In all honesty I still see a lot of indirect call outs in here while claiming otherwise...So let me say this-so it can be loud, clear and understood:
If you have a problem w/ me-tell me. If you have something to ask me-ask me I have no problems w/ talking to anyone on here if they come to me w/ sense. I prefer PM because I dont believe in feeding trolls and giving people more to hold on to. Because then I am like do you really have something to say to me or is it you just want attention, validation and audience?
I give kudos to anyone who can walk away from negativity-because it shows restraint and maturity.
But paranoia, attention whoring, dry snitching and saying your one thing while displaying another is lame.
I can even admit my "Diva" thing wasnt who I really was (but I still like saying what isnt Diva..lolol) which is why I love & respect my man. He stopped that shit cold (thank you baby). Why because I was saying one thing and displaying another.
So really lets stop the bullshit I am woman all day every day, come at me like a grown up or dont come at all.
Consider this an open invitation to my PM to try to squash what ever "beef" there is. If not.....Then dont say nothing to me on here and I will gladly do the same.
One-
I don't PM.
I didn't see anything indirect, at least from me, but I'll spell it out in detail so there's no mistaking. The only "problem" I "have" with you is you are a terrible, inconsistent, hypocritical, favorite-playing mod. But I know you knew that already. There is no "beef", not on my end.
I place the blame of a lot of this hostility on SOL recently (the last 6 months) directly on you. You as a mod should strive to stay above the fray and not bog yourself down with "pettiness". The other three mods of SOL did that perfectly. Most of the BGOL mods do that perfectly. Matter of fact, the only mod that I see posting regularly and involved in board issues (right or wrong) is one you ironically criticize while engaging in similar behavior. But that's besides the point.
This place operates on "stricter" rules than the main board. And time and time again, you personally have violated these rules. You follow it up with an apology and a promise not to engage in that behavior, yet it happens again. And again. And again. You violate one of the cardinal rules of SOL (picture posting) and post a picture that someone never posted on SOL and then have the audacity to get upset that I posted a video of a pic you yourself (in a rage of stupidity or divaness or whatever) posted for the public to see. You didn't offer me the same amenity that you offered yourself (to edit the post, but trust, there's no hostility there). That's called inconsistency. You've constantly attacked posters (unprovoked or not) and then clamp down when others do it.
SOL is littered with your promises to not engage in such behavior. As a matter of fact, after the BiGirl ban, you made a post proclaiming to "fall back" and "look upon yourself" as you had "Things to work on". No more than two days later you were back to the same shit. Well, how the heck do you expect this place to have positivity? Sure, there are people reading this saying "So fucking what?", well I don't give a care how the asylum is run to be honest. I'm just stating how it is.
In this very thread, instead of being a mod and leaving shit alone, you had to dig some more at BiGirl. Yes, she's brought a lot of her grief on herself, but you're still a mod. You're the Queen of Passive-Aggressive slick talk posts. In the very post I am quoting, you're doing it again. Say what you want to say, don't hold back on some "I'm a mod shit." That hasn't stopped you before. Like you hold that position to any esteem. This ain't got shit to do with any "diva"ness or the like.
And you can look at the messenger and say "Oh like he's one to talk", but I'm very direct and everyone knows exactly how I feel about them. And I'm also not in any position of so-called authority, nor am I complaining about the deadness of the forum or the negativity. None of this should be brand new as you know exactly how I feel about your "mod skills" as I have criticized them before. You can continue along the same path as you are going and it won't affect me, as this is the net (I hate that cliche) and what, I get banned for a period of time. But everyone seems fixated on the air of negativity, well the current cloud starts at the top.
You created this current monster. You are responsible, definitely not you alone, but Dr. Frankenstein you pulled the switch.
And she knows that and I've told her straight up (as I have you) that some of her recent words/actions were not for the best. The reason why I brought up that one example was to show that I've seen her be able to have fought tooth and nail with a person (me) and say some shit and then at least be able to get over it. Largely in part because once we mutually decided to get past it, we weren't going around throwing potshots at each other around BGOL or SOL or posting/PMing pictures or whatever. I'm not saying you and her have to get along, not at all. 
