How do I getr her back?!!

[NativeSon]

We just reconciled everything last night. She's back y'all. I'm the happiest man alive.

now this can either go 1 of two ways.

you can have game about it and show her that you have options and didn't have to go back to her but chose to

or you can do the opposite and be a simp and she'll most likely play you again.


but i wish you the best fam

 

[SuchATease]

now this can either go 1 of two ways.

you can have game about it and show her that you have options and didn't have to go back to her but chose to

or you can do the opposite and be a simp and she'll most likely play you again.


but i wish you the best fam

I don't want to sound like a hater but the poster is 30 and the lady is 18? ummm I know some folks live by the age isn't a number thing but come on dawg your 30! She can't even buy you a drink, get into most nightlife spots and I'm sure it's a few more other things...

But to each it's own I guess...

 

[hottmixx]

She's playing you man. She knows that she's got you wrapped around her little finger and she's using that fact to the extreme. The only way to get a woman like that is to show her that you don't need her and ain't studin her(excuse my ebonics but I don't see any other way to put it) and even then you will never truly have her heart because she would be infatuated with that particular persona and not the real you. My best advise would be to get over her and move on, no matter how hard that may be cuz in the long run it would be more beneficial to you.

 

[hottmixx]

Im sorry to tell you this,but the fact that she knows you want her that much allows her to manipulate and play with your emotions. You are going to have to get over her and find someone else, if she wasn't there with you at the beginning then you should have known it wasn't meant to be. I know its going to be hard to move on,but you need to in order to save your sanity and happiness. One more thing, you never "need" anyone to the point where it makes you miserable.

co-sign

 

[NativeSon]

this is what i was talking about.

i've been ignoring my ex cuz she was playing games with me when i wanted to get back with her.

even though she chose to get with another dude instead of me.....look at what she wrote me @ 8 o'clock this morning.

"So ;Is This Wat Its Come Too.?!You Not Talking To Me AnyMore.?!But You Can Add My Home Gurl On Myspace.?!Foreal.?! ;I Dont Even Get Why Your Madd At Me.You Wouldnt Even Tell Me The Last Time ;Why You Was Madd.Im Not On These childish Games Your Trying To Play With Me. Get At Me When You Feel Grown Up....And Able To Talk.!"

 

[mariano42]

mods should lock this thread. I can't believe it's still going.

 

[P.L.]

Let her go, get your shit together, keep in distant contact, she might come running back, but there is nothing you can do, the more you pursue her the more she knows that you're not going anywhere. So if she really wants to test the waters you are still following, but if you move on she might start to chase you.(maybe)

 

[BenQ]

 

[brewdawg1]

She's playing you man. She knows that she's got you wrapped around her little finger and she's using that fact to the extreme. The only way to get a woman like that is to show her that you don't need her and ain't studin her(excuse my ebonics but I don't see any other way to put it) and even then you will never truly have her heart because she would be infatuated with that particular persona and not the real you. My best advise would be to get over her and move on, no matter how hard that may be cuz in the long run it would be more beneficial to you.

co-sign
You need to man up!!!! You are too old for these games. She 18, too young to be in a serious relationship with you. You are being played, and if she really came back, she gonna leave you again for the next dick, nicer car, or more money. Get your swag up, and find a more mature, appreciative woman. Do for self first!!!!

 

[TBone]

She's back because she knows you're a wimp she can manipulate and cheat on. A real brother would have told that bitch see you would'nt want to be you. The thing you pussy whipped mufuckas got to understand, is that this is a man's world. Time is on your side. As soon as she realized that all the strets were good for , is lies and fantasy, then you would have had the other hand. But a woman does'nt respect a man , that she can control from in between her legs. That one my brother , will come back to haunt you.

 

[jucurious]

hmmmm interesting

ppl who need to be saved saving ppl who in turn save them


interesting

 

[Marylandboatman]

If she was my daughter I would kick ur ass. Maybe she saving you an ass kicking, walk away fool.

 

[Marylandboatman]

If she was my daughter I would kick ur ass. Maybe she saving you an ass kicking, walk away fool. Let the little girl live her life. She will alway say she got with you much too young before she had other men in her life. She will always wonder about how other men are wise up.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Why does everyone automatically assume it's all about the pussy? Pussy is easy to get if you position yourself right. It takes a lot more than just a willing attitude and a wet hole to win my long term affection.

Also, when does offering assistance to a partner equal saving? It's not like I was paying her bills or something. I got her a contract because a store owner I know needed some work done. I got her in the school newspaper because the editor was looking for an artist. This is the kind of shit you're supposed to do for people you care about. She's done plenty for me in return.

Yes, she's helped me elevate my status. Yes, she's addressed flaws in my ways, but ladies. You were all 18 once. Did you ever think that the 30 year old men in your lives were perfect? (I'm not just talking about boyfriends here). Did you ever give them suggestions on how to improve and step things up?

Finally, although our recent troubles have convinced me that age is not just a number, we've both decided that we're willing to deal with the challenges this gap presents. It's like dating someone of another race in that there's certain issues that don't arise when you're with someone who's more like you. dating someone who's more like you. Sometimes these things are worth dealing with. Sometimes they aren't. In her case they are well more than worth it.