How can a man get his woman to lose weight?
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Join the gym and work out with her.
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All the white women I train with husbands pay the training sessions with my trainer.
One girl told him her husband said she'd have to quit to save money. She told him she'd get a job to pay for it and I guess that was out of the question for him so needless to say, he is still paying for her to go. That's $600 a month too.
Thank god I get the black girl discount.
One girl told him her husband said she'd have to quit to save money. She told him she'd get a job to pay for it and I guess that was out of the question for him so needless to say, he is still paying for her to go. That's $600 a month too.
Thank god I get the black girl discount.
Cosign.
Exercise and eat right..
Like replace your soda with vitamin Water... Replace potato chips with Apples... Cook your food instead of eating fast foods.
If you eat fast foods, replace McDonalds with Subway... etc
Or work out with her at home...and make sex a regular part of her workout routine.
You'll both have fun...and you don't have to worry about washing sweaty workout clothes...when you're not wearing any.
You're silly LOL
Now let's not forget about Shaunie O'Neal and her trainer...
For me, having my man actually want to take walks and go to the gym with me would work the best. Or you could say things like "Sweetie let's tighten up our bodies". Anything that doesn't make her feel bad about the extra weight (because she has already noticed it). And I'm assuming she gained weight while you were with her and it's not just you trying to make her be a different woman
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Sending your woman into a gym by herself is a surefire way to get her bones jumped by someone with the time and effort to put in.
Then again if she loves u u aint got nothing to worry about.
Any change in lifestyles should be done by the both of u. She has to want to do it for herself because if she uses any other reason than for her then she can stray from the path of wellness/health.
Encourage her and support her and be there to encourage her. But make sure she motivates herself for long term effects from the diet exercise or whatever options she chooses.
Then again if she loves u u aint got nothing to worry about.
Any change in lifestyles should be done by the both of u. She has to want to do it for herself because if she uses any other reason than for her then she can stray from the path of wellness/health.
Encourage her and support her and be there to encourage her. But make sure she motivates herself for long term effects from the diet exercise or whatever options she chooses.
Take her to the movies. Late. On a regular basis. Then pick seats in the middle.
Shuffling her big ass past already seated patrons will embarrass her behind into losing pounds.
Shuffling her big ass past already seated patrons will embarrass her behind into losing pounds.
you must be crazy. fat bitches are en vogue in america, they all proud of their fat due to men maing them feel it's ok. bustybabydolls.com is a perfect example of this.
Break up with her. I bet she will be in shape fast as hell till she find the next dude.
No seriously, if she aint convinced she need to do it for herself, there aint much you can do. Try to get her to workout with you, but if she wont, just keep working out on your own.
No seriously, if she aint convinced she need to do it for herself, there aint much you can do. Try to get her to workout with you, but if she wont, just keep working out on your own.
Start buying skim milk.
Buy a smaller bed.
Have the passenger side of your car adjusted so her space is smaller.
Take all her new things she buys back to the store and exchange them for rwo sizes smaller. Then sew in new tags.
You can do all that or man up and TALK to your woman. Communication.
Buy a smaller bed.
Have the passenger side of your car adjusted so her space is smaller.
Take all her new things she buys back to the store and exchange them for rwo sizes smaller. Then sew in new tags.
You can do all that or man up and TALK to your woman. Communication.
Or work out with her at home...and make sex a regular part of her workout routine.
You'll both have fun...and you don't have to worry about washing sweaty workout clothes...when you're not wearing any.
I don't get it Tex... is that what you and your cousin do? Where's the story?
Dig out that old ass photo album and tape the pictures of the OLD HER on the fridge,bathroom mirror, car dash and don't forget the remote control.
Trust, her big azzzz will get the hint........
Trust, her big azzzz will get the hint........
Trying to guilt a woman into losing weight will only make her resent you - threatening to leave her or embarrassing her in public - ALL BULLSHIT. If you care about her, have a heart to heart with her and ask her how she feels about it and if she'd been thinking about it. Offer to help - work out with her, change your diet so you can eat right together or help her get the equipment she needs.
Also, Christmas is coming - you could even ask her if she'd be interested in exercise equipment and that you could get something that both of you could use.
Also, Christmas is coming - you could even ask her if she'd be interested in exercise equipment and that you could get something that both of you could use.
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naw you know what you do....buy an elliptical and stick it smack next to the bed.....
don't say nothing, just act like business as usual.
naw you know what you do....buy an elliptical and stick it smack next to the bed.....
don't say nothing, just act like business as usual.
