How can a man get his woman to lose weight?

[DarkOne]

lol yeah right, tell her that when she's horny and you'll probably never see her again.....

No Bro, she wont be going nowhere. If she really loves you and wants to be with you , she will lose the weight, because she knows that you don't find her attractive anymore. Dont let them go alone to the Gym , because they will easily get bored , lose motivation and give up.Join the gym with them to show your support, that way even though the sex will be temporarily banned, they will still feel wanted(loved).
As soon as the pounds start dropping , fuck her like there was no tomorrow.

 

[Adam Knows]

No Bro, she wont be going nowhere. If she really loves you and wants to be with you , she will lose the weight, because she knows that you don't find her attractive anymore.

i dunno..

seems to me if you shatter a woman's perception of her being sexy while she feels sexy and is expecting you to respond in kind to that would be a disaster waiting to happen.

maybe the more appropriate solution is to nip it in the bud at the very beginning, not waiting til after she gains the weight. if your the type of person that exercises regularly, then invite her to join you while she's still at a size you deem attractive. prevention is the best cure after all......

 

[DarkOne]

i dunno..

seems to me if you shatter a woman's perception of her being sexy while she feels sexy and is expecting you to respond in kind to that would be a disaster waiting to happen.

maybe the more appropriate solution is to nip it in the bud at the very beginning, not waiting til after she gains the weight. if your the type of person that exercises regularly, then invite her to join you while she's still at a size you deem attractive. prevention is the best cure after all......

I hear you , prevention is great, but the thread starter wants to know what to do when the woman has ALREADY put a lot of weight on , what i suggested is something i would do , Which might not work for everybody , but still worth a try ..lol

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Hold it down like this

If that don't work do her like this

Say what you want about the king. His woman never got fat

 

[DAHITMAN]

Easy join a gym with her.

Or have a fuckathon with her and work her ass out.

 

[UnoBetter2]

Easy join a gym with her.

Or have a fuckathon with her and work her ass out.

That's what I do, fukathon, make her think imabouta kill her!!

 

[Rudey]

Sexercise more often.

 

[Muzikal]

i dont think a man can GET his woman to do anything especially lose weight if she's not motivated in doing so. pushing her into losing weight may seem to convince her that you're not appealed to her looks and you're drastically tryna change the way she looks cause you're not happy. however, these niggas talkin bout they str8 up tell they chick they fat is a muthafuckin lie. u never pick at a female's weight. get ya fuckin teeth knocked into ya lap B.

 

[Adam Knows]

i'm just curious because of this thread..

what do you consider an acceptable size?

if i was going by clothing size, no smaller then a size five no larger then a size nine at a height range of 5'3 to 5'5(not restricting height but to give an ideal size to height factor)

visual example, size 7 at 5'3

 

[KillaBee]

say lets go to the steam room/sauna or swim at the gym, then after that just walk out and start a easy workout.

 

[totalmoney]

Tie a drum stick on a stick to her head...ON a real note you need to work with her ...and don't criticize her because she will give up...It takes time and you gotta understand that too...My 2 cents

 

[Alumni]

Player, there isn't a person alive that answer this question. IMO, there is no safe way that you can tell a woman she needs to lose weight... you can try, but you're going to pay dearly for it as soon as the words come out of your pie hole.

No matter what you do or how you say it, you'll always be a bastard for, "not loving her unconditionally". I met my ex when she was a size 8, she went to a size 12 (14 in some stuff) in 2 years. I did everything that the ladies "say" they respond to. Tried to motivate her and be positive. NOTHING! I bought her memberships to the gym and went with her. NOTHING! I paid for a trainer for her because she said that I was to hard on her in the gym (I've been an athlete all my life and I only know how to go hard when I'm in the gym). NOTHING! Finally I told her that we were going to have to part ways because her weight gain was a deal breaker for me. She had the nerve to tell me that I didn't support her ass and that it was my fault that she gained weight. Moral of the story... it's always the guy's fault... ALWAYS!!

