Girlfriend says she doesn't like me spanking her and gets pissed WTF?!

[LucaBrasi]

Soo I'm in bed with my chick. She comes over to my side cuddles with me and says, "i missed you last night" I said, "awww" and she says, "i missed cuddling next to you." I responded with, "is that all you missed about me?" She says, "yes." I took that as a low blow so i spanked her and added, "really?" "Stop spanking me", she responds. I spank her a couple more times while adding, "is that the only thing you missed about me?" She is hitting me back in the arm and im spanking. Now she is yelling at me, " i hate when you spank me, even when we have sex you spank me and i don't say anything but i really don't like it." "God its like you don't respect me, i tell you i don't like something and you keep doing it until i snap." I say, "you never said you had a problem with it and thats bull**** that you don't like to be spanked, im not buying it and im going to continue to spank you, theres nothing wrong with having fun stop taking **** so seriously." I pull her over and then we argue again and i just pushed her off me. **** irrititated the **** out of me. What girl doesn't like to be spanked? really?

 

[ladyscorpio]

Soo I'm in bed with my chick. She comes over to my side cuddles with me and says, "i missed you last night" I said, "awww" and she says, "i missed cuddling next to you." I responded with, "is that all you missed about me?" She says, "yes." I took that as a low blow so i spanked her and added, "really?" "Stop spanking me", she responds. I spank her a couple more times while adding, "is that the only thing you missed about me?" She is hitting me back in the arm and im spanking. Now she is yelling at me, " i hate when you spank me, even when we have sex you spank me and i don't say anything but i really don't like it." "God its like you don't respect me, i tell you i don't like something and you keep doing it until i snap." I say, "you never said you had a problem with it and thats bull**** that you don't like to be spanked, im not buying it and im going to continue to spank you, theres nothing wrong with having fun stop taking **** so seriously." I pull her over and then we argue again and i just pushed her off me. **** irrititated the **** out of me. What girl doesn't like to be spanked? really?

Seems she just told you that she doesn't like it unless I read wrong . If you aren't going to respect her then perhaps you should end your relationship if spanking is overly important to you and you have no intention of stopping despite her objections.

And no not every female enjoys being spanked.






Peace

 

[Steve Lurkle]

Weird, she doesnt get mad when i do it. I use my left hand, which one are you spanking her with?

 

[LucaBrasi]

Weird, she doesnt get mad when i do it. I use my left hand, which one are you spanking her with?

and truth be told... if she doesn't get it from me she is going to get it somewhere else

also... been together for 7 months, why come out now and say it???

never been a problem before

 

[onyxfemme]

You completely ignored what LS said and she was on point......

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Maybe she didn't say anything before because she figured you might get the hint...now she has come flat out and stated it so I don't get where the confusion is coming from..apparently she doesn't like being spanked or she doesn't like the way you do it...

Uhh stop spanking her..sounds like an easy solution...

 

[ladyscorpio]

You completely ignored what LS said and she was on point......

The gentleman seems to be one that prefers when answers go the way he wants OF. So I am going to guess that the relationship will not last due to the fact that he intends to ignore the female in question.

 

[Lady-Wiz]

The gentleman seems to be one that prefers when answers go the way he wants OF. So I am going to guess that the relationship will not last due to the fact that he intends to ignore the female in question.

yup

 

[LucaBrasi]

The gentleman seems to be one that prefers when answers go the way he wants OF. So I am going to guess that the relationship will not last due to the fact that he intends to ignore the female in question.

LOL so maybe i am stubborn

but really would you say never spank her again??? ever!?

btw thanks for the responses

 

[sean69]

Soo I'm in bed with my chick. She comes over to my side cuddles with me and says, "i missed you last night" I said, "awww" and she says, "i missed cuddling next to you." I responded with, "is that all you missed about me?" She says, "yes." I took that as a low blow so i spanked her and added, "really?" "Stop spanking me", she responds. I spank her a couple more times while adding, "is that the only thing you missed about me?" She is hitting me back in the arm and im spanking. Now she is yelling at me, " i hate when you spank me, even when we have sex you spank me and i don't say anything but i really don't like it." "God its like you don't respect me, i tell you i don't like something and you keep doing it until i snap." I say, "you never said you had a problem with it and thats bull**** that you don't like to be spanked, im not buying it and im going to continue to spank you, theres nothing wrong with having fun stop taking **** so seriously." I pull her over and then we argue again and i just pushed her off me. **** irrititated the **** out of me. What girl doesn't like to be spanked? really?

Seems she just told you that she doesn't like it unless I read wrong . If you aren't going to respect her then perhaps you should end your relationship if spanking is overly important to you and you have no intention of stopping despite her objections.

And no not every female enjoys being spanked.

Peace

Maybe she didn't say anything before because she figured you might get the hint...now she has come flat out and stated it so I don't get where the confusion is coming from..apparently she doesn't like being spanked or she doesn't like the way you do it...

Uhh stop spanking her..sounds like an easy solution...

*lights pipe with matches*

... Ahh yes. Indeed.

*blows smoke rings*

That ever so familiar aphonic reticence.

*flicks off ashes*

That cryptic taciturn telepathy that, curiously, ONLY women have evolved as a means of communication ...

 

[ladyscorpio]

Perhaps it would be a good thing to have a conversation with her regarding the things that you both like and dislike. Maybe you are spanking her harder than you think and it hurts? However if you want to continue your relations with her then definitely have open conversations.

LOL so maybe i am stubborn

but really would you say never spank her again??? ever!?

btw thanks for the responses

Sean...........................


smoking is bad for you................and

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... Ahh yes. Indeed.

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[sean69]

Sean...........................

smoking is bad for you................and

hi LS ... brrrrrrrr...

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

yeah I would move on,

I tell my girl shes been bad, its time for spanks...

she gets giddy.

yeah it could be anything, it could be her jump off spanking that ass, and when you do it she feels guilty.

she may be the dominant type that doesnt like that... closet butch if you ask me....

or she may just not be into any type of rough play no matter how light..

I wouldnt waste too much energy

but it does sound like she got maaaaaaaaaaaad feelings for you, so I dont know it boils down to, whether or not you can live with a chick and sacrafice something that you enjoy doing..

I would move on, but I am not you.

 

[melonpecan]

I missed that.



Scroll up for your answer.

 

[LoneStar29]

You watch too much porn

 

[actinanass]

cancel that bitch like nimo

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Weird, she doesnt get mad when i do it. I use my left hand, which one are you spanking her with?

Mwhahaha. Delicious.

 

[Mo-Better]

Clear case of how porn warps the minds of those who can't distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy.

Dude what may be OK for one woman may not be OK for the next.

 

[TurellSmith]

All the chicks that I have dealt with like getting spanked, their hair pulled, handcuffs and all that shit. But I just like submissive women and those women are usually attracted to me.

Sounds like the bitch ain't into being dominated and she is not submitting to you.