getting pussy is cool but i do miss cuddle time

[Thick Johnson]

thats my shit

like even when i ain't tripping off the pussy

i still like to cuddle

but you can't just cuddle any old freak

she has to be special.....i mean you have to care

for the cuddle to give that euphoric feeling

i actually fucked my shoulder up from cuddling when i was married

she slept on the left side of the bed i come Fromm behind and
lay on my right shoulder ......like 8 years straight

that's the part i miss.

loved her to death but i couldn't even nut anymore

fucked up when a man is faking orgasms

i remained loyal though

for the most part........no i did though

 

[Mo-Better]

Your right women talk about men not being romantic but they rarely want to cuddle anymore. They finish jump up and run to the bathroom. I'm like whats the hurry.

I feel so used when they do that.

@ faking orgasms, I thought I was the only man that ever did that.

 

[playahaitian]

Your right women talk about men not being romantic but they rarely want to cuddle anymore. They finish jump up and run to the bathroom. I'm like whats the hurry.

I feel so used when they do that.

@ faking orgasms, I thought I was the only man that ever did that.

WOW

didnt know other men did this too

 

[yureeka9]

 

[Thick Johnson]

So do you

a.continue faking orgasms
b.tell her it isn't working out
c.seek therapy
d.cheat
e. other solution

 

[Mo-Better]

So do you

a.continue faking orgasms
b.tell her it isn't working out
c.seek therapy
d.cheat
e. other solution

You know none of these options are that appealing

a. Faking is not a solution it does allow closure without hurt feelings (aside from your own disappointment)

b. No woman ever wants to hear its not working. I'm not going into details on this one.

c. Therapy do you mean for us both? Again feelings are going to be bruised.

d. Cheating? That is an option however......but the ramifications

e. In reality this is why a man might fake it. I'm sure its why women do. But a woman can (sometimes) teach a man show him what she wants. But how do you tell a woman her pussy is loose, your not moving right or she that can't fuck for shit? You don't!

 

[niggaplz]

in that order

 

[Thick Johnson]

I mean you can love someone to death but not be sexually excited.

I have been on both ends of that shit...id imagine.

I mean thats is the coolest part kinda past the pussy excitement
and really impressed and into the female..but what female wants
that knowing some new nigga will do flips for the pussy and its
fresh and new for whatever the expiration date is.

Even if its a cycle.

With both peoples hearts still in it.

I think there are a lot of couples like this that dedicated themselves
for the kids or the sake of the marriage. But a woman may feel its a
vulnerable position where as the man will see it as an opportunity to
get new pussy. (which is that vulnerable position i was speaking on)

depending on the man

 

[Thick Johnson]

But how do you tell a woman her pussy is loose,

the pussy gets air in it you have to push her stomach and get it out.

Reset the pussy

 

[ladyscorpio]

You know none of these options are that appealing

a. Faking is not a solution it does allow closure without hurt feelings (aside from your own disappointment)

b. No woman ever wants to hear its not working. I'm not going into details on this one.

c. Therapy do you mean for us both? Again feelings are going to be bruised.

d. Cheating? That is an option however......but the ramifications

e. In reality this is why a man might fake it. I'm sure its why women do. But a woman can (sometimes) teach a man show him what she wants. But how do you tell a woman her pussy is loose, your not moving right or she that can't fuck for shit? You don't!

Lawd uh mercy are women viewed as being that emotional?? Perhaps the female needs to be told in order to improve I mean if she been around and she been sexing and no one has clued her in on how to flex then maybe one could hint at her how to do it. Maybe bring it up in random conversation I but if I were in that situation I would wanna know.

 

[Thick Johnson]

 

[Mo-Better]

Lawd uh mercy are women viewed as being that emotional?? Perhaps the female needs to be told in order to improve I mean if she been around and she been sexing and no one has clued her in on how to flex then maybe one could hint at her how to do it. Maybe bring it up in random conversation I but if I were in that situation I would wanna know.

I'm not saying the woman is at fault or inadequate. If as you said "she been around" she pretty much knows what she's doing.

Its not so much about women being emotional or sensitive don't forget some women feel they've got the best pussy a man will ever find. Most women feel they can satisfy any man.

An it doesn't mean she's lousy in bed. Maybe she's small and the guy is use to bigger women.

Lets say you meet a guy and it all works for you. Your catching multiple orgasms by the dozens but he can't get his nutt off. You try everything but can't satisfy him. So he complains how would you handle it?

Tell me how you would handle it because I've been there.

BTW I know you would want to know.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

 

[onyxfemme]

I would only cuddle with someone I am in a relationship with. But shit I get hot at night and then I get like moooooooooooove and start kicking covers off of me. I would much rather cuddle during the day like while watching a movie or something.

 

[Mo-Better]

I would only cuddle with someone I am in a relationship with. But shit I get hot at night and then I get like moooooooooooove and start kicking covers off of me. I would much rather cuddle during the day like while watching a movie or something.

See this is exactly what the OP is saying. Years ago there would be something wrong with this ending. Is this progress or have women regressed?

Years ago men were not allowed to just popup and leave, not without some static. Is it meeting someone new now just about sex with no emotional attachment?

