~I Thought I Had A Good Woman~She aint shit either..what would you do?

Born

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I thank everyone for all of the advice. I took everything into consideration.
Heres the Update:
Ive been doing my best to make everything work and trying my hardest to move forth but the thing that has me stuck is the unanswered questions and how she doesn't show any remorse and unapologetic. She seems to really not care that im hurt and trying to deal with this the best way that I can.
I always questioned her mentality a little but never thought that she could ever be a fucked up person so I was blindsided. Love is truly blind cause now I question myself and how I allowed myself to be in not so great situations. Im a good dude with a big heart and she dont appreciate that shit.

Bottom line is I cant be stuck in a one sided situation no matter how much I care for the other person. If it works it works. If it dont is just dont.
 

UnoBetter2

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WTF DICKHEAD!!! YOUR FREE!! DROP THAT, NEED TO GET SOME PROZAC CRAZY AZZ WOMAN, AND MOVE THE FUCK ON!!. YOU JUST GOT YOUR GET OUT OF JAIL / RELATIONSHIP FREE CARD!! AHHHH :angry: YOUNG PEOPLE!!!! WHEN WILL THEY FUCKIN LEARN?:angry:

OK, this is what you do! You be Mr. Sympathetic I'm all fucked up to but, strong for the family husband and maybe a month or two latter tell her your not coping with the situation very well and you think you need some space. Get an apartment and say your just gonna chill and find yourself. If your religious then commute with God or something. Bottom line, get the fuck outta there while you have a chance. You may not get an opportunity like this for another 5 to 10 years, pleez, pleez take this opportunity to get the fuck away from a future crazy azz wife that will ruin your life by getting fat, spending your money, and talkin shit without at least giving you a good fuck!! DONT SAY I DIDNT WARN YOU? :cool:

Im in a situation right now and I just need some feedback.What would you do? What would you think?

Here is the story.
I been with my girl for a few years and I love her. We had our good times and our bad times but right now for me this is our darkest time. Last year we found out that she was pregnant, everything was good, we was both happy. We been through this before and we had a miscarriage a few years back.
Even with the good news I was going through some bad times because my mother was battling cancer. I had to take some time off from working to take care of them both of them. Running back and forth from Queens NY to Paterson NJ by Public transportation. As my mother was progressing and in rehabilitation. I was able to go back to work which I eventually loss because I was missing too many days. So im on my grind trying to find a new job, going crazy because nobodys hiring. My girl is upset that im not sitting up under her 24/7 but at the same time complaining and worrying about money.
By the way the twins that she is having with me aint her only child but its mine. Im grinding to try to take care of that one too. She was so upset that I was not under all day that she wanted to hurt me.
Long story short my twins due date was March 24th, she told me on March 15th that she had a miscarriage almost 3 months prior and didnt tell me so I can be hurt but her way of trying to hurt me was that she wasnt gonna tell me and was just gonna up and leave town.
So I went from thinking any day now that I was gonna be a father for the first time to to learning my babies died months ago. Now Im tripping.
Need Advice....Peace
 

Coldchi

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Go get some counseling bruh......wait....you need a job to make money to pay for counseling. but you need to definitely talk to somebody. Cuz a woman that is trife enough to keep something like that from you, isn't trustworthy enough to be your wife or significant other. I know there is a child involved and everything, but just ask yourself is staying around worth behavior like that?? sorry for your loss man.
 
Bottom line is I cant be stuck in a one sided situation no matter how much I care for the other person. If it works it works. If it dont is just dont.

Well it sounds like you've given it alot of thought ... I'm sure you'll make the best decision for yourself:yes: Good luck:)
 

shaddyvillethug

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Buttnaked

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very simple feedback:

LEAVE THAT CRAZY, DRAMA RIDDEN FEMALE ALONE!

a relationship is meant to support you in times of need, not pull you down further.

she sounds immature & selfish. WTF is she doing for work?

clearly there are 2 sides, but you don't need extra bullshit from home. the world will kick your ass just fine w/o help from a sabotaging partner.

CURB THAT!
 

LeroyDibiase

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Nah, she's a South Beach jawn now.

But yo, I found that shit RANDOMLY.

Bitch porn career extends FAR beyond that little shit I knew/told you about.

I'm talking the chick was in a naked wrestling league and shit. :smh:
 
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