If a guy can't get women until he is sucesful what does that say about him?

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The Mike Jones, the 50's, the Jay-z. All have said back then they couldn't get a woman.

I think this will be interesting to see how BGOL handles this.

I'm just trying to get this. If you can't get a woman it's you that have a problem.<<< That's the concensus on BGOL give or take what day. And if you have a mouthpiece, game you can get any woman.

But also i hear on here "you passed up the good nigga for a thug nigga".

Timeout. Wasn't that "good nigga" a lame because the women passed up on him? :hmm:
[HIDE]That's a dam lie but anyways

I mean isn't he still a lame with a degree? If he has to be sucessful to get women what does that say about him?

I mean after all BGOL is full of macks and playas so if you can't get a girl you're a lame. [/HIDE]



So he was dogged out by women before and now that he on he getting that salary. Showed up in the dubbed out bugy ha?
 
I think everyman has gone through that. I've had women who dogged me in my teenage years to swear we should be together. This only after I started my business, started making money, bought my first home and of course got married.

You don't have to be mad successful to tell the same story.
 
I had hoes cuz I had swag bitch. Now I got swag and money, and more hoes. Get your weight up. You always crying cuz hoes don't fuck wit you.
 
in the whole grand schme of things it doesn't matter as long as you get yours

hell alot of men that get women before ever having to accomplish anything, don't do shit anyway
 
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Well, I would think it depends. Are they talking about quality women passing them up, or straight up hos? Were they even looking for quality women or were they just looking for something to fuck?

After the money do they have quality women or do they have gold diggers or sluts to fuck?
 
I think everyman has gone through that. I've had women who dogged me in my teenage years to swear we should be together. This only after I started my business, started making money, bought my first home and of course got married.

You don't have to be mad successful to tell the same story.

True true true.
I'm not sucessful at all but they see my badge and my scrubs and they assume i'm a RN making 30,000. Shit i fucking wish. Even when they find out i handle orderlies and do home care they get a lil excited depending on her job.

But question: the fact that women would rather date thugs then to be with a sucessful guy that oouldn't get women because of what me and flawless have agreed to as having no conversational skills, say more about the women picking bad men or that those good men werent shit to begin with?
 
That's pretty obvious. So why do women get bashed for passing that guy up when he was in college or before he got a deal?

Because most women are looking for right now. Not what could be. All women are looking for a man that can take care of them. But it says alot about her if she can pick a man who has the drive to make it happen or the one who has it now but maybe not a plan to keep it.
 
in the whole grand schme of things it doesn't matter as long as you get yours

hell alot of men that get women before ever having to accomplish anything, don't do shit anyway

i guess. Well you're right but i was hoping for more
 
Well, I would think it depends. Are they talking about quality women passing them up, or straight up hos? Were they even looking for quality women or were they just looking for something to fuck?

After the money do they have quality women or do they have gold diggers or sluts to fuck?

Cant even tell ya brotha. It takes a min. for me to determine if she is a quality woman. A good lil minute. And even then no woman is 100% ready made to jump in a great relationship with anybody.
 
That's pretty obvious. So why do women get bashed for passing that guy up when he was in college or before he got a deal?

Well, that explains Ms. Right-Now, doesn't it? I'd rather get noticed by a woman who detected my potential and took a chance than be accepted by a woman who only wants me when I'm established.
 
But question: the fact that women would rather date thugs then to be with a sucessful guy that oouldn't get women because of what me and flawless have agreed to as having no conversational skills, say more about the women picking bad men or that those good men werent shit to begin with?


The typical good guy is boring. Does the same thing. Like's where he is and isn't trying to move forward. Not trying to rock the boat or stand up for himself and always puts her first. Sounds nice but it really just says weak. This is verses the thug who is the complete opposite.

The key is confidence and drive. You don't need money for that.
 
Nice :cool:

But in LA 30k ain't nothing, no offense.

By the way, How old are you brotha

30k in detroit is arab money.
Esp. w/out any kids to support and a golddigging as woman.

But i still feel i'm worth more in comparison to how much i help out RN's and do their work and give them advice. I'm 22.
 
Because most women are looking for right now. Not what could be. All women are looking for a man that can take care of them. But it says alot about her if she can pick a man who has the drive to make it happen or the one who has it now but maybe not a plan to keep it.

If you broke, you probably sleeping with a ugly women, those are the really the only ones that will stick around... good looking chicks ain't sticking around with a broke dude with a dream.

Dudes are bitter becuase it's just truth.... Money = everything in this country, without money you ain't shit and you looking upon like you ain't shit... can't deny it.

It's a difference between fucking a chick and keeping a chick, all the mind games in the world, swagger and build won't keep a good looking chick under your arm if you can't handle yours...

And by "having money" by America's standards = having something going for yourself... place... job.... capable car that won't break down everyday, decent clothes...

It's a reason niggas like those overseas women, they tend to look at less and have attendancy to be more family oriented.

They trying to find the easiest way to a home run...
 
True true true.
I'm not sucessful at all but they see my badge and my scrubs and they assume i'm a RN making 30,000. Shit i fucking wish. Even when they find out i handle orderlies and do home care they get a lil excited depending on her job.