 

[doublejizzle]

Player, there isn't a person alive that answer this question. IMO, there is no safe way that you can tell a woman she needs to lose weight... you can try, but you're going to pay dearly for it as soon as the words come out of your pie hole.

No matter what you do or how you say it, you'll always be a bastard for, "not loving her unconditionally". I met my ex when she was a size 8, she went to a size 12 (14 in some stuff) in 2 years. I did everything that the ladies "say" they respond to. Tried to motivate her and be positive. NOTHING! I bought her memberships to the gym and went with her. NOTHING! I paid for a trainer for her because she said that I was to hard on her in the gym (I've been an athlete all my life and I only know how to go hard when I'm in the gym). NOTHING! Finally I told her that we were going to have to part ways because her weight gain was a deal breaker for me. She had the nerve to tell me that I didn't support her ass and that it was my fault that she gained weight. Moral of the story... it's always the guy's fault... ALWAYS!!

so did you bounce?

 

[SuperGenius]

I'm in the gym 4days a week...

I hardly see out of shape women in public, with real healthy looking men, just doesn't vibe. Admit that you are probably out of shape also and both of you she and you need to go workout together...

True....I see u still doin' it hardbody GYH, that's what's up.


Lead by example, once she starts seeing u started a workout routine and you're serious about it if she has half a brain she would follow. (some women feel the need to compete with their boyfriends/husbands for whatever reason)

 

[Adam Knows]

I'm in the gym 4days a week...

I hardly see out of shape women in public, with real healthy looking men, just doesn't vibe. Admit that you are probably out of shape also and both of you she and you need to go workout together...

i think weight loss/gain is based upon your environment too, for example, i'm going to say it's safe to assume that most women in new york city/manhattan area are in decent physical shape, largely due to the fact they have to remain active daily. majority have to walk some ways to and from, especially if they have to deal with public transportation like most do...

 

[outlaw]

Player, there isn't a person alive that answer this question. IMO, there is no safe way that you can tell a woman she needs to lose weight... you can try, but you're going to pay dearly for it as soon as the words come out of your pie hole.

No matter what you do or how you say it, you'll always be a bastard for, "not loving her unconditionally". I met my ex when she was a size 8, she went to a size 12 (14 in some stuff) in 2 years. I did everything that the ladies "say" they respond to. Tried to motivate her and be positive. NOTHING! I bought her memberships to the gym and went with her. NOTHING! I paid for a trainer for her because she said that I was to hard on her in the gym (I've been an athlete all my life and I only know how to go hard when I'm in the gym). NOTHING! Finally I told her that we were going to have to part ways because her weight gain was a deal breaker for me. She had the nerve to tell me that I didn't support her ass and that it was my fault that she gained weight. Moral of the story... it's always the guy's fault... ALWAYS!!

Word!
There was a brother in tyler perry's latest movie who played this same "motivational" role into getting the girl in shape, its funny cuz he got a room full of applause from the fat female audience

 

[Cinamiss]

The best thing you can do is to be honest with her. I remember when I gained a little weight. I knew i did but I didn't realize how bad I was getting until my man told me. everybody else lied to me and told me what I wanted to hear.

 

[PoppaSo]

Get her a membership to a gym with a personal trainer with a body "Ten times" better than yours, who accepts for the woman she is, tells her how beautiful she is everyday.

Then you can watch her weight completely dissappear, matter fact you can watch HER dissappear completely.
While she leaves your ass for that him while you pay for her to be good enough for you.

 

[Alumni]

so did you bounce?

Is water wet? Are rocks hard? Does shit stink? I don't feel bad about leaving because I told her up front --before we got into a committed relationship-- that that was something that was important to me. Just like men being employed is important to most women. She agreed and thought it was fair. Fast forward 3 years and 25 pounds and shit ain't sweet anymore.

