How Honest Are You To Your SO?

[Crown&Coke]

I have had many women mad at me after asking me shit like:
Have I gained some weight?
Do you look at other women when your at the club?
Would you leave me for _____________(<-----insert celebrity name here)?


I am a strong believer in being honest, but what gets me is that I almost always get this response: "You are not supposed to say that?" like they expect me to lie to them to make them feel better. I usually tell the truth or say "Why are you askin me that" if I dont feel like hearing anything.​

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[PrincessC]

Women ask questions they already know the answer to.

That being said, I believe that there is always a way to tactfully answer the question, yet not hurt her feelings.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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[Crown&Coke]

Women ask questions they already know the answer to.

That being said, I believe that there is always a way to tactfully answer the question, yet not hurt her feelings.

I always try to answer without sounding mean but most of the time it doesnt matter becuz once somebody has something set in their mind, it doesnt matter how you put it they will percieve it the way they want to.​

 

[jucurious]

I am very honest w/ my SO when I have one. i value honest and candid friendships in my relationships

At first I try the whole "when tryna make a point, dip the tip in honey" stuff one of the guys suggested on the main board but if its an issue in which i find myself repeating myself...i get a lil blunt but not in a malicious way.

in the past i have asked questions i wasn't quite prepared for the answer..so i don't do that any more...if i'm curious enough to ask then im prepared for the answer (that don't mean it wont sting but ehh truth hurts sometimes)


i don't see the benefit in lying. i respect honesty

 

[Crown&Coke]

I am very honest w/ my SO when I have one. i value honest and candid friendships in my relationships

At first I try the whole "when tryna make a point, dip the tip in honey" stuff one of the guys suggested on the main board but if its an issue in which i find myself repeating myself...i get a lil blunt but not in a malicious way.

in the past i have asked questions i wasn't quite prepared for the answer..so i don't do that any more...if i'm curious enough to ask then im prepared for the answer (that don't mean it wont sting but ehh truth hurts sometimes)


i don't see the benefit in lying. i respect honesty

I try to be nice about it at first too. I once had one that kept asking me about gaining weight and I tried to be nice about it, even talked to her about working out and she didnt do anything about it. It was only like 5 pounds but she acted like it was 50. After a while I was just like "If you not gonna workout or eat better then quit complaining" I was told I was being mean but oh well.​

 

[sean69]

Have I gained some weight?

Answer: Yes

Do you look at other women when your at the club?

Answer: Yep.

Would you leave me for Kerry Washington(<-----insert celebrity name here)?

Answer: And you are?

 

[Crown&Coke]

Have I gained some weight?

Answer: Yes

Do you look at other women when your at the club?

Answer: Yep.

Would you leave me for Kerry Washington(<-----insert celebrity name here)?

Answer: And you are?

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