How a Family of Four Manages to Live Well on Just $14,000 Per Year

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How a Family of Four Manages to Live Well on Just $14,000 Per Year

<cite class="byline vcard">By Mandi Woodruff | Business Insider – <abbr title="2013-02-26T18:33:51Z">3 hours ago</abbr></cite>









In the years since the recession, the median household income in the U.S. has dropped to just over $50,000, while fixed costs like health care, higher education, and housing have only soared. Now imagine trying to support a family of four on a fraction of that income.

It's a reality that stay-at-home wife and mother of two Danielle Wagasky has lived for the last four years. And, perhaps a little surprisingly, she wouldn't have it any other way.

Wagasky, 28, lives with her her husband, Jason, 31, and their two young children in a three-bedroom family home in Las Vegas, Nevada. While Jason, a member of the U.S. Army, completes his undergraduate studies, the family's only source of income is the $14,000 annual cost of living allowance he receives under the G.I. Bill. Despite all odds, the family has barely any credit card debt, no car payment, and no mortgage to speak of.

Wagasky has been sharing her journey to living meaningfully and frugally on her blog, Blissful and Domestic, since 2009.

She was kind enough to chat with BI and tell us how she makes it work.

Wagasky finds inspiration everywhere from the library to tips from readers on her blog.

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Amazon"My husband told me he'd heard about this book, [America's Cheapest Family Gets You Right on the Money<img alt="" style="border:none !important;margin:0px !important;" border="0" height="1" width="1">]," she said. "We talked about it over the phone and I read it and thought how it could apply to us."

The couple had a single savings goal in mind –– scraping together $30,000 for a downpayment on their home in their native Henderson, Nevada.

The mindless spending was out, and Wagasky came up with a budget she could make work. "I changed the way I was grocery shopping and started working my way up, " she said.

She stopped eating out and learned how to cook.

Wagasky barely knew her way around a kitchen when she started her money makeover.

Now she's an avid cookbook collector (she checks them out from libraries or asks for them as gifts to save), and it's one of the simplest ways she's managed to cutback on spending.

With a $7 bread-maker she scored at a local thrift shop, she never spends on store bought slices. She's not shy about professing her love for wholesale stores like Costco, which is her go-to source for baking ingredients.

Everything in the home is either hand-sewn and or made from scratch.

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seth w./Flickr"Everything must be budgeted," Wagasky wrote in a June entry on her blog. "From family outings, to toiletries to clothes purchases. It must be budgeted."

And she takes Do-It-Yourself to the extreme. Everything from laundry soap and clothing to the kitchen her husband installed in their new home was either crafted by hand or thrifted.

She swears by this home-made laundry detergent recipe.

The family swapped cable for Netflix and Hulu.

When it come to cutting costs, cable was as easy luxury to part ways with.

With two children aged 6 and 8 to entertain, Wagasky invests $14.99 in a Netflix plan and recently added Hulu to the mix.

The family also uses a simple antennae to pick up basic cable channels.

She goes to the grocery store once per month, pays cash, and never goes over budget.

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REUTERS/Mario AnzuoniWith a single source of fixed income, there's no room for impulse purchases in the Wagasky household.

They budget $400 for groceries each month and that's it.

"Once that $400 is gone, it is gone," she writes. "There are no extra shopping trips made because there is no more money."

They are a cash-only household but keep a credit card for emergencies.

Wagasky said they have no credit debt, but they do charge emergency expenses on plastic when absolutely necessary.

"We recently had some medical bills we had to pay, and we were able to take our savings and pay those down as fast as we could," she said.

They fill up their tanks once per month and combine errands as much as possible.

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REUTERS/Pichi ChuangWith gas prices creeping higher each all the time, the Wagaskys watch their mileage like hawks.

That means combining errands together and doing all they can to make one take of gas last a month.

"We know we don't get to drive and visit family often, so when we do we cherish it," she wrote in a blog entry.

"We don't go just for an hour, we stay and visit and even run errands that may be close to where we have family. We try to remember that when the gas is gone...it is gone."

They paid for both of their cars in cash and have no car payments.

After Wagasky's husband left active duty and started school, the couple knew they would only have $14,000 per year to live on.

So they paid off the $8,000 he owed on his truck while he was earning more and they could afford the expense.

They also bought a van, which they saved $10,000 for initially and were able to pay the remaining $12,000 owed within a year.

