Regarding video above:
The "ho-tation" doesn't last really long for most women under 30 - at some point, she will want more from one of the individuals OR she'll realize she's engaging in the behavior to fill a void elsewhere in her life. Also, societal pressures give in, and you start thinking, "Damn, I should be married with kids by now." And, as you see friends and family get married around you, you realize not all hoes are getting wifed up...always an exception, but definitely not the norm.
Also, not all women go through a "ho-tation." Some find love early - in high school, college, etc. and really don't get to experience that free a period UNLESS tragedy strikes, like a divorce. I think this is where middle age and older women become the "wildcard," because they can engage in the hoe activities without much grievance because they're smarter and have more of an idea of what they want too. Also, the chances of having a child out of wedlock fall substantially...BUT, the rates at which STDs occur with this population did increase, so there's that...
My co-worker, who's been married 20+ years, 5 kids, been with her husband since college...she always says, if something happened, she wouldn't get married again. Just date and have fun. I think many "older women" take the same stance - most of the time, it's only the ones who haven't ever been married who want to get married, at some point.