How much can you upgrade a hoodrat?

you don't make people compatible to you.....you find somebody that is compatible to you.


:smh::smh::smh:

Obviously, but the point of the thread was could you or should you.

I believe it is (im)possible but far from practical. Why fix a broken doll when you can get a new one made for you.



*two cents*
 
Obviously, but the point of the thread was could you or should you.

I believe it is (im)possible but far from practical. Why fix a broken doll when you can get a new one made for you.



*two cents*

yeah well the thread is stupid....

what makes a mofokr think they can make a mofokr change ? Thats some pompous shit.

a person is who they are...

and what would make a cat think what they are is the most desireable ?


if you don't like hoodrats why are you where they are ?
 
My boy tried to upgrade his hoodrat when he got her pregnant. He moved her in and tried to make her a housewife. She raised hell everyday because she felt like he was keeping her from the streets. She ended up leaving him for some thug.

Typical and dudes still fall for the okie doke. Either you keeping em from the street or you keeping em from a lifestyle they've grown accustomed to before you. Imminent failure...

That's why it's ok to ask questions. It don't make you necessarily insecure... although they will try to use that tactic to deflect.

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the ultimate rat upgrade...



im not gonna name no names/places/details but there's a superhoodrat that i know that holds a cushy management position at a fortune 500 company and it is crazy to see but i cant be mad. chick was straight up a neighborhood hoe at like 12-13 yrs old, known for the mouthwork before entering highschool :smh: fighting grown ass women and got jumped on more than one occasion when dudes got caught cheating. always had heart tho and her skinny ass always could scrap cuz her brother and cousins used to beat her ass. they were all bad as hell as kids.

anyway her fast ass was hanging out in the streets fuckin w/ dope dealers and shit and started dealing with a pro ballplayer she fucked at a party at bout 14-15. got prego. when moms found out, her and her mom blackmailed the dude and she got enough cash out the deal to get a good college degree and moved moms and her lil bro into a nicer hood. in return she promised to get an abortion. she lied, kept the baby and continued to black mail dude:smh:. ruthless. went away to school while the mom kept the kid. that worked out for a while and then she cut a chick at a party, got kicked outta school and finished her degree at home but she was still putting the bigname school on her resume. i dont think she caught a charge behind the fight. could be wrong.

anyway outta school, she got a job as a temp, started fucking the boss. he got her hired fulltime. a yr later started fucking a director in another department. switched departments at his request a few months later. dude helped to put her on the fast track. fast fwd few yrs.... dude left his wife and married this crazy chick. they been on the come up together ever since. now she's making about $180k or so, hubby makes more than her living in the south chillin. one of the biggest houses i been in i think. they have no kids other than her one son who was just shy of 6 ft tall wearing a 12 shoe last time i saw him and he wasnt in high school yet or maybe was a freshman. i think she did catch a charge fighting at a club some years ago but i think they just made her do anger management.

funny thing is from teenage years up until she got married she somehow also always had these simp straightlaced boyfriends while running around doing all this fuckery. they either dealt with it or didnt know how she was moving in the street. i cant tell if her husbands pimphand is strong and she finally met her match... or if he's just the biggest sucker in a long line of simps in her life.

she had a few things the avg hoodrat doesnt have tho. pretty green eyes, phat ass, cute smile, (alleged) hurricane mouth and she is actually kinda smart... killer combo.

she's my dudes older sister and when round fam has no problems tellin her whole story just like that. guess it doesnt matter at this point. she said she said she wants to become a pa$tor now. im pretty sure if bgol is around for another 10 years ill be pulling this thread up like... see remember when i was told yall bout this chick.
 
the ultimate rat upgrade...



im not gonna name no names/places/details but there's a superhoodrat that i know that holds a cushy management position at a fortune 500 company and it is crazy to see but i cant be mad. chick was straight up a neighborhood hoe at like 12-13 yrs old, known for the mouthwork before entering highschool :smh: fighting grown ass women and got jumped on more than one occasion when dudes got caught cheating. always had heart tho and her skinny ass always could scrap cuz her brother and cousins used to beat her ass. they were all bad as hell as kids.

anyway her fast ass was hanging out in the streets fuckin w/ dope dealers and shit and started dealing with a pro ballplayer she fucked at a party at bout 14-15. got prego. when moms found out, her and her mom blackmailed the dude and she got enough cash out the deal to get a good college degree and moved moms and her lil bro into a nicer hood. in return she promised to get an abortion. she lied, kept the baby and continued to black mail dude:smh:. ruthless. went away to school while the mom kept the kid. that worked out for a while and then she cut a chick at a party, got kicked outta school and finished her degree at home but she was still putting the bigname school on her resume. i dont think she caught a charge behind the fight. could be wrong.

