Mz, I never wrote nor implied any of that. A general statement like your original one simply says more about you than about them. Maybe the guys you meet in passing and in the clubs are from the same socio-economic background. Of course they're gonna have the same issues...for better or worse.
How Old Were You When You Moved Out of Your Parents House?
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MzKitty, it seems like every man in NYC lives with moms or grandma. It's especially disheartening when you tell them you live away from home b/c they automatically think "good, she has a place for me to crash." Wrong!
co-sign like a motha fucka
It's worse when you older and the dude is like 35/36 its real awkward when he learns you have your own spot then he divulges that he still home (then tries to justify why).... actually thats down right embarrassing. Then they think they can lay up at your shit burning electricity, eatting up your food... thinking they gonna get home cooked meals and shit lmaooooo
my whole thing is I am in the mindset like my parents aint gonna be around for ever. I wanna learn how to stand on my own 2 feet while their around. I know a couple of people where their parents passed and they didn't know what the fuck to do.
This girl I used to work with matter of fact... she was 40 living with her mom. One day her mom passed away in her sleep. She went into shock... didnt know what to do. I had to have my mom give her a call to give her tips on how to get her affairs in order because she didn't have any close relatives.
Hell even my youngest uncle who was 46 when my grandmother died. He still lived at home... and when my aunts and uncles went to sell the house he had to be dragged out screaming and kicking lollll
not a good look.I blame the parents. Folks need to produce better fruit.
Nope the only common denominator they share is the state of New York. Thats not to say that you only find those type of dudes here.... Its just I find them here more so then anywhere else.
I moved out at 20 but moved back when a fire destroyed my home. Been home a few months. Lookin for a new spot.
by the way, maybe we shouldn't be so hard on the men in NYC it is crazy expensive and hard to find an apartment in NYC! If its not a piece of shit then it costs an arm and a leg.
But I guess if he's like 30, theres not too much of an excuse but give em a break.
by the way, maybe we shouldn't be so hard on the men in NYC it is crazy expensive and hard to find an apartment in NYC! If its not a piece of shit then it costs an arm and a leg.
But I guess if he's like 30, theres not too much of an excuse but give em a break.
TESTIFY MY BROTHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That, my sistah, is the absolute TRUTH!!! If you are living without a roomate in NYC, you are broke. I was living alone for some time, but I quit my job in Dec. to start my own venture. Moved out of my Harlem apt. now I split my time between Hoboken (living practically free with a cousin) and Brooklyn (paying for the utilities). Thinking about moving to either the Bronx or staying in Brooklyn permanently, where the rents are a bit lower.
Bronx prices arent so cheap either. My last apt i paid 975 in the bronx. 850-100 is avg for a one bdr. Try for a rent stabilized place. Lots in the south bronx and on the concourse. And them damn realtors are off the chain.
Dog fuck that nigga he's been caught admitting he takes it up the ass, he got no right to second guess how you refer to yo' momma.
As for me--been on my own ever since I left for college at 18. I might have spent one summer (after freshman year) back home, splitting time living with moms and grandma.
Dog fuck that nigga he's been caught admitting he takes it up the ass, he got no right to second guess how you refer to yo' momma.
As for me--been on my own ever since I left for college at 18. I might have spent one summer (after freshman year) back home, splitting time living with moms and grandma.
I left home at 17 to attend college in the Bay Area, and I haven't been back. Im currently 25.
Dog fuck that nigga he's been caught admitting he takes it up the ass, he got no right to second guess how you refer to yo' momma.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Ol' Rectal Rooter ass nigga!! LOL....glad you see eye to eye with me DM.
I moved out after college, and haven't been back since (21). I'm currently in NC, where I live by myself, although I have a sister here in the same city. At the age of 25, I like learning what my budget looks like each month and what I can put aside for fun things versus bills, etc. It helps me out, so that, when I enter a more stable relationship with someone, I'll know what I'm bringing to the table each month...
LIVING DOWN SOUTH AND LIVING IN NYC IS NOT THE SAME 
LMAO....ARE YOU SERIOUS...1BEDROOM IN NYC 800-1100...DOWN SOUTH 400-600.... SHIT YOU CAN GET A 2BEDROOM IN NEWPORT NEWS VIRGINIA FOR 600-800
LMAO....ARE YOU SERIOUS...1BEDROOM IN NYC 800-1100...DOWN SOUTH 400-600.... SHIT YOU CAN GET A 2BEDROOM IN NEWPORT NEWS VIRGINIA FOR 600-800i still live with my mama at 54 and don't plan on moving no fuckin where .. the rent is right i have and save money and fuck woman in hotels .. plus my bank account looks nice for once ,,so there go fuck yourself if u got a better deal. i presently have 3 children pay child support left the mortgage payment to the wife since she wanna run shit ...well here is her chance
i still live with my mama at 54 and don't plan on moving no fuckin where .. the rent is right i have and save money and fuck woman in hotels .. plus my bank account looks nice for once ,,so there go fuck yourself if u got a better deal. i presently have 3 children pay child support left the mortgage payment to the wife since she wanna run shit ...well here is her chance
i still live with my mama at 54 and don't plan on moving no fuckin where .. the rent is right i have and save money and fuck woman in hotels .. plus my bank account looks nice for once ,,so there go fuck yourself if u got a better deal. i presently have 3 children pay child support left the mortgage payment to the wife since she wanna run shit ...well here is her chance
54?
At home?
Fuckin?
Someone married you?
Wow
LIVING DOWN SOUTH AND LIVING IN NYC IS NOT THE SAME
I don't think people get that.
I Was About 20 And It Was My Choice!!! There Was Too Many People In That House So I Had To Bounce... Ya Dig!!!
I hate to say...but I was thinkin the same thing...to get their inner ho released...at their pleasure....I know waay too many females that still stay at home.....they're coddled by there families and feel no need to leave...
LIVING DOWN SOUTH AND LIVING IN NYC IS NOT THE SAME
NYC my ass...try the whole Tri-state area....used to be the closer that you lived to the city...and the nicer the area...not no more..I got a six family in Irvington, N.J... in a ruff area too....and can get $800 easy for a 1 bedroom...and I'm gettin $1100 for a 3 bedroom, with the tenants paying all their own utilities...
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I hate to say...but I was thinkin the same thing...to get their inner ho released...at their pleasure....I know waay too many females that still stay at home.....they're coddled by there families and feel no need to leave...
Damn is it like that lb? I've never heard the inner ho theory but I can agree that there are some women that live under their parents forever and it doesnt carry the same stigma as a man living at home with parents.
I left when I was 17 to go to school and not moved back since for more than a summer break. I LOVE living independently. It was the dream of my life as a teenager and I still love it. I'd only move back home if there was a dire financial situation or my mom needed help.
I don't mean to classify all of them as having an "inner ho"....but you kind of get what I mean....some of them just got that inner freak just trying to claw outta them like the thing in Alien....
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...and for men it is different...men are looked at to be the provider and to be able to take care of the women/family financially,....historically.......and historically women were looked to be there to be taken by the right/able man....I don't mean to classify all of them as having an "inner ho"....but you kind of get what I mean....some of them just got that inner freak just trying to claw outta them like the thing in Alien....
There goes that theory of people moving out to gain independence.
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