I may have gotten this chick pregnant? (HELP)

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Any advice from the ladies will be welcomed by my dumbass.

I was initimate with a young lady last month that is now screaming from the rooftops that i'm the daddy.

I have no children, have never gotten anyone pregnant before, but have had 4 other females scare the living piss outta my dumbass with this same situation, only to find out they were lying.

I'm no ladies man either. Just an average joe.

I went in heat, looked up some female classmates from my highschool, (facebook) we met up, within 5 minutes she was gaving me head in my car, then we drove to a secluded spot and had sex for like 3 minutes. I dropped her back home and have spoken to her like 2x's after this incident. I could tell that she wanted to pursue a relationship but i didn't want that and i felt that that pissed her off. Maybe she is tryna be vengeful?

She has 2 kids by 2 other baby daddies.

She contacted me yesterday and is claiming that she is pregnant and that it's mine.
We are supposed to go to the doctor on Saturday but what i'm asking is if she is indeed pregnant, how can i be sure i'm the daddy? Can any test be provided to exonerate me if i'm not?
 
You just have to wait until she gives birth and have a DNA test done. Don't assume that the child is yours just because she said so, and don't assume that she's really pregnant just because she said so. You had sex with her before you got a chance to really know her again, so her honestly is questionable at best. Just relax and wait until the child (if there is a child) arrives. Don't have sex with her again because she may be lying about being pregnant and if so, she will try to get pregnant.
 
20746 said:
Any advice from the ladies will be welcomed by my dumbass.

I was initimate with a young lady last month that is now screaming from the rooftops that i'm the daddy.

I have no children, have never gotten anyone pregnant before, but have had 4 other females scare the living piss outta my dumbass with this same situation, only to find out they were lying.

I'm no ladies man either. Just an average joe.

I went in heat, looked up some female classmates from my highschool, (facebook) we met up, within 5 minutes she was gaving me head in my car, then we drove to a secluded spot and had sex for like 3 minutes. I dropped her back home and have spoken to her like 2x's after this incident. I could tell that she wanted to pursue a relationship but i didn't want that and i felt that that pissed her off. Maybe she is tryna be vengeful?

She has 2 kids by 2 other baby daddies.

She contacted me yesterday and is claiming that she is pregnant and that it's mine.
We are supposed to go to the doctor on Saturday but what i'm asking is if she is indeed pregnant, how can i be sure i'm the daddy? Can any test be provided to exonerate me if i'm not?
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Son, you fell for the okey doke.Head within 5 minutes of meeting? If this is true, she's trying to Maury Povich your ass.

Get your legal game tight, demand paternity tests and wait her ass out.

I think this is bullshit, but I will respond like your serious.
 
my only advice is go wit her on saturday and find out if she really is pregnant. don't let her go in the office by herself either go with her lol... if she is then you have two choices: 1) wait it out til she drops the seed and get a dna test or 2)pay madd money for this expensive as procedure that they can do while she is pregnant by testing the embryo sack while she pregnant for dna... its up to you though. hope she just isnt pregnant though
 
OLDSCHOOL said:
when u see her kick the bitch in the stomach game over :lol:
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Jam_Jam said:
You just have to wait until she gives birth and have a DNA test done. Don't assume that the child is yours just because she said so, and don't assume that she's really pregnant just because she said so. You had sex with her before you got a chance to really know her again, so her honestly is questionable at best. Just relax and wait until the child (if there is a child) arrives. Don't have sex with her again because she may be lying about being pregnant and if so, she will try to get pregnant.
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Well said Jam, To the poster if this is indeed an accurate story and you HAVE had this happen to you before where females have tried to claim to be carrying your child and you seemingly are NOT ready to become a father maybe you should think about I don't know "strapping up"?:hmm::smh:
 
I'm going in the room with her. She hasn't provided me any evidence thus far, only that she has missed her period and that she has taken a home pregnancy test.

This lady is 34 and works at a movie theater, full time.

I don't hate her, and am not attracted to her. We are not in love, it was spontaneous. 3 minutes tops. WHAM BAM, and i took her ass right back home!

I would hate to be connected to her for 18 years. The only bright side i'm seeing is that this is 10x's better than her contacting me saying that she has hiv.
 
I was horny as hell. (stupid, i know)

I wasn't strapped and we both are against abortion. At least i know i am.

I'm just praying that she just trying to teach me a lesson, as she somehow mistakenly thinks i'm a player or that i have a rack of bishes, which i don't!

If i was a player, would i have to look up females on facebook?

She claimed straight up and down that she hadn't been intimate in over a year before i, but i think she lying.

It was no struggle going in her pussy.
 
20746 said:
Any advice from the ladies will be welcomed by my dumbass.

