Holding Each Other Accountable

[cb71109]

My and a coworker was chopping it up one day discussing women. So he tells me that he don't like big girls(bbw,thick,whatever you call it). So I'm like cool if that's your preference than have at it. So he ask me and I tell him that I love women of all sizes just nothing over a 22; and she have to be curvy.

The mother fucker just go off talking some dumb shit. Like his wife is about to have a kid and told the chick that she have to lose wait or he'll divorce her. I'm like nigga are you serious. I mean this dude look like he is one breath away from a stroke;then have the nerve to tell his wife some shit like that. How can he make such demands on his wife to stay a certain size, but he have the freedom to just loose it.

So It gets me to thinking. Yea us dudes can prefer a woman to look a certain way, but what if they reverse that shit on us. Me and the queen not the smallest people but we do have goals of losing our weight together. So we workout, run, and try to eat healthy when ever we can. I feel like if I demand my wife to loose a couple of dress sizes, she have the right to tell me to shape up too. And when she does I don't get offended, I just take action.

So my question is would you tell your mate to loose some damn weight if they body have become unattractive(if you have a range), or would you let them continue until your not physically attractive anymore.

 

[Izayoi]

So my question is would you tell your mate to loose some damn weight if they body have become unattractive(if you have a range), or would you let them continue until your not physically attractive anymore.

I would tell him, and I hope he would do the same for me! It's not just about appearance; it's about health. It kills me when people get hung up on looks but don't think of the ramifications of being chronically ill and the impact and burden that puts on the whole family both emotionally and financially. I don't really want my kids to have to wheel me around because I got my feet cut off from uncontrolled Type 2 diabetes. There are plenty of accidents and illnesses you can't control, but for the ones you have some control over why invite them into your life?

 

[sean69]

I would tell him, and I hope he would do the same for me! It's not just about appearance; it's about health. It kills me when people get hung up on looks but don't think of the ramifications of being chronically ill and the impact and burden that puts on the whole family both emotionally and financially. I don't really want my kids to have to wheel me around because I got my feet cut off from uncontrolled Type 2 diabetes. There are plenty of accidents and illnesses you can't control, but for the ones you have some control over why invite them into your life?

As always, on point with the response.

 

[dHustla]

I would tell him, and I hope he would do the same for me! It's not just about appearance; it's about health. It kills me when people get hung up on looks but don't think of the ramifications of being chronically ill and the impact and burden that puts on the whole family both emotionally and financially. I don't really want my kids to have to wheel me around because I got my feet cut off from uncontrolled Type 2 diabetes. There are plenty of accidents and illnesses you can't control, but for the ones you have some control over why invite them into your life?

As always, on point with the response.

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[Adam Knows]

the mentality of a lot of males:


as long as i providing/making money i'm always an asset regardless...a woman is only an asset until her looks fade then she becomes a liability...

that's why a lot of people think that way....

 

[owl]

the mentality of a lot of males:


as long as i providing/making money i'm always an asset regardless...a woman is only an asset until her looks fade then she becomes a liability...

that's why a lot of people think that way....

Of course, that is assuming the guy is handling his business in that manner.

I don't subscribe to a lot of the manipulations, but I do understand how fragile many women I've met are with regards to looks.