anyway outta school, she got a job as a temp, started fucking the boss. he got her hired fulltime. a yr later started fucking a director in another department. switched departments at his request a few months later. dude helped to put her on the fast track. fast fwd few yrs.... dude left his wife and married this crazy chick. they been on the come up together ever since. now she's making about $180k or so, hubby makes more than her living in the south chillin. one of the biggest houses i been in i think. they have no kids other than her one son who was just shy of 6 ft tall wearing a 12 shoe last time i saw him and he wasnt in high school yet or maybe was a freshman. i think she did catch a charge fighting at a club some years ago but i think they just made her do anger management.

funny thing is from teenage years up until she got married she somehow also always had these simp straightlaced boyfriends while running around doing all this fuckery. they either dealt with it or didnt know how she was moving in the street. i cant tell if her husbands pimphand is strong and she finally met her match... or if he's just the biggest sucker in a long line of simps in her life.

she had a few things the avg hoodrat doesnt have tho. pretty green eyes, phat ass, cute smile, (alleged) hurricane mouth and she is actually kinda smart... killer combo.

she's my dudes older sister and when round fam has no problems tellin her whole story just like that. guess it doesnt matter at this point. she said she said she wants to become a pa$tor now. im pretty sure if bgol is around for another 10 years ill be pulling this thread up like... see remember when i was told yall bout this chick.

Know what? We rip chicks like this, but sugar had a plan and a pussy, and she worked both. I can't be mad. Call me what you will, but I ain't mad at sugar.
 
Know what? We rip chicks like this, but sugar had a plan and a pussy, and she worked both. I can't be mad. Call me what you will, but I ain't mad at sugar.


u aint lying. definition of use what u got to get what u want.

fam their mom is one of the scariest women u ever met and the apple never falls far. she is so charming and cool. always the life of the party. i almost forget shes a damn sociopath and ive known her damn near my whole life... thats the scary part.
 
u aint lying. definition of use what u got to get what u want.

She's not a hoodrat just a smart hoe. She's smart enough to get the degree. You can't fake that no matter who's paying. She could have got financial aid and did the same shit. I think her peeps just want to down play her success. She got a good head on her shoulders in more ways than one.
 
From my experience, a hoodrat can be upgraded. It depends on how open her mind is. I mean all hoodrats are basic, because they werent exposed to anything outside of the hood, but some of them have the willingness to be upgraded.

I know some people dont believe in the term upgrade, but I do. Some chicks have this innate quality about them called "curiosity".

It allows them to be raised to a higher standard when exposed to something better. Im not gonna front like it works everytime, but it does, depending on the person.

Ultimately all women are looking for a man that can provide a better lifestyle than their current, so if they get it through you, just remember you set the standards, so they would have to fall in line......Either that or go back to fucking wit basic niggas that cant take shit to the next level


Know what? We rip chicks like this, but sugar had a plan and a pussy, and she worked both. I can't be mad. Call me what you will, but I ain't mad at sugar.

Absolutely, she hustled hard

Another thing is she knew how to play the game. Im sure she knew how to conduct herself in that corporate environment to get what she wanted from who she wanted it from, on some chameleon shit.

The average rat cant do that. The Average rat cant repress those rat tendencies and thats why they cant get ahead when given the opportunity to do so.
 
Hoodrats are hoodrats because they don't want to be upgraded. If she's an active hoodrat there is no upgrading her
 
She's not a hoodrat just a smart hoe. She's smart enough to get the degree. You can't fake that no matter who's paying. She could have got financial aid and did the same shit. I think her peeps just want to down play her success. She got a good head on her shoulders in more ways than one.

hmm depends on how u define hoodrat i guess.
she was smart but she was a rat. same w/ her mom.

and there's plenty of hoodrats getting degrees. go to saint aug homecoming in nc. no disrespect to any alum, just sayin...
 
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We are going to have to define "hoodrat" and "upgrade" and also describe what "rachet behaviour" typical hoodrats do.
 
One word..


Yoga


Practicing yoga / meditation can "upgrade" anybody.
 
Push her in the right direction. If she does not respond to your direction, have fun and break out.
 
Dumb question, I know a girl with 5 baby daddies and 7 kids and she just got her MBA.

She moved to Vegas years ago to better her life, she's 39.