I was initimate with a young lady last month that is now screaming from the rooftops that i'm the daddy.

I have no children, have never gotten anyone pregnant before, but have had 4 other females scare the living piss outta my dumbass with this same situation, only to find out they were lying.

I'm no ladies man either. Just an average joe.

I went in heat, looked up some female classmates from my highschool, (facebook) we met up, within 5 minutes she was gaving me head in my car, then we drove to a secluded spot and had sex for like 3 minutes. I dropped her back home and have spoken to her like 2x's after this incident. I could tell that she wanted to pursue a relationship but i didn't want that and i felt that that pissed her off. Maybe she is tryna be vengeful?

She has 2 kids by 2 other baby daddies.

She contacted me yesterday and is claiming that she is pregnant and that it's mine.
We are supposed to go to the doctor on Saturday but what i'm asking is if she is indeed pregnant, how can i be sure i'm the daddy? Can any test be provided to exonerate me if i'm not?
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3 minutes? Do you mean 3 whole minutes? Anyway when the baby arrives have a DNA test run to be sure the child is yours. If it is your child don't feel obligated to marry her. With 2 other babies already she was looking to lock up somebody.

You need your ass kicked for having unprotected sex. She could be giving you more than a child.:smh:
 
Yes, 3 whole minutes. We was outside, i had her bent over the hood of my car in a secluded area. It was about 80 degrees outside that night, last month.

She had been masauge-ing my nipples and giving me head, so i was ready to explode. In my state of intoxication (horniness) i drove right past the damn gas station where i could've brought a $1 dollar single condom.

I was in heat, so was she. Right after i busted, i couldn't get her ass home fast enough! We talked maybe twice after this incident where she wanted to hook up again, but i wasn't feeling her like that.
 
Good luck with that. :smh:

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I'm just praying that she lying and just wants a realtionship. If that's all she wants, i'll even give that to her.

It's sad, but she has me about to be bowed low and humbled over this. No more easy pussy for me.

I'm looking to marry somebody after this, and not her either.
 
U wont have to wait that long to get some kind of idea about whether it is your child(IF she IS pregnant. Ultrasounds are pretty accurate these days. If the age of the fetus dont match up to the time you smashed, she's lying
 
she works at a movie theater...full time LMAO:lol:

But seriously, you're dumb ass hell for going in that raw

Go with her to the doctor and pay real close attention to how many weeks the doctor says she's pregnant. PINPOINT the night you had sex with her. She's clearly quite a bit unsavory (you are too) so who knows how many other dude she did this same ish with:hmm:
 
20746 said:
Yes, 3 whole minutes. We was outside, i had her bent over the hood of my car in a secluded area. It was about 80 degrees outside that night, last month.

She had been masauge-ing my nipples and giving me head, so i was ready to explode. In my state of intoxication (horniness) i drove right past the damn gas station where i could've brought a $1 dollar single condom.

I was in heat, so was she. Right after i busted, i couldn't get her ass home fast enough! We talked maybe twice after this incident where she wanted to hook up again, but i wasn't feeling her like that.
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Youngsters... I swear...

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Kinfolk you gotta pull out, if you gonna hit em raw. 2-3 min ahead of time and have a jack-fest. I dont care. but, you CANNOT skeet in these loser ass hoes. guess what? you just ruined your life! if she is preggo she is gonna attatch herself to your success. .... you gonna be the "good" baby daddy... the one she been waiting on.. she is gonna wanna push the whip. she gonna try to make you watch her other kids & shit. you might be fucked homey.:angry:
 
hussla's paradice said:
Kinfolk you gotta pull out, if you gonna hit em raw. 2-3 min ahead of time and have a jack-fest. I dont care. but, you CANNOT skeet in these loser ass hoes. guess what? you just ruined your life! if she is preggo she is gonna attatch herself to your success. .... you gonna be the "good" baby daddy... the one she been waiting on.. she is gonna wanna push the whip. she gonna try to make you watch her other kids & shit. you might be fucked homey.:angry:
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Pulling out doesnt always work.Women get pregnant from pre-cum too
 
hussla's paradice said:
Kinfolk you gotta pull out, if you gonna hit em raw. 2-3 min ahead of time and have a jack-fest. I dont care. but, you CANNOT skeet in these loser ass hoes. guess what? you just ruined your life! if she is preggo she is gonna attatch herself to your success. .... you gonna be the "good" baby daddy... the one she been waiting on.. she is gonna wanna push the whip. she gonna try to make you watch her other kids & shit. you might be fucked homey.:angry:
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1) Pulling out does not work. Pre cum: learn about it.
2) The bro didn't have enough self-control to pull over to a store and buy a rubber ahead of time and you think he has the strength of will to pull out of some trim right before he busts? C'mon...:hmm:
3) He should have worn a rubber to prevent STDs, especially messing around with something strange.

