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How would you deal with disloyalty????

Coldchi

Coldchi

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Long story short......about 2 months ago, i helped a dude (black) get a job with my team,...even though he lacked the necessary experience.
I come to find out from a couple of my other co-workers on my team, that this dude just out the blue
told my supervisor that i had 2 job interviews with other companies while i was away in DC.
He knows that I know now.....and he's keeping his distance. In all honesty, I can have this dude shown his walking papers asap.
Trying to figure out how to play this shit the right way......cuz this dude has really pissed me off something seriously.
 
Straight foul. I'd just tell him thanks and just cut him off. Helped peeps like that but never had no one stab me in the back like that. Just foul...
 
Lesson learned; be VERY wary of helping someone get on at the same place you make your bread. Like, if it ain’t a BEST friend or close, CLOSE fam, don’t do it again; help them find work with someone else but not your gig.

Ok; issue at hand; dude has put you on straight front with not just the manager but the team, which unfortunately means you need to be planning an exit strategy. If asked you can easily say recruiters hit you up on LinkedIn and you were interested in talking to them but have no plans to leave Company A. But yeah, next time you get some leads or interviews keep it to yourself.

As for this disloyal fuck nigga; cut him off immediately and don’t turn back. He’s taken your kindness and used it to try and elevate his standing with your peers and managers. He probably knows more about you than he should and getting him ran out the door could only lead to issues for you and/or have both of you gone; or hell, since HE’S the loyal company man and you’re the traitor, YOU could be bounced and he gets to stay.

Unfortunately, you looked out and got burned. You’ll plan better next time.
 
First of all, that nigga don't deserve a small-talk conversation with you again. That level of fuckery I could never overlook. On God, bro.

I'm mad even thinking about that shit, and it ain't got shit to do with me.

But, like dude up above said - you need to be planning an exit strategy, like yesterday.

OH .... yeah, I'd get that nigga fired. Fuck that. I normally wouldn't advocate some shit like that, but this is one of those rare occasions where I think it is more than justified.
 
man, if you only knew how many times I done been stabbed in the back. drop that fuck nigga like a hot potato, I would. I'd retaliate if I was in your position, but would only do it if I had no possibility of suffering repercussions on the job. "Karma" just aint enough for me when I get crossed, I got to do the job myself
 
Invite him to lunch
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Coldchi said:
Long story short......about 2 months ago, i helped a dude (black) get a job with my team,...even though he lacked the necessary experience.
I come to find out from a couple of my other co-workers on my team, that this dude just out the blue
told my supervisor that i had 2 job interviews with other companies while i was away in DC.
He knows that I know now.....and he's keeping his distance. In all honesty, I can have this dude shown his walking papers asap.
Trying to figure out how to play this shit the right way......cuz this dude has really pissed me off something seriously.
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Invite him to the door. If it comes to it confront him professionally about what he has done. Add a mofo just in case he think its sweet.
 
people say i have a karma angel.. when i'm suppose to act out in an aggressive way i'll think about it first and fall back and let my bitch handle the situation:D:D:D..she's a good bitch and hits all her targets extremely hard..im talking about cars flipping over, natural disasters fucking up property, people bizzness going under, jobs losses, people going under the jail, and stuff way worst than that:D:D.. my personal reaction would to smile in his face cause i kno my bitch gonna show up and destroy him..prob having eating out a garbage can in under a yr or become a crackhead.. than i'll smile and look into a distance and tell my bitch i love her
 
DON'T DO THIS - :beatyourass:
have the conversation in a non-confrontational way.
if you know he knows you know, there's no room for frontin'/fake convo.
maybe they got slick & coaxed it outta him - make him think he'll up his status.
or he blabbed thinking it would elevate his standing - why else would he just tell 'em that?
REMIND him you looked out for him (apparently he forgot).


then :hellyea:
put some creep shots on his phone & report what he showed you...
 
Coldchi said:
Long story short......about 2 months ago, i helped a dude (black) get a job with my team,...even though he lacked the necessary experience.
I come to find out from a couple of my other co-workers on my team, that this dude just out the blue
told my supervisor that i had 2 job interviews with other companies while i was away in DC.
He knows that I know now.....and he's keeping his distance. In all honesty, I can have this dude shown his walking papers asap.
Trying to figure out how to play this shit the right way......cuz this dude has really pissed me off something seriously.
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Thats some hoe shit...You need to check that dude something serious
 
Rise above it.
He exposed how untrustworthy he is to you and his coworkers. The job and fucking with him like that cuz he would snitch on them too.
Don't even address it. Be the bigger man. Keep looking for jobs, fuck it. You're trying to leave anyway. Most jobs know people look to improve their situation, so unless you lied or did it on company time, fuck it. So what they know you feel you deserve better. That's a good thing.
 
first find out if its really true.... that's just me i don't trust nobody. But damn how that dude gone just rat you out like that. I bet a bitch was involved. Which one of them office hoes is he trying to fuck.

