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Yo Fam,

Question, have any of you cats ever met and dated a chick that was selfish, hardly did anything for you and had no concept of money i.e. overall finances? Just curious, because I have been meeting a lot of chicks like that lately.

What did you do?

Single and married brothers chime in!
 
sounds like you be spoiling them hoes too fast without seeing what they are about..

I dont mind spending money on chicks if they are fun to be with, can hold a conversation besides love and hip hop and who wore what at some mindless red carpet event..

but I aint wasting time with a selfish ho who thinks the world owes her a favor because she shows up, with an expensive handbag and a pedicure...

fuck outta here...

sounds like you spoilin them hoes hopin they would change.

you gotta feel them out day one.. listen to everything they are saying, they will tell you what they are about,

if you are willin to listen, an not be distracted by them tities/ass and wonderin what that mouth do...

find out all you can about thier past relationships that will tell you a lot..

if they carryin a lot of baggage you better run the other way.. you beggin to be miserable..
 
Bro I just cussed a Bitch out Monday who was extremely selfish.


I hadn’t heard from her in over a year because of some fuck shit she did. Told me to never contact her again. No problem.

So tell me why I get the “hey you” text out the blue last Saturday. The weak hoe does the 21 ?s trying to play catch up and once she gets the info she wants she gets ghost for several days.

Now I have a pet peeve when muthafuckas leave my text on read. Especially in this case since this bitch was the one who initiated contact. So anyway, I barked at the Bitch and told her that since she’s on some weirdo shit to not hit my line again since she can’t respond back & reminded her dumb ass that she was the one who hit me up.


So of course the bitch is typing fast and furious explaining to me she’s been sick and all this other shit which is why she couldn’t get back to me. Then she tells me she’s leaving work early and asked if I wanna come tru. So I go over we chill and smoke then I leave to pick up my son.

She tells me if I’m free later that night to come back over. But before I go, she’s texting regularly now telling me “just an fyi I have a little peach fuzz down there just in case u try anything hehe” so I’m assuming we fuckin right...?


The next text, “hey can you buy a bottle of taquila? Don Julio of patron, the $20 bottle” the Bitch knows I smoke and don’t drink like that but I ended up coppin the shit then went over. It’s about 11pm when I get to her crib. I smoke a blunt, she rolls one for herself then pours a drink. Some kinda way we ended up on her fuckin dog bean bag chair and knocked out. Ohhh, but before we fell asleep I was holding the Bitch not even on some aggressive shit and she says “I think I just wanna chill tonight. And we can’t start wearing out these late nights, we have to go out on a date lol”


Nigga.....


It’s more I’m just tired of typing lol
 
2 ONE 3 said:
Bro I just cussed a Bitch out Monday who was extremely selfish.


I hadn’t heard from her in over a year because of some fuck shit she did. Told me to never contact her again. No problem.

So tell me why I get the “hey you” text out the blue last Saturday. The weak hoe does the 21 ?s trying to play catch up and once she gets the info she wants she gets ghost for several days.

Now I have a pet peeve when muthafuckas leave my text on read. Especially in this case since this bitch was the one who initiated contact. So anyway, I barked at the Bitch and told her that since she’s on some weirdo shit to not hit my line again since she can’t respond back & reminded her dumb ass that she was the one who hit me up.


So of course the bitch is typing fast and furious explaining to me she’s been sick and all this other shit which is why she couldn’t get back to me. Then she tells me she’s leaving work early and asked if I wanna come tru. So I go over we chill and smoke then I leave to pick up my son.

She tells me if I’m free later that night to come back over. But before I go, she’s texting regularly now telling me “just an fyi I have a little peach fuzz down there just in case u try anything hehe” so I’m assuming we fuckin right...?


The next text, “hey can you buy a bottle of taquila? Don Julio of patron, the $20 bottle” the Bitch knows I smoke and don’t drink like that but I ended up coppin the shit then went over. It’s about 11pm when I get to her crib. I smoke a blunt, she rolls one for herself then pours a drink. Some kinda way we ended up on her fuckin dog bean bag chair and knocked out. Ohhh, but before we fell asleep I was holding the Bitch not even on some aggressive shit and she says “I think I just wanna chill tonight. And we can’t start wearing out these late nights, we have to go out on a date lol”


Nigga.....


It’s more I’m just tired of typing lol
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I appreciate your candid response. But you can’t pretend you didn’t jump down the hole without her.
 
Non-StopJFK2TAB said:
I appreciate your candid response. But you can’t pretend you didn’t jump down the hole without her.
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I didn’t. I called her a Bitch a year ago. She told me to never contact her again. I agreed.