This would really push her to work a lil harder cause your their. I used to want my Beau to do that but he only came with me once.
Elliptical!? You mean AKA the exercise ball holder, AKA the Coat hanger.
Ain't nobody going to start shit they don't want to themselves.
But you're right. The fear of embarassment is a strong motivator.
I just hope the OP isn't talking about his wife, if so, the joke was on him
Been married for 23 years and to be honest you can't!! Just keep hittin that pussy right and she wont be able to gain too much weight because if she wont work out at the the gym then work her azz out in the bedroom! That will either make her go to the gym or run from yo azz. One things for sure you gotta have yo game straight first. Being a good example is first and formost. So hit the gym first and she will follow. But whatever you do dont badger she will just shut down and that fucks everything up!!
If she ain't into working out, it ain't gonna work out. Women work out for certain reasons. 9 times out of 10, it does not include a man. But if you've always been fit and she doesn't want to work out with you, you're probably out the door if she does it on her own all of a sudden. 2 months ago, she would run 5 laps with you.(struggling, and breathing hard) This month, she's running circles around your ass. 
Let her ass go! She's comfortable where she is bruh. If she is overweight, let it go. Her fat ass been like that for years and probably wont attempt to lose weight long as she has sorry ass man willing to accept her for what her FAT ass is. Think about it. Let it marinate.
Makes sense? Good!
Let her ass go! She's comfortable where she is bruh. If she is overweight, let it go. Her fat ass been like that for years and probably wont attempt to lose weight long as she has sorry ass man willing to accept her for what her FAT ass is. Think about it. Let it marinate.
Makes sense? Good!
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I'm in the gym 4days a week...
I hardly see out of shape women in public, with real healthy looking men, just doesn't vibe. Admit that you are probably out of shape also and both of you she and you need to go workout together...
I hardly see out of shape women in public, with real healthy looking men, just doesn't vibe. Admit that you are probably out of shape also and both of you she and you need to go workout together...
Don't date fat bitches....Look at her momma, look at her daddy, see which one she looks like. if they are fat, its a good idea to look elsewhere... If she's gotten fat, just go to the gym and hope she follows, or pay extra attention to skinny bitches, sigh loudly, and look at her with a knowing look. This next tactic only works if you can lay that serious wood. SERIOUS WOOD! Stop fucking her! If youre not attracted to the broad, maybe that will wake her up. Bitches act like leaving them cause your no longer attracted to them is not a valid reason. Nagging wont work bruh, but if you cant lead by example, and with gentle nudging......well you cant beat em like you used to, so leave em. Works for me....I dip. Dont you niggas realize WE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE OUTNUMBERED. WHY ARE YOU AUDITIONING FOR HOS! WHY TOLERATE ANYTHING LESS. TOO MANY ARE DESPARATE AND WILLING TO SUCCUMB TO JUST ABOUT EVERY WHIM, JUST FOR THAT CHANCE OF AN ALTAR WALK! If everyman got married today, right now, there would be 100 million women or so with no men. none. So why dont you just present yourself as available, in an attractive manner, and wait for the bitches to notice you, and pick out a nice model between 80-87, with the pecan brown paint, generous trunk room, and a sporty look. NOT a Super-duty, or a Murano (i.e. a super thick chick), which is really a minivan, in tight ass packaging. Good to have a navigation system, so she knows where shes going in life. Like you have to run up to cars in the car lot and sweet talk em........LMBAO!
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lol
all jokes aside.....
just man up, sit down with her and tell her the truth without sounding insulting.
she'll either listen, or blow up in your face.....
either way that'll tell you if she's one that's willing to communicate problems/concerns when they happen in the future or just someone who doesn't want to hear/deal with truth.
You have never trid to tell a chick shes fat "nicely" huh?
i've never been in a relationship where a "chick" was fat......or gotten fat and i've had to tell her so....
Seriously, how do black women sit down and talk to their man about being street and living the thuglife, keeping it real? So many black men are behind bars, indeed single black women are numerous, off spring are plenty and all you can talk about is size in body, measure them in the strength of their will to survive...! T do things right, by being productive and getting a job, working everyday to clothe and feed their/your childeren. Perhaps, they are overweight from depression...?
Tell her the truth, find the perfect time ( like when she is feeling horny and wants to have sex, turn her down and say : Baby you're fat , you need to lose weight, until then there wont be any sex) ..then Join the Gym together, aslo monitor what she is eats..
lol yeah right, tell her that when she's horny and you'll probably never see her again.....Similar threads