Dude foul as hell..
 
Peace,

First and foremost, I’m sorry that shit happened to you. Being betrayed is the worst.

Second, keep it moving. Find another job and literally never have another conversation with that back stabbing motherfucker again. At some point, his poisonous nature will harm him and people will see him for the despicable pariah that he is.

And always remember: the best revenge is to have a GREAT life.
 
bgbtylvr said:
Rise above it.
He exposed how untrustworthy he is to you and his coworkers. The job and fucking with him like that cuz he would snitch on them too.
Don't even address it. Be the bigger man. Keep looking for jobs, fuck it. You're trying to leave anyway. Most jobs know people look to improve their situation, so unless you lied or did it on company time, fuck it. So what they know you feel you deserve better. That's a good thing.
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Well because of the shit he did.....none of the other dudes on the team want to fuck with him at all now.
There are only 2 cacs on my team of 10. we're split into two groups. he normally works in a different area with two other black dudes, and the two cacs.
but those guys are also micromanaged by my supervisor......me and the 4 guys i work with are in a different area, but I'm the team lead, and we're the ones
that do the majority of the traveling.
I think he's salty because he hasn't gotten to travel anywhere,....and whenever its time to travel anywhere, i usually go by myself, or pick one of the other guys
to go with me. And because i've never asked to have him come along with me on this out of town trips, dude is gettin mad.
But like i said......i gave the dude a chance at having a job despite his experience. I can't have this mufucka out in the field and fuckin shit up. That'll be a bad
reflection on me and the rest of the team.
My boss knows that my time here is not for the long term.....he knows I'm pursuing avenues in the AWS environment. But i think this nigga doing this shit in order to make moves of his own.
But ass kissin won't get you far here......snitchin either.
 
Coldchi said:
Well because of the shit he did.....none of the other dudes on the team want to fuck with him at all now.
There are only 2 cacs on my team of 10. we're split into two groups. he normally works in a different area with two other black dudes, and the two cacs.
but those guys are also micromanaged by my supervisor......me and the 4 guys i work with are in a different area, but I'm the team lead, and we're the ones
that do the majority of the traveling.
I think he's salty because he hasn't gotten to travel anywhere,....and whenever its time to travel anywhere, i usually go by myself, or pick one of the other guys
to go with me. And because i've never asked to have him come along with me on this out of town trips, dude is gettin mad.
But like i said......i gave the dude a chance at having a job despite his experience. I can't have this mufucka out in the field and fuckin shit up. That'll be a bad
reflection on me and the rest of the team.
My boss knows that my time here is not for the long term.....he knows I'm pursuing avenues in the AWS environment. But i think this nigga doing this shit in order to make moves of his own.
But ass kissin won't get you far here......snitchin either.
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Fam cut him off the job. Period. I know cats on here talking turn the other cheek like Karma etc. You sometimes have to be Karma. Not saying do it in a mean way but Ive had maybe 60-80 employees over my years, allowing a cancer to stay will be worse in the long run. Let him know what he did was foul and costs him his job. It is a lesson he needs to learn.
 
Man that's fucked up...I would just cut him off immediately. I wouldn't confront him about it because he has already shown himself to be a ho and if you confront him, I wouldn't be surprised if her reported you to management about you creating a hostile/threatening environment....
 
:dunno: You can't look into other employment opportunities? That's a good way to get a raise by showing your current employer better job offers on the table. Happens everyday b. You did nothing wrong. That's between you and hr fuck a supervisor.
 
First step is damage control. Tell your boss that you are willing to let the company match whatever you are offered at these interviews. Tell them that if your performance wasn't up to par you'd fully expect them to start interviewing too. Their response will let you know if they see you as an asset or a servant.

As for your friend? Just cut him off and keep him out of the loop. Save the revenge for Superman.
 
Dannyblueyes said:
First step is damage control. Tell your boss that you are willing to let the company match whatever you are offered at these interviews. Tell them that if your performance wasn't up to par you'd fully expect them to start interviewing too. Their response will let you know if they see you as an asset or a servant.

As for your friend? Just cut him off and keep him out of the loop. Save the revenge for Superman.
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they won't be able to match what I'm being offered. besides.....its a totally different position.....none of which they have open here.
going from IT Support Engineer III to IT Cloud Architect
 
Coldchi said:
they won't be able to match what I'm being offered. besides.....its a totally different position.....none of which they have open here.
going from IT Support Engineer III to IT Cloud Architect
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Okay, so just to make sure I understand.

You are ditching your current job to take a position that pays what closer to what you're worth. In doing so you're leaving this disloyal sack of shit in the dust.

What was the problem again?
 
I wouldn't even attempt to make him lose his job however I would let him know I know he spoke out of turn and never deal with him again, even in just small talk unless it was work related.

At this point you only get to cross me once.
 

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