I was 21. My oldest son just turned 17 this past week May 5th. I am now 38.
How old were you when you became a father?
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I was 21. My oldest son just turned 17 this past week May 5th. I am now 38.
I was 22
The reason why I asked is I possibly see myself in my late 30's having a child and I usually don't date females that much younger than me. I'm wondering if my wife is around the age of 38 will she have problems bearing a child. That's why I was curious to how old your wife is.
Josh Smith my idol????
Even if Josh was my idol I won't be naming my son JOSH. What's your child's name again? I thought so you dick rider. If I have a son I don't plan on giving him a title of jr. But I know one thing, I sure as hell won't give my child the name of a rapper I idolize Seriously dude? You LOVE Cam'ron that much where you named your SON after him? The more and more you talk on this board the more pathetic you seem. Thank gawd you weren't a fan of OL DIRTY BASTARD or Soldier Boy. That kid of yours would have really caught hell.
I was 28 and I still wasn't ready.............it changed my life completely.
I love my kids, but damn do I miss the "live today as if tomorrow wasn't coming" days..........
I love my kids, but damn do I miss the "live today as if tomorrow wasn't coming" days..........
Did you feel you were late in the game of raising children? I mean if you could do it all over again would you chose to have at 37 and 41 or you would opt for a younger time of your life? The reason I am asking is because I hope to have two children I just dont know how late that will be. the wife says we have to raise the first one first before discussing a second one
I had my daughter at 23, it rocked my world! Just a year later, I'm a very different man!
Father?!?! Ha!!! 25 years old, no kids & plan on keepin' it that way. I'm rare species/last of a dyin' breed. 
Whats wrong with this statement?
im not clowing
serious question
how is your kids life set and u work at a resturaunt and foot locker?
Not for nothin' but I've never seen him call himself a "thug".
@ niggas basing how folks are on a message board on how they raise their lil' ones.
That Nigga been on my dick for 5 years strong.
He starting to act like heist.
Also a to da k I manage. And like I say my son cam is set.
He starting to act like heist.
Also a to da k I manage. And like I say my son cam is set.
Excellent advice...I had my first @17...was sitting in George Perles' office about to commit when my mom called the AD and told me. I enlisted in the 'Corps and shipped out after graduation. I was OMW home from the Philipines when my daughter made her debut. 5 yrs later I was trying to get home from Perth when my son was born (I wasn't quite 22 yet) and my 8 yr old lil ninja in training? She was the first one I was home from beginning to end, late night cravings, my ankles are swollen...you dont love me..LOL. I can honestly say that she was the only one planned and prepared for. Above all else, never ever let mama forget she is still on the map. Your kid will need to see mama giving and receiving genuine affection. For all of my brothers here reading, I say thank you for taking an active part in this special fraternity.
Thank you for your insght, my wife told me things will be difference once the little one is there but I told her nothing will change. I guess i am lieing to myself if i go about what everyone here is saying
Congrags Bruh! Me... Thirties when we had our son and our girl two years later and we are done! Soon our girl will so to school and we will travel more, complete the home we are building in West Africa and some day get rid of everything we have here like cars, pets and shit like that so we can move around.
The moment she came in that room shaking holding that pregnancy test. I was 20, 21 when she was born, to early to have a child, but not to early to be a man and raise her... 14 years later she is still my best little buddy.
Enjoy fatherhood man, you did do it the right way. Bless...
Enjoy fatherhood man, you did do it the right way. Bless...
Maybe the mother is rich......Maybe shaddy got inheritance coming.....Maybe shaddy in college and is expecting to make it big when he graduates.
my daughters mom is set when her grams dies
have you ever heard this old song by Johnny Taylor its called
its cheaper to keep her
trust me its true
I stayed 20 years to help raise my only daughter. I thought I would get better but it only got worse and its 20 years before you know it
my situation its like havering a booger on your finger.
your trying to get off your finger and no matter how much you try to shake it off, its still stuck there
Not for nothin' but I've never seen him call himself a "thug".
The muthafucka's name is ShadyvilleThug so what the hell you talking about mannn?? I know I dropped out of college, but I can read. Most humanbeings don't call themselves something they aren't or don't desire to be. A lot of these cats on here see that negro is as ignorant. He is one of the laughing stock of this board.
most would say "its cause he's 22"
at 22 i was still in the Marines. but whatever24, my son is 4 going on 5 now and he is my right hand man
i'd like to have a son, oh well.
I had to my first successfully child at 30(Daughter) Now she is 3 months old and Im loving it. Im glad I waited til 30 though. Through out all my years Ive watched mothers and father neglect their children(including both my parents neglecting me)and I couldn't do that to a child so I waited until I felt I was responsible enough to have a kid.
20 y.o.
So one mistake and one timed when you were old and more mature aye?
i was 25
Did you feel you were late in the game of raising children? I mean if you could do it all over again would you chose to have at 37 and 41 or you would opt for a younger time of your life? The reason I am asking is because I hope to have two children I just dont know how late that will be. the wife says we have to raise the first one first before discussing a second one
We a lot of my choices were based on my life at the moment.
My wife and I waited until she finished med school before we got married. It's hard to deal with the stress of a family while trying to finish.
Second, back in my early 30s I wouldn't of been mature enough to be a good father.
In a perfect world I would say 31 - 34 is a good age to have kids.
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