I stopped when I got married

[Bigsean1838]

Ok people we all know that most if not all men believe or have heard that a woman will stop doing something or things after marriage. What is the general consensus here about this relationship thought ??? Fact / Fiction. If true ladies shed light on why... These things could be what you do or did for your man whatever. And gentlemen can share their short stories on what stopped and maybe why. I'm about to hit the 1st anniv. and i think i found one thing maybe not sure. But I see this is one untouched subject here in the ladies area that is not proper for the main board.

 

[Shadow]

Ok people we all know that most if not all men believe or have heard that a woman will stop doing something or things after marriage. What is the general consensus here about this relationship thought ??? Fact / Fiction. If true ladies shed light on why... These things could be what you do or did for your man whatever. And gentlemen can share their short stories on what stopped and maybe why. I'm about to hit the 1st anniv. and i think i found one thing maybe not sure. But I see this is one untouched subject here in the ladies area that is not proper for the main board.

If your wife told you she was going to stop any habit she had that you knew about before the marriage, and you believed her, you got played, son.

She said that shit to appease you for the moment, until that ring was on the finger, and everything was locked in. Once you got comfortable, her behavior would resume.

What you should have done, was seen what it was about this habit she liked so much and how you both could enjoy it (unless it was going to the male review).

A man and his wife should be able to do a lot of their respective hobbies together. Not saying they should, but they should be able to.

 

[thismybgolname]

What stopped?

 

[outlaw]

What stopped?

thats the question
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[INVICTUS3RD]

My 2...1st, I am not married, so I cannot speak on how married people do. But I think that 38 years of knowledge and wisdom can say this: You knew who your woman was BEFORE you married her. If you see a change and you do not think it is positive and you think it is because of the fact you got married, then you are most likely right.

But here is something else that you need to look at: The fact that you did not "KNOW" her before you got married. Anybody that says that they did not know their spouse was like that until after they got married is speaking plain and unadultarated BULLSHIT. The signs are there. You have a choice to see it or not.

Example:
Wife usta swallow before you got married. Now you can't get a handjob. Trust, you knew this was she doing this just to get a ring. If you did not, you were so caught up in getting your balls licked, that you took comfort in thinking that would be forever. She SHOWED you who see was from the jump. Trust, you made the choice not to see it.

Same with women. If they say that they did not know that their man would cheat, is a ding-bat. He was a selfish fucker from the start, but being caught up, you made the choice to ignore the signs.

Take a moment of pause and look at who you are spending quality time with. Question everything that you do not understand. Do not argue, but question. Trust me, that is your best defense.

I do not think that there is a unwritten law, to stop doing certain things once you get married.

I hope I answered your question.

INVICTUS3RD

 

[Buttnaked]

just to clarify, you're referring to something she stopped, or do you mean either person?

 

[Crown&Coke]

I aint married but I know that if somebody is doing something just because you want it and not because they like doing it or because they wanna make you happy then most likely they will stop doing it once you marry them.​