But question: the fact that women would rather date thugs then to be with a sucessful guy that oouldn't get women because of what me and flawless have agreed to as having no conversational skills, say more about the women picking bad men or that those good men werent shit to begin with?

who the fuck would go through all that schooling to be a nurse then take the boards and only make 30k a yr?
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Well, that explains Ms. Right-Now, doesn't it? I'd rather get noticed by a woman who detected my potential and took a chance than be accepted by a woman who only wants me when I'm established.

But i'm saying if your mouthpiece right and your "game" straight shoudn't be a problem getting ms.rightnow when you are on the come up right?
 
The typical good guy is boring. Does the same thing. Like's where he is and isn't trying to move forward. Not trying to rock the boat or stand up for himself and always puts her first. Sounds nice but it really just says weak. This is verses the thug who is the complete opposite.

The key is confidence and drive. You don't need money for that.

Bingo
 
Well anybody can get a ugly chick. Or a fat, self-esteem chick. or a chick that is not fine at all but she appears to be when she is around her more attractive friends. Those women do not count. Now I don't know about them rapper/producer dudes before they got in the music industry (yes IN the music industry, not just blowing up. These chicks love somebody involved in music doing whatever!) but I always thrived on getting a fine woman no matter what. Sometimes it was easy, sometimes it was hard (if I cared). And I ain't got no game its just some bitches understand my story!-Nas
 
Well, I would think it depends. Are they talking about quality women passing them up, or straight up hos? Were they even looking for quality women or were they just looking for something to fuck?

After the money do they have quality women or do they have gold diggers or sluts to fuck?

If all a person is fucking with are hoes and women who are baby mamas by multiple men it doesn't matter how many women he gets he's a simp. If he can't get hoes then he has no convo.

But in my opinion it only matters if you can get a quality woman. It doesn't matter if it's before or after he gets on.
 
ehh, on the road to success a woman CAN be a distraction if you're not careful. a lot of dudes never made themselves available or put themselves out there while on their grind so it may seem like they're getting more attention when they finally interact with more people and make themselves more sociable
 
If you broke, you probably sleeping with a ugly women, those are the really the only ones that will stick around... good looking chicks ain't sticking around with a broke dude with a dream.

Dudes are bitter becuase it's just truth.... Money = everything in this country, without money you ain't shit and you looking upon like you ain't shit... can't deny it.

It's a difference between fucking a chick and keeping a chick, all the mind games in the world, swagger and build won't keep a good looking chick under your arm if you can't handle yours...

And by "having money" by America's standards = having something going for yourself... place... job.... capable car that won't break down everyday, decent clothes...

It's a reason niggas like those overseas women, they tend to look at less and have attendancy to be more family oriented.

They trying to find the easiest way to a home run...

So now about the women. What's wrong with a lot woman wanting a thug/bad boy/dope boy if she hasn't found a quality guy with convo that can get her?
 
That's pretty obvious. So why do women get bashed for passing that guy up when he was in college or before he got a deal?

Men are a whole lot more sensitive than Women these days...Holding grudges and shit from Highschool. I couldn't live like that.

Even tho I got pussy, I know why the Women I was really attracted to didn't like me, I just had no redeeming qualities.

No job or cash flow, no sense of fashion, all my shirts consisted of Anime button ups, never brushed my hair, lotioned up, or put chapstick on. Dirty kicks. Couldn't relate to you in any type of way unless it was videogames. Fat and flabby. No conversation skills, wasn't into sports etc
 
Men are a whole lot more sensitive than Women these days...Holding grudges and shit from Highschool. I couldn't live like that.

Even tho I got pussy, I know why the Women I was really attracted to didn't like me, I just had no redeeming qualities.

No job or cash flow, no sense of fashion, all my shirts consisted of Anime button ups, never brushed my hair, lotioned up, or put chapstick on. Dirty kicks. Couldn't relate to you in any type of way unless it was videogames. Fat and flabby. No conversation skills, wasn't into sports etc

So if a female that rejected you back then wanted you know would still pursue assuming she look just as good if not better
 
Women are opportunists & men eventually learn what attracts them. Some women are attracted to the good verbal game, some are attracted to the "good looks" game, some are attracted to the dick game, while other women attracted to the money game. What a man lacks determines what game he can play & ultimately what type of women he'll attract.

If a dude's verbal game is weak, he's gotta play the dick, good looks, or money game but playing those games attracts the whores & gold diggers.

I just learned this lesson with my spanish ex. A few years ago, I was balling & she was in love. Even moved in with me. Now that shit ain't sweet no more & I'm down on my luck, bitch just wants to be friends. LOL Chalk it up to the game. I'm still learning.
 
Men are a whole lot more sensitive than Women these days...Holding grudges and shit from Highschool. I couldn't live like that.

Even tho I got pussy, I know why the Women I was really attracted to didn't like me, I just had no redeeming qualities.

No job or cash flow, no sense of fashion, all my shirts consisted of Anime button ups, never brushed my hair, lotioned up, or put chapstick on. Dirty kicks. Couldn't relate to you in any type of way unless it was videogames. Fat and flabby. No conversation skills, wasn't into sports etc

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