The whole reason we had issues is because she’s inconsiderate and is very selfish and petty. Last year she asked me out to go eat and I told her even tho I wasn’t hungry that night I would still go with her. There was a issue about that and where she wanted to go eat. Then we settled on chicken and waffles which she paid for on her card. And before I could even pull out her driveway the next morning the Bitch is texting me like “don’t forget to send me that money for the food”


Literally 2 or 3 texts about the little $11.45 she spent on me at roscoes

She hits me out the blue last week. My only mistake was giving this bum ass bitch a second chance
 
Well, for one thing there wouldn't be any "dating" because I let it be known up front I expect a mutual financial commitment. If that's not acceptable, then, bye.

Chicks that open their mouth with that "that's what a man's supposed to do" bullshit don't even get long-term consideration.

Now, if they're fine, I might just cloud their minds to get the drawers then be out.

Surprisingly, many times when you show them they're disposable they want you more and open the pocketbook. But that's another story.
 
2 ONE 3 said:
The Bitch is busty, thick and has pretty feet


Clearly I wasn’t thinking with the right head. But I was suspicious from jump
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I got that from the first post: bitch ain’t shit, but she tryna fuck.

This woman may be the one for you. She clearly has you doing things you really don’t want to do. Buying chicken and liquor. I think you should have a heart to heart with her.
 
Non-StopJFK2TAB said:
I got that from the first post: bitch ain’t shit, but she tryna fuck.

This woman may be the one for you. She clearly has you doing things you really don’t want to do. Buying chicken and liquor. I think you should have a heart to heart with her.
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So peep. After I left the other night i decided to do the same shit she did to me last year.

“Hey the bottle was $24 you can Venmo or cash app that to me, thanks”


She responds back with “huh??”


:lol:

Then I explained to her stupid ass I had no intention on drinking and that this is the same situation as last year when she was on my head about roscoes. I paid her back the same day and cussed her out. So she then tells me she’s not paying me shit and that I should charge the $24 as her hospitality
 
2 ONE 3 said:
So peep. After I left the other night i decided to do the same shit she did to me last year.

“Hey the bottle was $24 you can Venmo or cash app that to me, thanks”


She responds back with “huh??”


:lol:

Then I explained to her stupid ass I had no intention on drinking and that this is the same situation as last year when she was on my head about roscoes. I paid her back the same day and cussed her out. So she then tells me she’s not paying me shit and that I should charge the $24 as her hospitality
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When is the wedding?
 
I’ve been hearing similar things from my homies.

The modern woman today defies most stereotypical roles that generation x and older generations were accustom to seeing.

Seems like you got to navigate the game a little different because another extreme is the career oriented woman that is financially responsible, but does not compromise well at all. The alpha woman. Which I don’t have an issue with, but it does cause conflict with those men that desire to lead.
 
2 ONE 3 said:
Lol you got jokes.


Cold part is this hoe is a realtor and makes decent bread. I’ll post her nudes later on


That’s how much I don’t give a fuck about her lame ass
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This chick has your number. She has you compromising your Christianity consistently. Just buy her the ring and be done with it. She has won.
 
4 Dimensional said:
I’ve been hearing similar things from my homies.

The modern woman today defies most stereotypical roles that generation x and older generations were accustom to seeing.

Seems like you got to navigate the game a little different because another extreme is the career oriented woman that is financially responsible, but does not compromise well at all. The alpha woman. Which I don’t have an issue with, but it does cause conflict with those men that desire to lead.
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These chicks out here are evil.
 
Yeah I definitely have dated a couple of selfish chicks in my life.

Just do inexpensive stuff with chicks when you first start dating them like happy hour. Chick say something to me like, “I like nice places.” I tell em I do too and to go to a lot of them, maybe one day you can accompany to some. Women ALWAYS hear the maybe and recognize it as a qualifier whether they admit it or not. They act accordingly when they hear it too.
 
4 Dimensional said:
I’ve been hearing similar things from my homies.

The modern woman today defies most stereotypical roles that generation x and older generations were accustom to seeing.

Seems like you got to navigate the game a little different because another extreme is the career oriented woman that is financially responsible, but does not compromise well at all. The alpha woman. Which I don’t have an issue with, but it does cause conflict with those men that desire to lead.
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These chicks out here are evil.
 
yep.....i just fucked the shit outta here and dipped.
had her walking different and thinking bout gettin her mind right....
 
Signs a woman is selfish

  • Her screen saver on her phone is a selfie of her self esp if it is a thirst trap
  • She asks you less than 2 questions in a convo or only questions she asks start with a "why"
  • She doesnt have a lot of female friends
  • She is highly insecure allways posting selfies or a video of herself on snapchat playing in her hair staring into thd camera with a filter on
  • She allways talk about things she hates more than things she lovez
 
AdidasMan said:
Yo Fam,

Question, have any of you cats ever met and dated a chick that was selfish, hardly did anything for you and had no concept of money i.e. overall finances? Just curious, because I have been meeting a lot of chicks like that lately.