But you are right about skeetin up loser ass hoes. Thats stupid beyond belief. Still, I hope the broad aint pregnant by him.
 
Thanks for all the replies.

I'm going to stay positive and optimistic whichever way this situation manifests itself out to be.

We've (well she) has already expressed that she's not in love with me, so we straight on that. I don't intend to be a trifling babby daddy, hell no.

I sense from her that she's trying to put me in a position where it's tension between us & i say something smart to her, only to have her throw in my face that she don't need me, then take my dumbass for child support, so i'm trying to be civil with her. PG County Maryland don't play with that child support stuff.

It's funny, because for the longest time, i've always felt that my sperm was very weak, as i've never, ever, ever, have gotten anyone pregnant, but i suppose it was only a matter of time before i could no longer keep dodging that bullet.

I'm so desperate that i wish there was some way that i could've rifle through her trash can in her bathroom, to she if she has menstruated since we were together last month. :eek:
 
you my main man, 50 grand & all.....

but why would you conversate/bang/skeet in/.. a 34 year old chick that works at the movies full time? both of y'all are kinda too old for that shit.

wait? you said P.G. County Maryland?.. it is alotta paper & well to do blacks there...and she lives there?....... I aint from the east coast but?.... :confused:


I think a ocking is in process.
 
in most cases, it takes about six weeks to notice that your pregnant. trust me, i have gone through the same thing with my woman....we broke up, but have since gotten back together. but one thing you must remember....don't fuck with something you can't bring home to your mother...it will only set you up for disaster. im happy in my situation, and the only reason i am is because it was the right one. you my friend, fucked up. but, if it is yours, do what must be done. if not, i better see you at that church every sunday!!!!!:lol:
 
Move to Canada, Cuba, Mexico, or England. RUN Forest Run!!!!! Dont give a SSN, Birthdate, place of birth........nothing!!!!!! Break out you simp!!!:smh::smh::smh:
 
hussla's paradice said:
you my main man, 50 grand & all.....

but why would you conversate/bang/skeet in/.. a 34 year old chick that works at the movies full time? both of y'all are kinda too old for that shit.

wait? you said P.G. County Maryland?.. it is alotta paper & well to do blacks there...and she lives there?....... I aint from the east coast but?.... :confused:


I think a ocking is in process.
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It may be an ocking but PG is just like any other area with us in it. You pay 900 - 1000 a month in rent and ninjas are still shooting and acting up outside. Just like anywhere else.
 
Yogi Bear said:
It may be an ocking but PG is just like any other area with us in it. You pay 900 - 1000 a month in rent and ninjas are still shooting and acting up outside. Just like anywhere else.
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PG is full of hoodrats. Especially Suitland. I wouldn't even think of talking to a broad at Iverson Mall because I know what they are and they know what they are. :yes:
 
It looks to me like old girl gets around, so even if she is pregnant, it might not be yours. Just make sure you get that paternity test because you don't want to be taking care of a child thats not yours. Get tested yourself too homeboy, for your own health, lol.
 
20746 said:
Any advice from the ladies will be welcomed by my dumbass.

I was initimate with a young lady last month that is now screaming from the rooftops that i'm the daddy.

I have no children, have never gotten anyone pregnant before, but have had 4 other females scare the living piss outta my dumbass with this same situation, only to find out they were lying.

I'm no ladies man either. Just an average joe.

I went in heat, looked up some female classmates from my highschool, (facebook) we met up, within 5 minutes she was gaving me head in my car, then we drove to a secluded spot and had sex for like 3 minutes. I dropped her back home and have spoken to her like 2x's after this incident. I could tell that she wanted to pursue a relationship but i didn't want that and i felt that that pissed her off. Maybe she is tryna be vengeful?[/COLOR]

She has 2 kids by 2 other baby daddies.

She contacted me yesterday and is claiming that she is pregnant and that it's mine.
We are supposed to go to the doctor on Saturday but what i'm asking is if she is indeed pregnant, how can i be sure i'm the daddy? Can any test be provided to exonerate me if i'm not?
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Dude...either she was already pregnant or she was tryna get that way. After getting dogged out by her other baby daddies, she decided she needed some stability - and you met all the criteria...AND she knew you from school and prolly thinks you're a good catch.
If she IS pregnant and she KNOWS it's not yours, she'll avoid getting tested, may even start shit about it, but if she IS pregnant and you ARE the father, I hope it was truly an accident or you're stuck with a tricky, vindictive ho for at least 18 years. Of course this is all speculation, but in any case, ask everybody you know to pray for you... cuz life as you know it could be changed forever if U'RE THA PAPPY!:smh:
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