 

[Deacs]

WOW

didnt know other men did this too

You are not the only one to fake a constriction and fake a shudder. .. I think every man was placed in a predicament like that

 

[NewyorkRealTalk]

Your right women talk about men not being romantic but they rarely want to cuddle anymore. They finish jump up and run to the bathroom. I'm like whats the hurry.

I feel so used when they do that.

@ faking orgasms, I thought I was the only man that ever did that.

You ain't the only one.


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[Thick Johnson]

it will do more damage than good telling your woman she doesnt excite you
sexually. your shit will go downhill from there.

don't try that "i got a headache" shit either because they invented that one.

 

[PrettyToney]

it will do more damage than good telling your woman she doesnt excite you
sexually. your shit will go downhill from there.

don't try that "i got a headache" shit either because they invented that one.

Just went through somethin like this...last chick I was serious with had almost everything you could ask for, but the sex was TERRIBLE. I tried to ignore it at first, but it got to a point where I was fakin orgasms almost all the time. I just had to be real with her...we just weren't sexually compatible.

 

[Thick Johnson]

Just went through somethin like this...last chick I was serious with had almost everything you could ask for, but the sex was TERRIBLE. I tried to ignore it at first, but it got to a point where I was fakin orgasms almost all the time. I just had to be real with her...we just weren't sexually compatible.

shit is fucked up if she is sweet too

cause then you cant even cheat without feeling guilty as hell

I had to walk away from one like this.

if she is a bitch its fun to cheat on her

 

[will_right]

You know none of these options are that appealing

a. Faking is not a solution it does allow closure without hurt feelings (aside from your own disappointment)

b. No woman ever wants to hear its not working. I'm not going into details on this one.

c. Therapy do you mean for us both? Again feelings are going to be bruised.

d. Cheating? That is an option however......but the ramifications

e. In reality this is why a man might fake it. I'm sure its why women do. But a woman can (sometimes) teach a man show him what she wants. But how do you tell a woman her pussy is loose, your not moving right or she that can't fuck for shit? You don't!

And lastly how do you tell'em they can't suck dick for SHIT! Then you have the ones that CAN but only do it on RARE occasion..lawd i can't stand that..yet THEY want the shit every time ya get busy

 

[will_right]

Just went through somethin like this...last chick I was serious with had almost everything you could ask for, but the sex was TERRIBLE. I tried to ignore it at first, but it got to a point where I was fakin orgasms almost all the time. I just had to be real with her...we just weren't sexually compatible.

we just weren't sexually compatible? HOW tho..more detail is needed here

 

[PrettyToney]

shit is fucked up if she is sweet too

cause then you cant even cheat without feeling guilty as hell

I had to walk away from one like this.

if she is a bitch its fun to cheat on her

Yeah man...she was a real nice girl, I was cool w/ her family and everything, but she and I both had to acknowledge that it just wasn't working

we just weren't sexually compatible? HOW tho..more detail is needed here

Man, the sex was AWFUL...she was not really sexually experienced and wasn't really open to learn (a lot of "that's nasty", "i'm not doing that", etc.). Her head game was terrible too...I was literally gritting my teeth and using all of my brain power to stay hard (her teeth would "graze" me pretty bad...her response was "well, I can't take my teeth out") Just horrible.

 

[Thick Johnson]

right.

this was when i was in Atlanta. she was the sweetest

would do absolutely anything...i was a broke ass musician at that time
she loved my broke ass to death...cooked for me i live with her dropped
her of at work and had the car all day to do whatever.

some days were productive some were spent smoking playing Sega Genesis

Shit got ugly when i met this freak.

I then started picking her (my girl) up from work and going right back out.

Shit fucks with me being a dog ass nigga....i feel shitty and know karmas coming.

I ended up finding a joband moving out....lookin back that was foul

She loved me and wanted me back up to the time i got married
crying on the phone and shit. She's making 6 figures now and
has a kid by some dude who rolled out. She closed the door but
we are still mad cool.. i didn't go at her hard though...

i could prolly get in but i already know the outcome would be the same.

 

[ShortyCumStain]

@ faking orgasms, I thought I was the only man that ever did that.

WOW

didnt know other men did this too

I've done da shit on numerous occasions in da past.

 

[Mo-Better]

And lastly how do you tell'em they can't suck dick for SHIT! Then you have the ones that CAN but only do it on RARE occasion..lawd i can't stand that..yet THEY want the shit every time ya get busy

Will, I posted a thread on this VERY subject over a year ago. Needless to say it fell off the first page with a quickness. Yet as you stated we must always be on point with our game. I must admit they have some pretty funny lines about guys that don't measure up. But when the subject is them not measuring up they get ghost.

But like I said earlier how do you tell a woman (especially a new woman) she's not getting the job done. Those words can be hurtful, if its someone you really dig you say nothing in hope the sexual thing gets better. An if you note Ladyscorpio came in asked a question and never came back or bothered to leave another comment. I did think that strange.

Even though most women will disagree with me, I feel many men cheat because the woman they have at home doesn't get the job done in the bedroom. Ladies I'm being real, seriously if your man don't go off to sleep after sex you ain't done shit and you know what that's when that cuddle time kicks in. Y'all do remember the thread title don't you.

 

[playahaitian]

I've done da shit on numerous occasions in da past.

i swear that shit is like fight club then...

i have NEVER discussed this with ANYONE