how to deal with Gays in college dorms???? Anybody ever have a gay roommate?

the cool thing about going to an all Black college was that absolutely NO ONE was openly gay,,, i'm sure there were some secretly gay people, but they never let it be known (for safety & acceptance reasons),,, so we never had to deal with that shit,,, things may have changed at HBCU's within the last few years tho (now that it's cool for kids to be gay),,, but i would think it's still the same now,,,
 
how was eddie longs sermon this past sunday

You see ya'll into some Eddie Long hero worship business. I don't hero worship anyone, wasn't how I was raised. So anything you have to say about Eddie Long as really zero to no effect on me in regards to the impact that you require. I will say Men and Women fail that's a given, thats why I don't put my trust in any man like that. The Word of God though that remains.

Old Testament
# Leviticus 18:22
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
Leviticus 18:21-23 (in Context) Leviticus 18 (Whole Chapter)
# Leviticus 20:13
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 20:12-14


New Testament
25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

Even Eddie Long and the Pope himself can't change what is written.:smh:

I'm surprised at the gay defenders !!!
 
the cool thing about going to an all Black college was that absolutely NO ONE was openly gay,,, i'm sure there were some secretly gay people, but they never let it be known (for safety & acceptance reasons),,, so we never had to deal with that shit,,, things may have changed at HBCU's within the last few years tho (now that it's cool for kids to be gay),,, but i would think it's still the same now,,,

you and me are probably about the same age so you should include some words in your statement like "when i was in school"... that shit ain't the same now they had to issue a statement policy change stating that men were not allowed to wear womens attire at moorehouse
 
You see ya'll into some Eddie Long hero worship business. I don't hero worship anyone, wasn't how I was raised. So anything you have to say about Eddie Long as really zero effect on me in regards to the impact that you require. I will say Men and Women fail that's given, thats why I don't put my trust in any man like that. The Word of God though that remains.

Old Testament
# Leviticus 18:22
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
Leviticus 18:21-23 (in Context) Leviticus 18 (Whole Chapter)
# Leviticus 20:13
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 20:12-14


New Testament
25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

Even Eddie Long and the Pope himself can't change what is written.:smh:

I'm surprised at the gay defenders !!!

i love how people quote the bible to prove one point they stand by but just ignore every other thing in there when other parts of their lives are fucked up :lol::lol::lol:
 
i love how people quote the bible to prove one point they stand by but just ignore every other thing in there when other parts of their lives are fucked up :lol::lol::lol:

No that's not the point, I've said before these are the rules. I don't delude myself. If Judgement should come the next moment I don't think that I should have a passport into heaven unless I change my way. I don't give myself a pass because I believe the one judge of us all doesn't give me a pass and so I don't give gays a pass, like I don't give murderers, paedophiles, all those that pass under the same judgement of the one judge.
 
grow up.

As long as he keeps the gay shit to his room
i wont have a problem rooming with a gay roommate.

I'd prefer a gay roommate over a dirty one for example

just keep that gay shit private.

this^
less homophobia is the way to solve your "problem"
 
OK it seems as though we getting off of topic here.


I know as an undergrad we had a transgendered or a cross dresser, (male to female, not sure which one. Rumor had it he snip snip but no one would or could confirm so the dudes didn't want to room with him. The chicks didn't mind but because he still (:confused:) had a penis he couldn't legally room with them either. No one knew we had apartments in the student center so he lived there with a kitchenette, his own room and his own bathroom and living room.

Lucky bastard.


From what I gathered if you still got a dick you room with other people who have dicks. It's a touchy situation because a lawsuit could come from either side...but if schools create gay only dorms that a big lawsuit right there...seems the only really way round this tolerance.
 
No that's not the point, I've said before these are the rules. I don't delude myself. If Judgement should come the next moment I don't think that I should have a passport into heaven unless I change my way. I don't give myself a pass because I believe the one judge of us all doesn't give me a pass and so I don't give gays a pass, like I don't give murderers, paedophiles, all those that pass under the same judgement of the one judge.

if god forgives all sins and you believe being gay is a sin that means when you get to heaven there will be a bunch of fags there opening the gates welcoming you "home"
 
if god forgives all sins and you believe being gay is a sin that means when you get to heaven there will be a bunch of fags there opening the gates welcoming you "home"

This is where the picking and choosing starts. They'll say that God doesn't make mistakes when you say that gays are born that way, but they won't let God take credit for a heterosexual Ted Bundy! :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
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OK it seems as though we getting off of topic here.