What did you do?

Single and married brothers chime in!
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Here is a simple but effective anolgy to apply when dealing with/dating women in general...women north of 28 in particular.


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This....Is you.

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These...are the women.

Your job is to evaluate the players to maximize the return on the investment and maximize the team's ability to win.

INVESTMENT = Your Time.

TEAM = Your Happiness.

YOU ARE THE COACH- especially if you dealing with chicks north of 28- and there's only one program that's going to be ran and that's your's.

It's your JOB to implement YOUR PROGRAM. If they buck, bench em and look to trade em. If they still can't figure it out, cut em- free agency and the draft happens EVERY YEAR.

You're already in the NFL; it's them that are trying to get into the league, remain in the league, or get back into the league. NEVER FORGET THAT.

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Lastly, 99% of the players in the league know they can't afford to be divas and/or locker room cancers. Let them know, THAT YOU KNOW THAT. Those rare few that can however can't afford to for long....

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Especially north of 28. YOU LET THEM KNOW THAT TOO.


Go get em coach.

*two cents*

 
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AdidasMan said:
Yo Fam,

Question, have any of you cats ever met and dated a chick that was selfish, hardly did anything for you and had no concept of money i.e. overall finances? Just curious, because I have been meeting a lot of chicks like that lately.

What did you do?

Single and married brothers chime in!
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i thought that's all there was nowadays with this new self entitled mentality going on among women
 
2 ONE 3 said:
Lol you got jokes.


Cold part is this hoe is a realtor and makes decent bread. I’ll post her nudes later on


That’s how much I don’t give a fuck about her lame ass
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Revenge porn is a felony in certain states you better fall back on them pics b4 she have you coming out your pocket again this time for a lawyer
 
I had one like that. She was serious arm candy so it wasn't all bad. I put up with her until I had explored all her holes then I broke up with her.
 
If she ain’t with the program, she gotta go.

The program needs to be that you are the man of the relationship and house and you need the respect that goes along with it. You need to exude it, confidently and treat her in a way that demands her respect (I don’t mean making her feel like a subordinate or anything, but you need to make her confident that you know what the fuck you are doing to meet her emotional, physical and financial needs pretty much in that order). Trust me when all 3 of those needs are met, women will ride or die for/with you forever.

If she has potential...some women just aren’t exposed to anything else we need in a relationship other than sex...give it a little bit of time to work together.

But if not, gotta have no problem moving the fuck on and stop wasting time.
 
sinsay said:
If she ain’t with the program, she gotta go.

The program needs to be that you are the man of the relationship and house and you need the respect that goes along with it. You need to exude it, confidently and treat her in a way that demands her respect (I don’t mean making her feel like a subordinate or anything, but you need to make her confident that you know what the fuck you are doing to meet her emotional, physical and financial needs pretty much in that order). Trust me when all 3 of those needs are met, women will ride or die for/with you forever.

If she has potential...some women just aren’t exposed to anything else we need in a relationship other than sex...give it a little bit of time to work together.

But if not, gotta have no problem moving the fuck on and stop wasting time.
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This man gets it.^^^^^^

Naha-Nago said:
Here is a simple but effective anolgy to apply when dealing with women in general...women north of 28 in particular.


bill-parcells-with-giants.jpg


This....Is you.

9-questions-we-need-answered-as-nfl-training-camp-approaches-banner.png


These...are the women.

Your job is to evaluate the players and to maximize the return on the investment and maximize the teams ability to win.

INVESTMENT = Your Time.

TEAM = Your Happiness.

YOU ARE THE COACH- especially if you dealing with chicks north of 28- and there's only one program that's going to be ran and that's yours.

It's your JOB to implement YOUR PROGRAM. If they buck, trade em. If they can't figure it out cut em. Free agency and the draft happens EVERY YEAR and you're already in the NFL, it's them trying to get into the league, or get back into the league.

Lastly, 99% of the players in the league can't afford to be diva's and or locker room cancers. Those that can can't afford to for long....

Especially north of 28.


Go get em coach.

*two cents*
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*two cents*
 
Met yea
Dated no.
I wouldn't put myself thru the frustration
Or the strain of trying to change a user
Just have to know yourself and what you want
Present it as such every time and eventually it'll match up with a woman and that will be that

Too many times pussy makes people do things they wouldn't normally do.. for the sake of a fleeting feeling of sex.

Sex is supposed to be icing on the cake if you dealing with a person not the entire cake and icing too.

This is dating stuff not just trying to smash stuff at which time you should be honest up front and say you just want to smash nothing serious and take it from there too
 

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