Having zero car payments is a nice relief.

She skips all kiddie snacks in favor of healthier, cheaper DIY options.

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AP Photo/Brennan LinsleyLike anyone with simple math skills, Wagasky was quick to realize how much cash she was wasting on prepackaged snacks for her children.

She cut them out completely and whips up homemade granola bars and trail mix instead.

If she can freeze food, she will.

If you're on a tight food budget, your freezer will become your best friend.

Wagasky chops vegetables and fruits and freezes them for a month. She actually does the same for dairy products like cheese, butter and yogurt.

"I am able to freeze about 8 gallons of milk each month," she writes. "They sit at the bottom of my freezer and we thaw them out when we need them." Baked goods get the same chilly treatment.

She uses a food co-op to save on fresh produce.

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REUTERS/Mario AnzuoniWagasky was dubious about joining a food co-op, but after three months, she realized she would never beat the savings or quality she found.

Food co-ops pool membership fees together in order to fund a monthly harvest that's distributed at designated pick-up points.

A couple of times per month, Wagasky gets a basketful of in-season produce for $15 –– way better bargain than she'd ever find in stores.

They took advantage of Nevada's declining housing market to score a cheap foreclosure.

By the time Wagasky's husband came home from Iraq, they had managed to scrape together the $30,000 they needed for a downpayment on a home.

"But we decided the best option would be not to have a mortgage payment at all," she said. "We found a fixer-upper that didn't have a kitchen ... and we paid cash."

Price tag: $28,000. With the leftover cash, they were able to finish the kitchen and install wood flooring throughout the house.



 
I didn't read any of it but I know they don't live in the northeast. You'll pay more 14k for a two br apartment in the northeast
 
I checked out that book about America's cheapest family a little while back from the library. While it is a good book, $14K a year is probably exaggerating.
 
we are spoiled in this country,, we don't need half the shit we own & buy everyday,, then we get a raise or a better job, only to spend it on more shit we don't need,, the more simple you can make your life, the better
 
my mama barely made $20k a year back in the 80s and she had to raise 3 of us by herself. minimum wage back then was barely $4/hr if that. i dont know how the fuck she did it, but dammit she did. so this is not a suprise or success story to me.
 
we are spoiled in this country,, we don't need half the shit we own & buy everyday,, then we get a raise or a better job, only to spend it on more shit we don't need,, the more simple you can make your life, the better

Speak for yourself...
 
live well on $14k? Not going to happen unless you own your house and car outright

This says it all, they have no choice but to live with $14k a year so ofcourse they are going to live within their means. I'm guessing their house is already paid for, that must be nice but most folks aren't that lucky



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By the time Wagasky's husband came home from Iraq, they had managed to scrape together the $30,000 they needed for a downpayment on a home.


After Wagasky's husband left active duty and started school, the couple knew they would only have $14,000 per year to live on.

So they paid off the $8,000 he owed on his truck while he was earning more and they could afford the expense.

They also bought a van, which they saved $10,000 for initially and were able to pay the remaining $12,000 owed within a year.

Not like these people were broke in the first place, they had more cash in the bank than most Americans
 
fam ya'll need to pay attention,,,i've been telling my girl about shit like this for years,,,cutting out processed foods,not eating out,,not having mortgage payments or car notes,,,,it took her failing health(not being able to work) and me being unemployed for three years for her to realize what i meant....we had to scrape for awhile,,,no new shit,no eating out,no tricking,,,now i have a new promising job,,she finally got her disability,,,and bam,,when her back pay came through for ssi,,i get a pay out from a from an old job pension,,,now she can see how we can turn 30k cash ,into 100k in a year or two by not going out and tricking on shit that we couldn't afford a year ago and continune to live as if we have no money,,,no car payments,,,reduced rent or mortgage,,,in fact i plan to buy a double this year for no more than 30k on a land contract,,,if i can't find one then i will do a va loan for the double and pay it off extra early,,like 4 to 5 years,,of course it won't be in the suburbs,,,,but with the current trend of urban renewal,,,i can find distressed property in my city cheap,,,that will double or triple in value after a rehab,,,i have the skills and tools to do them myself,,i will get a general contractors license this year and pay myself and kids to do the work:D
 
my mama barely made $20k a year back in the 80s and she had to raise 3 of us by herself. minimum wage back then was barely $4/hr if that. i dont know how the fuck she did it, but dammit she did. so this is not a suprise or success story to me.