Word!
There was a brother in tyler perry's latest movie who played this same "motivational" role into getting the girl in shape, its funny cuz he got a room full of applause from the fat female audience

That shit only happens in the movies playa, only in the movies. In real life the minute he tried to "motivate" her when she didn't want to be motivated... all hell would break loose.

 

[blackmouth]

this is a very interesting topic because my girl is kind of thick or "big-boned." she's not fat with cellulite; her thighs are just huge and thick with big tits, etc. she's about 180 lbs. at 5-9" tall.

a while back, she said she had to go to a "meeting," and that i couldn't go. i said fuck it and let it go. later that night, she said she was going to weight watchers.

fast forward 6 months, and she's down to about 145 lbs!!! and i say, "baby, i'm glad you're reaching your goals, but i love you regardless."

apparently, she took that shit to heart cause now, i can't get her in the gym, can't get her to STOP eating, and when i ask her if she's gonna cancel her gym membership, she says, no, i plan to continue working out. note: she hasn't been to the gym in MONTHS!!

now, it's the holiday season, she's gained ALL the weight back plus some, and i'm not even "feeling" her anymore. i think i'm gonna break-up with her. this shit is depressing cause she just let herself go.



we live off of lovers lane but we should move to a street named, "i don't wanna fuck you anymore" drive.

 

[Adam Knows]

this is a very interesting topic because my girl is kind of thick or "big-boned." she's not fat with cellulite; her thighs are just huge and thick with big tits, etc. she's about 180 lbs. at 5-9" tall.

a while back, she said she had to go to a "meeting," and that i couldn't go. i said fuck it and let it go. later that night, she said she was going to weight watchers.

fast forward 6 months, and she's down to about 145 lbs!!! and i say, "baby, i'm glad you're reaching your goals, but i love you regardless."

apparently, she took that shit to heart cause now, i can't get her in the gym, can't get her to STOP eating, and when i ask her if she's gonna cancel her gym membership, she says, no, i plan to continue working out. note: she hasn't been to the gym in MONTHS!!

now, it's the holiday season, she's gained ALL the weight back plus some, and i'm not even "feeling" her anymore. i think i'm gonna break-up with her. this shit is depressing cause she just let herself go.



we live off of lovers lane but we should move to a street named, "i don't wanna fuck you anymore" drive.

can't blame no one but yourself on that one.....

told y'all you need to find women who are about it from the get go.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Interesting....

 

[Bounty Killah]

Or work out with her at home...and make sex a regular part of her workout routine.

You'll both have fun...and you don't have to worry about washing sweaty workout clothes...when you're not wearing any.

I don't get it Tex... is that what you and your cousin do? Where's the story?

Lost me too...

 

[DiamondDeuce]

can't blame no one but yourself on that one.....

told y'all you need to find women who are about it from the get go.

Preach!!!

Yeh I have changed the profile on my MYSPACE, BP, and FACEBOOK.

It states that I am only looking for a woman that:
#1 Have no Children
#2 Currently actively involved in physical fitness


I do not have th patience to start out...with the notion of trying to "change a woman".

 

[Lick]

Get her to fuck until she is sweating and get her to eat small amounts five to six time a day with very light meals in the evening trying to keep the calories down to 1200 per day and take her on walks but try to get her to sweat each time… Chase her around the park… Foreplay… Make the cool down a romantic thing for the two of you when you are done. It short, it is all about the cardio. If you sweat then your heater is turn on and burning and if you eat small amounts five to six times then your body is using it for fuel and not storing it.
It is easy to do once you start because afterwards you will feel better and what is easy to do is just as easy not to do!
This is what I do and I’m 6’ and use to be 278lb but now I’m 253lb. My girl is 5’3 and 145lb and now she is 120lb or so. (Still got that booty) Walking is a good way to start and if you can get her to ride you like a cowboy/girl that just makes everything better! Have fun!