That first dude trying to catch a charge. I've seen a chick call the police because a dude pulled her titty out, much less than that.
Please, there is an assumption of risk for an adult mentally competent woman getting on stage at a male strip show. She has to expect that the stripper is going to do shit like that. Judge Judy would tell her she's a whore, who should have expected that, on national T.V.