It is to me since it's no longer the 80s
 
This says it all, they have no choice but to live with $14k a year so ofcourse they are going to live within their means. I'm guessing their house is already paid for, that must be nice but most folks aren't that lucky

There's nothing to guess...the article clearly states this
 
I have to but my fruits and veggies fresh every week, though. So that once a week thing won't fly with me.
 
I know I couldn't do all those things, but alot of good ideas I can incorporate.

When i read it, its kind of extreme for me too, but I know alot of things I can do to save money.

Mainly eating out. We ordered in the bill was 52 bucks. Ate out on Saturday, the bill was $160. Its good to have money and to be able to eat out, but its bad to be eating out all the fucking time. My family spends a ridiculous amount of money eating out weekly.
 
Two things that generally eat up most of folks money is their car payment and mortgage. Third is luxury things clothes and jewelry.

Knew a doctor who drove an old hoopty. Said as long as it ran he didn't need a new car and it was paid for.
People drive big gas guzzling SUV's just to compete in a non-existent race. I have a 4 cylinder honda civic paid for, a full tank lasts the week. My peeps drive 8 and twin 8's. They are always crying about gas money-it makes no sense, and on top of that they have a car payment and rent to pay. I'm buying a 3 bed/2 bath 10K fix-me-up. You gotta have vision.:yes:
 
That is good what they are doing. But while they do that, some people are making life harder. Those that rule the world right now make there money by promoting death and destruction. Gas cars should be a thing of the past. Ev's and solar cars should have already be popular.
The food we eat and the air and water is all being poisoned by those who are rewarded for their evil deeds. Some people are rewarded for their ability to program others.

I hate that every dollar I make goes right back to these crooks. 3 rights we were born with is life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. What the world plans to take away or control.

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Two things that generally eat up most of folks money is their car payment and mortgage. Third is luxury things clothes and jewelry.

Knew a doctor who drove an old hoopty. Said as long as it ran he didn't need a new car and it was paid for.
People drive big gas guzzling SUV's just to compete in a non-existent race. I have a 4 cylinder honda civic paid for, a full tank lasts the week. My peeps drive 8 and twin 8's. They are always crying about gas money-it makes no sense, and on top of that they have a car payment and rent to pay. I'm buying a 3 bed/2 bath 10K fix-me-up. You gotta have vision.:yes:

Hold up. Weren't you crying broke and living on the street a month ago?


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The main thing I take from this is to plan better, not succumb to impulse, and become more long-sighted.

Especially the house for cheap part. I have never financed anything in my life, so I don't have a car payment or any credit card debt.
 
i started making alot of my own stuff too...moreso because i wanted more control over what goes in and on my body

its easier than you think too...and its a whole lot cheaper....heres some of the stuff i use on a regular basis:
febreeze
all purpose cleaner
eye make up remover
body butter
hair growth oil
detangler
lip gloss and chapstick
perfume
bath salt
deep conditioner
face mask

i have unclogged my drain using all natural ingredients and even made some home decor items and hair accessories

i applaud these people:yes:
 
fam ya'll need to pay attention,,,i've been telling my girl about shit like this for years,,,cutting out processed foods,not eating out,,not having mortgage payments or car notes,,,,it took her failing health(not being able to work) and me being unemployed for three years for her to realize what i meant....we had to scrape for awhile,,,no new shit,no eating out,no tricking,,,now i have a new promising job,,she finally got her disability,,,and bam,,when her back pay came through for ssi,,i get a pay out from a from an old job pension,,,now she can see how we can turn 30k cash ,into 100k in a year or two by not going out and tricking on shit that we couldn't afford a year ago and continune to live as if we have no money,,,no car payments,,,reduced rent or mortgage,,,in fact i plan to buy a double this year for no more than 30k on a land contract,,,if i can't find one then i will do a va loan for the double and pay it off extra early,,like 4 to 5 years,,of course it won't be in the suburbs,,,,but with the current trend of urban renewal,,,i can find distressed property in my city cheap,,,that will double or triple in value after a rehab,,,i have the skills and tools to do them myself,,i will get a general contractors license this year and pay myself and kids to do the work:D


Good Stuff Congrats Bruh!:yes:
 
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