I know as an undergrad we had a transgendered or a cross dresser, (male to female, not sure which one. Rumor had it he snip snip but no one would or could confirm so the dudes didn't want to room with him. The chicks didn't mind but because he still (:confused:) had a penis he couldn't legally room with them either. No one knew we had apartments in the student center so he lived there with a kitchenette, his own room and his own bathroom and living room.

Lucky bastard.


From what I gathered if you still got a dick you room with other people who have dicks. It's a touchy situation because a lawsuit could come from either side...but if schools create gay only dorms that a big lawsuit right there...seems the only really way round this tolerance.


You mean conform to what's being forced on you ? that's the way around it huh ?
 
if god forgives all sins and you believe being gay is a sin that means when you get to heaven there will be a bunch of fags there opening the gates welcoming you "home"

Being gay isn't just a sin ... The bible teaches it is an abomination. really before you talk to me read up first. You think the bible deals with homosexuality like its some casual sin like stealing an apple. Its an ABOMINABLE act

Definition;

a·bom·i·na·tion
   /əˌbɒməˈneɪʃən/ Show Spelled[uh-bom-uh-ney-shuhn] Show IPA
noun
1.
anything abominable; anything greatly disliked or abhorred.
2.
intense aversion or loathing; detestation: He regarded lying with abomination.
3.
a vile, shameful, or detestable action, condition, habit, etc.: Spitting in public is an abomination.
 
You mean conform to what's being forced on you ? that's the way around it huh ?

Forced? I don't think so.

Even homosexuals are human and have rights. If they deserve the right to go to school and live on campus they need to feel as if they can do so without persecution. They shouldn't be singled out or handled with kid gloves but in the effort to protect the institution they are.

I'm not saying the rest of us should kowtow to something that we may or may not believe in but what if we stuck everyone with sickle cell in a separate house because they were sickly? Or everyone with vitailigo so everyone would stop staring? Or we stuck everyone with down syndrome or autism or MS or CP in a dorm so their attendants would always know where they were? I believe in treating people like you want to be treated. So as long as no one is hitting on me when it's not wanted, you not climbing in my bed when I don't ask you, we not on some SWF shit, you not walking around naked 24/7, I don't see what the problem is.
 
grow up.

As long as he keeps the gay shit to his room
i wont have a problem rooming with a gay roommate.

I'd prefer a gay roommate over a dirty one for example

just keep that gay shit private.
Man I would have thought this way until I actually talked with a honest homo on my job I used to work at. Dude told me that Gays dont give a fuck about us strait men, and do things to annoy us because they can get away with it.:smh:
He also said that many of them fantasize about being with strait men, and would do all types of schemes, including spreding rumors of you being gay so that women would stay away from you.:smh: I told him this is why many straits including me, hate homos, he agreed with my feeling saying if he was strait he would feel the same way. Thats why till this day, I never trust no homo!!!
 
Being gay isn't just a sin ... The bible teaches it is an abomination. really before you talk to me read up first. You think the bible deals with homosexuality like its some casual sin like stealing an apple. Its an ABOMINABLE act

Definition;

a·bom·i·na·tion
   /əˌbɒməˈneɪʃən/ Show Spelled[uh-bom-uh-ney-shuhn] Show IPA
noun
1.
anything abominable; anything greatly disliked or abhorred.
2.
intense aversion or loathing; detestation: He regarded lying with abomination.
3.
a vile, shameful, or detestable action, condition, habit, etc.: Spitting in public is an abomination.

call it what you want if you believe that god forgives all then those same gay people you hate there will be some of them waiting for you when you get to the gates of "heaven"

you can't call yourself a believer and then have that much hate in your heart...
 
They have rights to................. i hear you Flawless but man i dont hear you. Its just a uncomfortable situation for everybody u cant fuck your girl cuz his gay ass might be under the covers watching! And he better not be FUCKING nothing! i be damn if im in the same room with all that going on. Even if he was on some im bout to have company type shit and they go in the back i dont wanna even want the gay mist on my belongings............

Just to much of a conflict of interest. It should be BOY dorms girl dorms and gay dorms

So if the guy was straight you'd be ok with him looking from under the covers? And if the guy had a girl over to have sex with you'd stay in the room?
 
OK went through post and did not see anyone say they had a gay roommate.

