) and compensate. Different types of women are drawn to this type of man because he has more going for him, because he's more of a go getter. I have another friend that looks like Forrest Whittaker, but this kat is funny, very friendly and talkative. The difference is he actually spits game at women. He's not always successful, but those qualities are attractive to women.
3) Then you have the type of dude that has some of the qualities of 1 and 2, but doesn't play to his strengths. This is where most men are. So they kind of sit on the sidelines and watch dude 1 and 2, pull women. This type of dude might luck up on women every once in a while, but he's not successful as dude 1 and 2 because he feels like something is wrong.
What's the moral here? You gotta go get it if you are not extremely good looking. Dudes that say they couldn't get women before, were dude #3, but then they realize a few things and become dude #2.
I got a few things to do, but I'm not going to let women off the hook either. So I'm going to post a part 2 to this later.
hmm just because you're getting your education on dont mean you cant be a loser
because women want it NOW. They are impatient when it comes to waiting for a guy to get his life right. That's why I encouraged all them silly chicks to go find a drug dealer and live happily ever after.
Women care about two things when it comes to men; LOOKS AND MONEY. Some might argue that confidence is an important factor for women, but if a man is comfortable with his looks and content with the amount of money he makes, confidence will naturally follow. So, for women, attraction is quite simply based on both of the aforementioned factors and men who have more of each have a larger number and variety of women who will be receptive to them. The "dimes" and extremely successful women are going to have the highest standards when it comes to looks and money.
patiently waits 4 part 2
Growing up I was a "nerd". Not cause of my lack of verbal skills, or the way I looked but because I was smart. For some reason, young black and hispanic women in Southern California seem allergic to intelligence (at least when I was growing up). Before eighth grade I got NO women. Since eighth grade I've gotten every woman I have ever pursued, including my wife. The only difference I can pinpoint was the fact that I started working out and playing sports in high school/ college.
Nothing else changed, although I suppose I could argue that I got more confidence once I started working out. In highschool, there were still women that saw me as a nerd, but even they found me attractive. There were plenty of women besides them that were always willing to give me the time of day. Things only got better in college, and now my mom is always telling me how she brags about me, and some of those women who used to diss feel like they missed the boat.
I guess it's like someone else said, women are just shortsighted. As far as the guy is concerned, you need to have confidence, or do something that will help you gain confidence and getting women won't be as difficult.
Nothing else changed, although I suppose I could argue that I got more confidence once I started working out. In highschool, there were still women that saw me as a nerd, but even they found me attractive. There were plenty of women besides them that were always willing to give me the time of day. Things only got better in college, and now my mom is always telling me how she brags about me, and some of those women who used to diss feel like they missed the boat.
I guess it's like someone else said, women are just shortsighted. As far as the guy is concerned, you need to have confidence, or do something that will help you gain confidence and getting women won't be as difficult.
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You expect to make 60,000 as a RN your first year?
that sounds about accurate for an RN...
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