I swear, this whole soap opera has gotten so complicated that only a woman could figure it out.
My ex and I were married for 6 years and have two kids together. We broke up about 3 years ago. Shortly after we broke up she started seeing a close friend of mine. I cut him off immediately and have hardly spoke to him since.
My ex wife and I however have remained on friendly terms. We have very separate lives, but we've always come together on important issues, especially when the kids are involved. Occasionally we even have a friendly chat on the phone to see how the other is doing. It was during one of those chats that she mentioned her boyfriend is paranoid that she's been having an affair with me. This is completely untrue. Never happened. I'm not quite sure where he gets this idea from.
This issue has strained their relationship near the breaking point. Now normally I wouldn't care, except that my children love this dude like a father and I would hate for them to lose someone that important to them over something that isn't even true. I'm thinking it might be time to have a chat with him, but I'm not sure what to say. Does anyone have an idea or insight?
My ex and I were married for 6 years and have two kids together. We broke up about 3 years ago. Shortly after we broke up she started seeing a close friend of mine. I cut him off immediately and have hardly spoke to him since.
My ex wife and I however have remained on friendly terms. We have very separate lives, but we've always come together on important issues, especially when the kids are involved. Occasionally we even have a friendly chat on the phone to see how the other is doing. It was during one of those chats that she mentioned her boyfriend is paranoid that she's been having an affair with me. This is completely untrue. Never happened. I'm not quite sure where he gets this idea from.
This issue has strained their relationship near the breaking point. Now normally I wouldn't care, except that my children love this dude like a father and I would hate for them to lose someone that important to them over something that isn't even true. I'm thinking it might be time to have a chat with him, but I'm not sure what to say. Does anyone have an idea or insight?