Well I did my freshman year. Way before school started I got all my info my roommates name I'm and pretty sure his phone number b/c I know like a week before school I called to ask what I needed to bring and when he answered the phone I looked at my at boy and just :eek: this dude is gay could tell by how he talked.

Man I said fuck it I got no problem with it. Day one dude realized it just was not going to be his way he thought I would be going down stairs to smoke(I don't smoke) or just go down there to talk with him when he did fuck that.

It was ok at first he did his thing, never had sex in the room from what I can recall, and I did mine. He became a very depressed person that first semester he changed all classes to night and I was mornings so we hardly saw each other. Guys on the floor hated him b/c he would call campus police in a heartbeat if they made too much noise.

:smh: One night changed the whole game. It was a weekend he was never usually there on the weekends but he was this time so he decided to tell me too much info on how his night went. I heard the story on what he felt made him gay it was fucked up and very sad :(. Dude also put it out there that if I was ever down with it he was too. I moved out next semester :lol:. He got a room all to himself.

Well you certainly handled yourself well. Not many black men would've done this. I've heard stories of guys beating their roomates. Fighting constantly. One even got thrown from a 3rd story balcony.
 
grow up.

As long as he keeps the gay shit to his room
i wont have a problem rooming with a gay roommate.

I'd prefer a gay roommate over a dirty one for example

just keep that gay shit private.

It's not that simple...I don't wanna get too much into his biz but my cuz'n had a similar problem w/ a gay roommate...dude had to end up transferring schools...the situation got that heated...if faggots would keep their faggot life personal then guess what no one would know they were faggots...like I said it's not that simple...these dudes seem to have to let ppl know they're gay and shit
 
You see ya'll into some Eddie Long hero worship business. I don't hero worship anyone, wasn't how I was raised. So anything you have to say about Eddie Long as really zero to no effect on me in regards to the impact that you require. I will say Men and Women fail that's a given, thats why I don't put my trust in any man like that. The Word of God though that remains.

Old Testament
# Leviticus 18:22
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
Leviticus 18:21-23 (in Context) Leviticus 18 (Whole Chapter)
# Leviticus 20:13
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 20:12-14


New Testament
25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

Even Eddie Long and the Pope himself can't change what is written.:smh:

I'm surprised at the gay defenders !!!

"You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife or his male servant or his female servant or his ox or his donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor." (Exodus 20:17)

Jesus specifically addressed the question of lusting after a women who wasn't one's wife, equating it with the physical act of adultery:

"You have heard that it was said, 'YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY'; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. (Matthew 5:27-29)

The prohibition against lust is found throughout the New Testament,10 which says that such desires "wage war against the soul."11 James gives an analogy of lust to procreation, in which lust conceives and gives birth to sin, which results in death.12 Of course, the goal of pornography is to elicit lust, which makes its consumption a form of sin.

It's better to cut out thine own eyes then to let them sin. So, why are you on a porn board? If you're too afraid to cut out your own eyes, i'd be willing to help you in service to your god.
 
It's not that simple...I don't wanna get too much into his biz but my cuz'n had a similar problem w/ a gay roommate...dude had to end up transferring schools...the situation got that heated...if faggots would keep their faggot life personal then guess what no one would know they were faggots...like I said it's not that simple...these dudes seem to have to let ppl know they're gay and shit

Wait...so let me understand.

If a gay dude, who dresses...differently...goes to college how should he 'blend in' to not seem gay?

Should a boyish looking chick wear tight shirts and a push up bra instead of a tshirt and loose jeans so she doesn't seem gay? How does that work?


There's a difference between looking and acting 'gay' and keeping to yourself and then going around campus doing pirouettes like you Big Gay Al from South Park. So which are you referring to? :confused:
 
Wait...so let me understand.

If a gay dude, who dresses...differently...goes to college how should he 'blend in' to not seem gay?

Should a boyish looking chick wear tight shirts and a push up bra instead of a tshirt and loose jeans so she doesn't seem gay? How does that work?


There's a difference between looking and acting 'gay' and keeping to yourself and then going around campus doing pirouettes like you Big Gay Al from South Park. So which are you referring to? :confused:

Everyone wants rights but not everyone wants everyone to have rights. Black men want the right to do as they choose. Dress how they choose, be how they choose. They leaven it to saying, well i just don't want them around me. Whites say the same thing when black people tried to live in white neighborhoods. Join white country clubs. White fraternities. They'd say, no no i don't hate black people. But why do you have to have your blackness around me? Why do you have to throw it in everyone's face?

