I depends on whether I just want to fuck her or if my interest in her runs deeper. If I'm just in it for a hit and run, then if I fail to hit it the first night--which will be a late night visit and not a date--then I'm done. If I'm really interested in the women in question on multiple levels, then I'll just let nature runs its course... but she has to be giving me unequivocal signals that she is eventually wants to wrestle with this monkey I've got for her. I'm not the type to chase after a sista.