As long as they want it. If they don't want to do anything and won't take direction then leave them alone.

My home it 40 and he bounces from couch to couch staying with people, no car, nothing g but on Facebook he bigs hisself up as a business man.

Ses the different in personality and ambition?
 
Dumb question, I know a girl with 5 baby daddies and 7 kids and she just got her MBA.

She moved to Vegas years ago to better her life, she's 39.

As long as they want it. If they don't want to do anything and won't take direction then leave them alone.

My home it 40 and he bounces from couch to couch staying with people, no car, nothing g but on Facebook he bigs hisself up as a business man.

Ses the different in personality and ambition?
 
Dumb question, I know a girl with 5 baby daddies and 7 kids and she just got her MBA.

She moved to Vegas years ago to better her life, she's 39.

As long as they want it. If they don't want to do anything and won't take direction then leave them alone.

My home it 40 and he bounces from couch to couch staying with people, no car, nothing g but on Facebook he bigs hisself up as a business man.

Ses the different in personality and ambition?

:smh: :lol: :rolleyes: Ya'll some PRIZES boy. I tell you WHAT! lol just PRIZES. Can't believe these women ain't snatched ya'll up! WHEW!
 
Let's look at from hardware and software point of view.

Body-All hardware deems excellent and fully operational. Checked

Mind(brain)-need upgrade to latest bios, and operating system. Checked


Reboot(quallity test)-System seems to be fully functional

Observation-system seems to stall or crashes unexpectedly,drivers seems to one issues

Conclusion-not supported by manufacturer.

Tech recommedation: Too expensive to maintain and deem worthless to fix. Best to get a system that is fully functional without the need break-it-fix-it position.
 
Hoodrats are hoodrats because they don't want to be upgraded. If she's an active hoodrat there is no upgrading her

Best response yet, pretty hard for a girl not to do better they have more options plus they have the ability to lead and get shit from dudes pretty easily.

Girl I knew from college has 7 kids, 6 baby daddies got her MBA and started teaching out in Vegas, makes a cozy living and is doing pretty good for herself. It got so bad for her at one point I went to see her and all them damn kids, plus her angry ass was beating they ass all day. She turned it around.

Brothers don't get that same chance, I don't feel sorry for poor hoodrat chicks this country caters to them they don't take advantage of what is around them yet.
 
Best response yet, pretty hard for a girl not to do better they have more options plus they have the ability to lead and get shit from dudes pretty easily.

Girl I knew from college has 7 kids, 6 baby daddies got her MBA and started teaching out in Vegas, makes a cozy living and is doing pretty good for herself. It got so bad for her at one point I went to see her and all them damn kids, plus her angry ass was beating they ass all day. She turned it around.

Brothers don't get that same chance, I don't feel sorry for poor hoodrat chicks this country caters to them they don't take advantage of what is around them yet.

there's nothing cozy about raising 7 kids alone + paying back loans on a teachers salary.
 
there's nothing cozy about raising 7 kids alone + paying back loans on a teachers salary.

You don't know what her man does, she lived pretty well and she's making pretty good money bro.

Bottom line is she changed her situation for the better.

Bgol accountants need to live and let live.

She could have easily lived off the state and be a bum chick.
 
What about the hood chick who really doesn't want to be hood but hasn't had a choice due to having a kid and being stuck? I've had a couple who changed damned near overnight. I mean cut off their friends and quit hanging around their family because they knew them hoes would throw me the pussy. Every hood chick ain't that way by choice.

Still didn't keep them, though.:hmm:
 
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What about the hood chick who really doesn't want to be hood but hasn't had a choice due to having a kid and being stuck? I've had a couple who changed damned near overnight. I mean cut off their friends and quit hanging around their family because they knew them hoes would throw me the pussy. Every hood chick ain't that way by choice.

Still didn't keep them, though.:hmm:

Yes alot of times it's just opportunity. Some people do want better just don't know how to be.
 
Eh, if you wanna train something, get a dog. I still don't get the notion of wanting to "train" a free thinking adult.
 
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What about the hood chick who really doesn't want to be hood but hasn't had a choice due to having a kid and being stuck? I've had a couple who changed damned near overnight. I mean cut off their friends and quit hanging around their family because they knew them hoes would throw me the pussy. Every hood chick ain't that way by choice.

Still didn't keep them, though.:hmm:
I don't call them types hood rats.They just chicks who happen to be born in tha hood.Their easy to identify because they lack all tha hood rat traits.And all hood rats aren't stupid its just their other characteristics stick out more so you end up focusing in on them instead.
 
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