As long as you're different people are going to hate you for something.
 
Dude also put it out there that if I was ever down with it he was too.

That's fucked up man...I went to college in '93 plus it was an HBCU so back then that shit was not openly accepted so any dude showing out would've gotten laughed @ @ the very least or got his ass grinded up cuz dudes got fucked up for far less on campus back then...but hearing my cuz'ns story I just couldn't help but shake my head cuz it's a sign of the times now I guess...these fools was propositioning dudes in the shower rooms and shit...just real disrespectful shit
 
Fucked up situation. No problem with gay guys but I dont wanna share a room with one.
No not every gay guy wants every straight guy but do you I really wanna find out if he does? Nope.
I look at women all day but dont want any of them, I do look at sexy ones like damn her ass is phat etc. Whats the difference if a guy likes men and hes looking at men ?

But the No smashing in the room shit should be a must. I wouldnt even wanna be there when he brings his homeys over though.

I dont equate Black,white to Gay,straight but I get the points.
 
I didn't say ANYTHING about style of dress...I said "personal life"...don't come @ me w/ your fag hag tactics...lots of dudes nowadays wear tight clothing or girls dress like dudes or w/e and ppl are not sure nor care about they sexuality bcuz they are keeping the details of their personal lives to themselves...if you read the anecdotes of dudes who had gay roommates or ppl who knew dudes who had gay roommates then you read where the obvious violations occur

Wait...so let me understand.

If a gay dude, who dresses...differently...goes to college how should he 'blend in' to not seem gay?

Should a boyish looking chick wear tight shirts and a push up bra instead of a tshirt and loose jeans so she doesn't seem gay? How does that work?


There's a difference between looking and acting 'gay' and keeping to yourself and then going around campus doing pirouettes like you Big Gay Al from South Park. So which are you referring to? :confused:
 
They have rights to................. i hear you Flawless but man i dont hear you. Its just a uncomfortable situation for everybody u cant fuck your girl cuz his gay ass might be under the covers watching! And he better not be FUCKING nothing! i be damn if im in the same room with all that going on. Even if he was on some im bout to have company type shit and they go in the back i dont wanna even want the gay mist on my belongings............

Just to much of a conflict of interest. It should be BOY dorms girl dorms and gay dorms

:lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd be up front and lay some ground rules down. Just simple rules of common courtesy and decency should suffice.
 
grow up.

As long as he keeps the gay shit to his room
i wont have a problem rooming with a gay roommate.

I'd prefer a gay roommate over a dirty one for example

just keep that gay shit private.

Well you better not let me catch you slipping and go to sleep around me home bwoy.
 
Well you certainly handled yourself well. Not many black men would've done this. I've heard stories of guys beating their roomates. Fighting constantly. One even got thrown from a 3rd story balcony.
:D Yea I thought I did too. I was 18 with that young kid mentality still, very open to be friends with anyone, can't do that shit now as I'm getting older.

I still moved out lol only next door though b/c I became real cool with the two guys next door to me and one was leaving school also they had cable.:yes:

Gay dude just started to have the I hate the world mentality, and started to become an asshole so I felt I needed to leave before something did happen. Figured if he had his own room things would be better for him. Homie ended up dropping out of school though.
 
Being gay isn't just a sin ... The bible teaches it is an abomination. really before you talk to me read up first. You think the bible deals with homosexuality like its some casual sin like stealing an apple. Its an ABOMINABLE act

Definition;

a·bom·i·na·tion
   /əˌbɒməˈneɪʃən/ Show Spelled[uh-bom-uh-ney-shuhn] Show IPA
noun
1.
anything abominable; anything greatly disliked or abhorred.
2.
intense aversion or loathing; detestation: He regarded lying with abomination.
3.
a vile, shameful, or detestable action, condition, habit, etc.: Spitting in public is an abomination.

So which version of the Bible are you holding as the true word of God??? Each one has different "translations", dependent on the people who authorized the translation. And from what I've ALWAYS been taught, God makes NO distinction between sins, 1 sin is as equal as any other sin. Sin is sin. But I guess you and God have a different understanding. So it is a worse sin to be gay than it is to do some Madhoff type shit or to be the Zodiac Killer.

And what does the Bible say about your being an active member of a porn board? What does it say about forgiveness and acceptance? :hmm:
 
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